How do you know if a tomboy likes you?

[Anonymous]

She's really tough and doesn't really express her feelings. We're good friends, it seems like she may be a bit nervous or quiet around me. Help?

[Hanjheo]

Ask them out is one way.

Or you can see if these help. I know my male friends can see these in me and they always tell me I'm 'one of the guys' and a tomboy.

1. Pay attention to how things have changed. A lot of the time a tomboy will be friends with you before she starts liking you. And it won't be a sudden change either. You have to be fairly observant, and this takes skill and practice.

2. Does she touch you less or show less goofy emotions? Tomboys tend to get more uptight around guys they like because they want you to think of them as girls. And to them, touching is a guy thing, and so are goofy faces. But this isn't always the case.

3. Does she emphasize the fact that she's "one of the guys"? More often a girl will try to convince you that she hasn't changed, making a noticeable change to everyone. She probably doesn't want you to turn her away or for things to get uncomfortable if you find out, so she denies it to herself and others. You can't stay friends if you know.

4. Does she get mad a lot around you? Tomboys are a lot like guys in this aspect. If they do something that they think is unattractive, they may think this will hurt their chance with you, if there is any. But you could also be ticking them off.

5. Does she hit you for no reason? Like, not the normal, you called her a girl so she's gonna whack you in the arm kind of hit. Like, you're just there and she wants to. She's probably trying to turn you off to her.

6. Does everyone else joke that you two would make a cute couple? Although it could also be you, guys and tomboys are a lot less secretive when it comes to it. It could also be just joking, but most of the time they have probably noticed something you haven't. Watch her reaction. If it's a regular annoyed "shut up", then it's probably not her. But if you see her blush and/or tense up, they could be right.

7. She probably won't confide in a guy, so look to the female friends for hints. If she looks at you like she's observing your reactions, she probably is. Though you probably shouldn't test this.

8 You have a gut feeling. Tomboys probably aren't all that sneaky about hiding their feelings. They could really be staring at you when you think they are.

[Sarahnade]

Define tomboy? I know it can cover quite a wide range of girls: those who enjoy playing sports, those who sit/walk/ talk like a guy, those who generally don't gossip and stay out of drama, those who dress guyish but act really girly around guys. I could give you more help it you describe this "tomboy" further...

[Asker]

She plays baske

[Asker]

She plays basketball, talks guyish. She doesn't necessarily stay away from gossip or drama. She dresses guyish but has long hair. She acts like one of the guys. She has a tough act but its a act. She isn't as rowdy around me as she is around the other guys and is almost scared to talk to me, she sometimes stares at me and ill smile at her and shell smile back but thats just good nature... Its confusing.

[Sarahnade]

Well then it's possible she might like you, but since she is around guys so much you need to be more gentle around her and put in that extra effort to see her response. If she starts interacting more with you, she likes you. If she draws away then probably not.

[Anonymous]

I feel like if things were casual and absolutely normal with you at one stage in the past, and now her behaviour has changed then you're in for a chance. But with a girl like this don't rush into anything just try talking to her or going on very subtle dates

[zebra_stripes23]

maybe try to get even more on her side so she can open up to you more. or, you can straight up and ask her how you feel, too.

[Anonymous]

Well, if she wants to play sports with you, she probably likes you. You should compliment her, tell her that she looks really beautiful in shorts, or sweatpants ;)

[Everadra116]

Not sure how helpful this is, but I'm kind of a tomboy, and if I like a guy, I go out of my way to try and act a little more feminine around him. That's the best I got! Good luck!

[MadameJulietta]

Does she hit you for no reason? Like, not the normal, you called her a girl so she's gonna whack you in the arm kind of hit. Like, you're just there and she wants to. She's probably trying to turn you off to her.

Good luck.

[VampireEmpress]

so she acts the opposite around you? she could like you.

[Anonymous]

HOW =
she will wrestle you
simple enough to answer this one
I was one

[jjmarvin]

This. Absolutely.

[Drakensson]

You don't and you can't. Humans are different and very dynamic

[Anonymous]

ummmm grow some and ask them ahaha, no just kidding! tomboys are hard ones, just work on her and ask her!

[Sailormoonprincess]

If she gets jealous of other girls

[pips11]

Maybe that is just how she is let her be her

[SkaterDude]

she makes purr purr sound

[Asker]

Lol what?

[Anonymous]

Ask her out or ask her friends

[Anonymous]

you will have to get really close to her.

[Ramross]

If she beats u more often!!! :D