Some girls refuse to stop playing childish games, expect guys to chase them in circles, acting hard to get, etc. and then cry about being alone on weekends lol.
A couple of my lady friends are outgoing, meet and introduce themselves to others, are assertive in communicating if they are interested or not and guess what: they are never alone on weekends! They are always going on dates, etc.
Lots of women complain that no one approaches them, but they would never approach a guy themselves. The average guy gets approached exactly zero times.
Most women who say they can't find a boyfriend either have too high standards or they refuse to approach. In my experience, anyway.
I'm pretty much forced to approach, and I'm okay with that. I would much rather be forced to approach than be forced to sit back and wait.
That's a pretty legit article I think. I actually almost never got approached. That being said I don't have those crazy high standards, they're actually kind of low lol Every woman wants/needs a different type of guy, don't be upset if you happen to be not what they're looking for. I got over the fact that I wasn't every ones cup of tea either.
i don't think it's something localised to women, I've heard many men talk about this, about them struggling to talk to women, or that women never do the reverse and go and talk to guys, and i think it's healthy for a girl to have high standards, they've just not got to voice it, and they've got to experiment, go out and meet loads of people, have fun, and meet awesome and not-so-awesome guys.
I got asked by a guy in the friend zone, told him my standards, and he is a sweetheart.
I was not physically attracted to him at all, but gave him a chance because he had the balls to ask (I almost never get asked). Now I am physically attracted to him (I even think he's sexy) and it's changed my view of dating.
Ship all the lonely women to china then since they have the same problem but with males. On a more serious note, I dont know what's going on, maybe they haven't found the right guy or they just won't put effort into approaching guys? I've been approached but I wasn't into any of the guys so I do the approaching instead.
Example the girl is fat/ugly, I can tell you 99% sure that no guy will ever approach her.
Or the girl is hot but intimidating, I'll tell you watch the pretties girl in class being look at by the guys but no guy dare approache, very sad but true
I really had something to say about this but then I noticed the guy in the front (from the guy's point of view picture) looked kinda like Waldo, and then I also noticed the building was labeled "Con Ed" in the first one but then, from the view of the woman it turned into "*magic*" and I lost my shit.
The funny thing is that the guy from the "girl's pov" has the dick outline on his pants hahahha they were more focused on the guy's dick than on the detail of the building's name xD
Funny thing, i posted something very similar to this erlier today. Along the same lines just worded different and seemed to get some hostility and judgement from it. I definitely agree with you though. Women these days seem to want a fairytale man to come sweep them off their feet, while doing jack squat themselves. Sorry ladies, but a lot of you need to realize that your not the best and only prize in the land.
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Damn we can't even want men with college degrees now? lol
A college education is the bare minimum standard for me. Compatibility is important and thats a major factor for my own standards. Guys sit around focusing of which woman looks the best, who has the right butt, boobs, weight, face, hair, etc. for him. If women want men who are educated, its not that atrocious in comparison.
"Guys sit around focusing of which woman looks the best, who has the right butt, boobs, weight, face, hair, etc. for him. If women want men who are educated, its not that atrocious in comparison."
But guys do not write women off and settle all the time for women who do do not have the right boobs, weight and face. The only thing a man turns down most frequently with women is if their overweight. Meanwhile women turn down men for ridiculous reason like not being the right race, born with the right facial features, height, having the right car, making x amount of dollars, wearing a certain set of clothes just to name a few.
You pose that question, as if there's a contradiction or exclusivity of some sort. "Good moral values" is often subjective, but I won't get into that. College graduates come with a variety of moral values, many of them what I would consider "good", and many are also hardworking. I haven't been under the impression that there's a lack of hardworking graduates with "good morals." If anything, those qualities often inform the decision to pursue higher education, along with other qualities like ambition. I'm a college graduate, and I'm applying for graduate school soon. I'm intelligent, I have good moral values, and I'm hardworking, and I'm no exception in my experience.
As to the question of why a degree is important to me, in general? A college degree is a common denominator filter, and a shared experience. People who pursue specific college degrees these days are more likely to share my interests, be on similar career paths, and have that degree as a demonstrated investment in education and developing their future careers. I won't stereotype people who don't have an interest in college or the opportunity to go, and it is certainly not true that all college graduates are created equally. However, in my own experience, it isn’t as common to have a specific type of intellectual connection with someone who is not a college student or graduate. And the insecurity complex that often comes with discussing certain topics with people who are less educated is a bit annoying with associates and friends. Being in a romantic relationship with that factor would be unbearable for me.
But a large part of it is that it’s just one of the most obvious indicators of an investment into future career, and position/income odds are often impacted by degrees. If someone is serious about his or her ambition, a degree is essential in many cases. And pursuing a college degree also indicates an understanding of how sweeping is the preferences for college graduates when employers consider candidates in many, if not most fields, especially higher positions. Someone who wants more than an extra level position in specific fields, who wants to do more, will likely understand how important a degree is. I can relate to that, and that shows that they’re on the same page and share similar values in terms of what we want for our careers. They understand the ambition that drives me and the thought and investment I put into my education and career. They wouldn’t even need to ask questions like, “Why does this matter?"
You seem to be uncomfortable with people having preferences. Most men I've ever met have racial preferences. Many men also wouldn't date women who dress in a variety of ways, especially well established men. Be serious. You're basically saying men don't care about anything, and accept everything. Everyone on the face of the earth should know that is bullshit. Men often care about race, they often care about a woman's face, they often care about the way she dresses, they often see women and think "No" and write her off. These things happen all the time.
The point i was making was not that college graduates didn't have these traits, as a way to exclude them. I was making a point that a focus, or deal breaker should not be whether person X has a certificate stating they came form Y college. If they do not they get written off.
" If anything, those qualities often inform the decision to pursue higher education, along with other qualities like ambition. "
In some instance yes and in other they are merely following along a career path because they were told to do so. Example someone from a family of doctors going to medical school not because they want to help people but because it is expected of them. This is to say, a person who did not go to college and picked up a blue collar job, or something that isn't mainstream is no where less hardworking than the person who took 4 years out to do a degree.
*The point i was making was not that college graduates do not have these traits, as a way to exclude them. I was making a point that it should not be a deal breaker whether person X has a certificate stating they came form Y college.
" People who pursue specific college degrees these days are more likely to share my interests, be on similar career paths, and have that degree as a demonstrated investment in education and developing their future careers."
I don' see how someone who decided to actively work a blue collar job, get into work force early, start their own business, would be considered any less ambitious or not invested in their career. I'm not advocating women date highschool drop outs who work at Mc. Donald but there are quite successful people who did not graduate college like Bill Gates or Mark Zuckerberg.
" However, in my own experience, it isn’t as common to have a specific type of intellectual connection with someone who is not a college student or graduate. "
I have to disagree. I've met plenty of college graduates who were actually really dumb because all they did was regurgitate back out the same info that was fed to them.
Meanwhile we have guys who actually read books after high school that could help them with their trade, and self improved themselves so they can get ahead in their career.
"You seem to be uncomfortable with people having preferences. Most men I've ever met have racial preferences. Many men also wouldn't date women who dress in a variety of ways, especially well established men. Be serious."
Sorry I've never encountered that. Most men are actually far too relaxed with their preference for women and accept them. Sure there men who will not date girls of certain race, but just from personal experience, even here on gag. Guys seem to have lower standards for women.
I'm not uncomfortable with preference, but elitism. So many kissless male virgins or guys getting rejected left and right in our society yet women continue to make claims that no one ask me out out, or not enough single guys. I just find it ridiculous.
sorry dude, but it is well known that having a college degree means that a man is most likely to get a good job and can provide for a woman. And if a woman cares about finding a man that is intellectually stimulating, a man with a college degree is more likely to fulfill that than a man that is just a high school graduate or a HS dropout. Let's be honest here man, most women do not say "i want to marry a garbage man or a bus driver"
So a woman is supposed to date a man who she is NOT attracted to? Is that what you're suggesting? We're supposed to have sex and kiss someone who we do not find desirable in the least? Just because he asked? We HAVE to date a man because he's asked? Erm...
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maybe men should stop being such whiny cowards and just approach more women, seeing as who does the approaching isn't going to change anytime soon. if there's tons of single women out there desperate for a mans attention, as you and soooooo many other guys on here make it out to be, then it only makes sense those actually making even the slightest effort stand a chance at getting someone.
Except when a normal average guy approaches a woman guess what happens... He is shot down. Why? Because he is just average. Women are more attracted to looks then what they tend to believe. For a guy, the first step is getting past the initial attraction fase. Which is when a girl is approached she doesn't label you a creeper/stalker for not being handsome. I bet you $1000 if two men were completely identical I'm terms of wealth, job, ambition, etc. The only differences are their looks and their personality. If the guy who is good looking with a mediocre personality asked the girl out she would agree simply because he is a "stud". Now if the average looking guy asked her out he will more then likely be labeled a creep...
It's like a "queen" being asked out by the worst knight in shining armor compared to the greatest peasent. She will 99% of the time go for the knight..
@schnipdip Lol!!! What if men started calling women they weren't into creepers, I can just imagine the outrage it would get, we would be labled misogynistic pigs and crap. Fortunately we are honest and say we just aren't attracted to you and don't go saying hurtful things like calling you creepers. I understand how these guys feel, before i got in shape I use to be called that and I would wonder why they would be saying such a bad thing about me when they didn't even know me. Now that I am in shape and attractive I haven't heard that word once, coincidence lol
@schnipdip if you turned her down and she refused to leave you alone then yes she is a creep. men usually call those women crazy though. regardless of the term used, same shit.
the problem is that a guy could be very nice and not creepy at all but because he isn't attractive, he is immediately labeled by a woman as a creeper, this happens all the time. Have you seen the video "women are assholes at a bar" this video speaks the truth.
actually a lot of women do label men they find unattractive as a"creeper" that is the truth, yes to many other women it literally means the guy is weird or is creepy but to a lot of women it just is a nasty way of saying they are not attracted to the man.
no, i know a lot of guys that are far from being creeps but because they are unattractive they are automatically labeled as creepers by women at bars. I've observed it when they approach a woman they are nothing but nice and not even a sentence has come out and the women treat them like crap and say "get away from me creeper" yet I've seen attractive men say completely creepy things and those same women flirt with them. I've gone through it, when I wasn't attractive I was labled creeper when I approached women and all i did was just introduce myself, but since im attractive now, I've never heard that word since... I wonder why... coincidence. You are obviously trying to use some feminist excuse and you are trying to make your fellow women look better, but we can be honest that term is usually used to just be mean towards men who women just don't find attractive and that's that.
"“No one ever asks me out,” she said. “I am lonely every Saturday night. Guys are so mean to me."
Lol so if guys don't ask you out that is being "mean" to you? Typical feminist, anything I don't like "GUYS ARE BEING MEAN TO ME!"
But yea, they are all looking for Mr. Big from Sex and the City. They refuse to consider anyone else. Just look at dating sites, any men under 6' blocked, any men making under X blocked, any men outside of a 2-4 year age range, blocked.
while i do find the height requirement thing to be ridiculous, I find no reason why a woman wanting a successful man with a college degree to be a bad thing
my point is some of the men here are complaining about women wanting a successful man, some here are complaining about women wanting men with college degrees. Hey, most women want men that can provide for them and a future family, a college degree is very important now days. no woman says "i want to marry a garbage man" or "i want to marry a landscaper"
Yea when you hear women talk about "Ambition" or "Success" read as "Rich" or "I'm a gold digger." Not "a guy who has a college degree". I grantee they will reject 9 out of 10 guys who do have one, because that isn't what they really want. Those women are tired of being called "gold diggers" (what they are) for wanting rich men so they use other words as euphemisms.
And FYI I know a lot of landscapers that are happily married. Guess the one good thing about being a landscaper is it weeds out the gold diggers, and the ignorant elitists. Don't know any garbage men though.
yeah, but women have a right to want financial security and the ability to raise future children in a healthy environment, you can't blaime them for that and n most cases men with college degrees will more likely find a a good job and provide that security for them, not saying it is always true but in most cases it is. Other women might desire a man with a college degree because they themselves are intellectual and want to be with a man that is an intellectual like them and again to those women that man will most likely be able to talk about world problems and current events, intellectual men are more likely not to have dominance issues (the need for them to be alpha and dominate ther woman), more likely to not have aggressive behavior, more likely not to have an obession with getting big like the Hulk aka bigorexia. Can't blame women for finding these traits undesirable and most likely men who are uneducated have these personality traits more than men who are educated
Ok you seem to be fixating on the whole "college degree" thing. Most of these women DON'T CARE. They just want rich. when they say "ambitious" they mean rich. If you have a college degree, but aren't a millionaire, they DON'T CARE.
not really, there are women who desire a guy who is intellectually compatible to them and if the woman is educated that will most likely mean a guy that is educated. yes many desire a man that has an education because most likely he has more of a chance at becoming rich over a guy who has no education, women desire financial security, you can't blame them for that. And again many women associate uneducated men with negative personality traits such as; aggression, dominance issues, bigorexia, etc, while this not true of all men who are not educated many uneducated men do possess these negative traits. So yes to some women it is because they want a guy that is wealthy, to others it is the need for a partner that is comparable with them intellectually, and to others it is to avoid negative personality traits that are usually associated with men who are not educated.
Bachelors in Business administration buddy, have a great job in sales. Trust me dude, some girls just want a guy that is intellectually compatible with them
In America, it can be true. They hate beauty and they want to turn all the beauty into ugly. They love dirty, smelly, out of ordinary, blah blah. Look at Lindsay Logan. Who ruined her? Everybody. They all are so jealousy of her. She is such a pretty face. They want to ruin her. I don't know why but Americans hate beauty. That's well known.
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Yeah, I don't get it. If J-Law went on Tinder or any other dating site, she'd instantly get an avalanche of messages from interested guys. And there'd be no shortage of "nice" ones who'd only want to treat her well. I usually think when a woman ends up alone, it's because she passed up every opportunity that came her way. Whereas guys end up alone because they don't like "hitting on" women or got rejected every time did.
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I think it's funny they get so bent out of shape that they actually have to put effort in and ask a guy out. 99 percent of guys always have to ask a girl out and never get asked. Those women act like never being asked out is the worst thing in the world.
some women are really never approached... and those are mostly the 'fat' and 'ugly' women... but I don't know they'll be approached at some point in their lives, they're just being impatient
@FatherJack Yeah... unfortunately. But when a man is that potentially awesome match & he happens to have an off day, that's when the selective woman rejects him because of his appearance or situation that moment... stupid... Murphy's law.
I guess I'll never measure up since I never went to college but I never had a problem getting a job as a blue collar worker and always fix my own things in the house or a car most times. They seem to be more picky in their 20s then in their 30s it seems anyway
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Some girls refuse to stop playing childish games, expect guys to chase them in circles, acting hard to get, etc. and then cry about being alone on weekends lol.
A couple of my lady friends are outgoing, meet and introduce themselves to others, are assertive in communicating if they are interested or not and guess what: they are never alone on weekends! They are always going on dates, etc.
It's not just that.
Lots of women complain that no one approaches them, but they would never approach a guy themselves. The average guy gets approached exactly zero times.
Most women who say they can't find a boyfriend either have too high standards or they refuse to approach. In my experience, anyway.
I'm pretty much forced to approach, and I'm okay with that. I would much rather be forced to approach than be forced to sit back and wait.
this is a bizarre interpretation of both these articles.
That's a pretty legit article I think. I actually almost never got approached. That being said I don't have those crazy high standards, they're actually kind of low lol Every woman wants/needs a different type of guy, don't be upset if you happen to be not what they're looking for. I got over the fact that I wasn't every ones cup of tea either.
i don't think it's something localised to women, I've heard many men talk about this, about them struggling to talk to women, or that women never do the reverse and go and talk to guys, and i think it's healthy for a girl to have high standards, they've just not got to voice it, and they've got to experiment, go out and meet loads of people, have fun, and meet awesome and not-so-awesome guys.
I got asked by a guy in the friend zone, told him my standards, and he is a sweetheart.
I was not physically attracted to him at all, but gave him a chance because he had the balls to ask (I almost never get asked). Now I am physically attracted to him (I even think he's sexy) and it's changed my view of dating.
""no one approaching them""
If they want to get shit done, they should put in effort. Just sitting around waiting won't signal that you are open for a conversation or more.
But it's probably true that people of higher education don't want to date under said level. Personally I'm sure we just wouldn't have much in common.
Ship all the lonely women to china then since they have the same problem but with males. On a more serious note, I dont know what's going on, maybe they haven't found the right guy or they just won't put effort into approaching guys? I've been approached but I wasn't into any of the guys so I do the approaching instead.
If you can't get it then go get it. The early bird gets the worm they say.
But it true :o
Example the girl is fat/ugly, I can tell you 99% sure that no guy will ever approach her.
Or the girl is hot but intimidating, I'll tell you watch the pretties girl in class being look at by the guys but no guy dare approache, very sad but true
I really had something to say about this but then I noticed the guy in the front (from the guy's point of view picture) looked kinda like Waldo, and then I also noticed the building was labeled "Con Ed" in the first one but then, from the view of the woman it turned into "*magic*" and I lost my shit.
The funny thing is that the guy from the "girl's pov" has the dick outline on his pants hahahha they were more focused on the guy's dick than on the detail of the building's name xD
Lmfao about the dick outline if I had not read your post I would never noticed the dick outline
@AleDeEurope lmfao I thought that was a wrench or something. 😂 I didn't even notice.
Funny thing, i posted something very similar to this erlier today. Along the same lines just worded different and seemed to get some hostility and judgement from it. I definitely agree with you though. Women these days seem to want a fairytale man to come sweep them off their feet, while doing jack squat themselves. Sorry ladies, but a lot of you need to realize that your not the best and only prize in the land.
Damn we can't even want men with college degrees now? lol
A college education is the bare minimum standard for me. Compatibility is important and thats a major factor for my own standards. Guys sit around focusing of which woman looks the best, who has the right butt, boobs, weight, face, hair, etc. for him. If women want men who are educated, its not that atrocious in comparison.
Why is a college degree so important to you compared to other traits like actually being intelligent, good moral values and hardworking?
"Guys sit around focusing of which woman looks the best, who has the right butt, boobs, weight, face, hair, etc. for him. If women want men who are educated, its not that atrocious in comparison."
But guys do not write women off and settle all the time for women who do do not have the right boobs, weight and face. The only thing a man turns down most frequently with women is if their overweight. Meanwhile women turn down men for ridiculous reason like not being the right race, born with the right facial features, height, having the right car, making x amount of dollars, wearing a certain set of clothes just to name a few.
You pose that question, as if there's a contradiction or exclusivity of some sort. "Good moral values" is often subjective, but I won't get into that. College graduates come with a variety of moral values, many of them what I would consider "good", and many are also hardworking. I haven't been under the impression that there's a lack of hardworking graduates with "good morals." If anything, those qualities often inform the decision to pursue higher education, along with other qualities like ambition. I'm a college graduate, and I'm applying for graduate school soon. I'm intelligent, I have good moral values, and I'm hardworking, and I'm no exception in my experience.
As to the question of why a degree is important to me, in general? A college degree is a common denominator filter, and a shared experience. People who pursue specific college degrees these days are more likely to share my interests, be on similar career paths, and have that degree as a demonstrated investment in education and developing their future careers. I won't stereotype people who don't have an interest in college or the opportunity to go, and it is certainly not true that all college graduates are created equally. However, in my own experience, it isn’t as common to have a specific type of intellectual connection with someone who is not a college student or graduate. And the insecurity complex that often comes with discussing certain topics with people who are less educated is a bit annoying with associates and friends. Being in a romantic relationship with that factor would be unbearable for me.
But a large part of it is that it’s just one of the most obvious indicators of an investment into future career, and position/income odds are often impacted by degrees. If someone is serious about his or her ambition, a degree is essential in many cases. And pursuing a college degree also indicates an understanding of how sweeping is the preferences for college graduates when employers consider candidates in many, if not most fields, especially higher positions. Someone who wants more than an extra level position in specific fields, who wants to do more, will likely understand how important a degree is. I can relate to that, and that shows that they’re on the same page and share similar values in terms of what we want for our careers. They understand the ambition that drives me and the thought and investment I put into my education and career. They wouldn’t even need to ask questions like, “Why does this matter?"
You seem to be uncomfortable with people having preferences. Most men I've ever met have racial preferences. Many men also wouldn't date women who dress in a variety of ways, especially well established men. Be serious. You're basically saying men don't care about anything, and accept everything. Everyone on the face of the earth should know that is bullshit. Men often care about race, they often care about a woman's face, they often care about the way she dresses, they often see women and think "No" and write her off. These things happen all the time.
The point i was making was not that college graduates didn't have these traits, as a way to exclude them. I was making a point that a focus, or deal breaker should not be whether person X has a certificate stating they came form Y college. If they do not they get written off.
" If anything, those qualities often inform the decision to pursue higher education, along with other qualities like ambition. "
In some instance yes and in other they are merely following along a career path because they were told to do so. Example someone from a family of doctors going to medical school not because they want to help people but because it is expected of them. This is to say, a person who did not go to college and picked up a blue collar job, or something that isn't mainstream is no where less hardworking than the person who took 4 years out to do a degree.
*The point i was making was not that college graduates do not have these traits, as a way to exclude them. I was making a point that it should not be a deal breaker whether person X has a certificate stating they came form Y college.
" People who pursue specific college degrees these days are more likely to share my interests, be on similar career paths, and have that degree as a demonstrated investment in education and developing their future careers."
I don' see how someone who decided to actively work a blue collar job, get into work force early, start their own business, would be considered any less ambitious or not invested in their career. I'm not advocating women date highschool drop outs who work at Mc. Donald but there are quite successful people who did not graduate college like Bill Gates or Mark Zuckerberg.
" However, in my own experience, it isn’t as common to have a specific type of intellectual connection with someone who is not a college student or graduate. "
I have to disagree. I've met plenty of college graduates who were actually really dumb because all they did was regurgitate back out the same info that was fed to them.
Meanwhile we have guys who actually read books after high school that could help them with their trade, and self improved themselves so they can get ahead in their career.
"You seem to be uncomfortable with people having preferences. Most men I've ever met have racial preferences. Many men also wouldn't date women who dress in a variety of ways, especially well established men. Be serious."
Sorry I've never encountered that. Most men are actually far too relaxed with their preference for women and accept them. Sure there men who will not date girls of certain race, but just from personal experience, even here on gag. Guys seem to have lower standards for women.
I'm not uncomfortable with preference, but elitism. So many kissless male virgins or guys getting rejected left and right in our society yet women continue to make claims that no one ask me out out, or not enough single guys. I just find it ridiculous.
sorry dude, but it is well known that having a college degree means that a man is most likely to get a good job and can provide for a woman. And if a woman cares about finding a man that is intellectually stimulating, a man with a college degree is more likely to fulfill that than a man that is just a high school graduate or a HS dropout. Let's be honest here man, most women do not say "i want to marry a garbage man or a bus driver"
So a woman is supposed to date a man who she is NOT attracted to? Is that what you're suggesting? We're supposed to have sex and kiss someone who we do not find desirable in the least? Just because he asked? We HAVE to date a man because he's asked? Erm...
maybe men should stop being such whiny cowards and just approach more women, seeing as who does the approaching isn't going to change anytime soon. if there's tons of single women out there desperate for a mans attention, as you and soooooo many other guys on here make it out to be, then it only makes sense those actually making even the slightest effort stand a chance at getting someone.
Except when a normal average guy approaches a woman guess what happens... He is shot down. Why? Because he is just average. Women are more attracted to looks then what they tend to believe. For a guy, the first step is getting past the initial attraction fase. Which is when a girl is approached she doesn't label you a creeper/stalker for not being handsome.
I bet you $1000 if two men were completely identical I'm terms of wealth, job, ambition, etc. The only differences are their looks and their personality. If the guy who is good looking with a mediocre personality asked the girl out she would agree simply because he is a "stud".
Now if the average looking guy asked her out he will more then likely be labeled a creep...
It's like a "queen" being asked out by the worst knight in shining armor compared to the greatest peasent.
She will 99% of the time go for the knight..
@schnipdip no. he would like to believe himself average, when in reality he's probably ugly. sorry, not my fault.
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Lol!!! What if men started calling women they weren't into creepers, I can just imagine the outrage it would get, we would be labled misogynistic pigs and crap. Fortunately we are honest and say we just aren't attracted to you and don't go saying hurtful things like calling you creepers. I understand how these guys feel, before i got in shape I use to be called that and I would wonder why they would be saying such a bad thing about me when they didn't even know me. Now that I am in shape and attractive I haven't heard that word once, coincidence lol
@schnipdip if you turned her down and she refused to leave you alone then yes she is a creep. men usually call those women crazy though. regardless of the term used, same shit.
the problem is that a guy could be very nice and not creepy at all but because he isn't attractive, he is immediately labeled by a woman as a creeper, this happens all the time. Have you seen the video "women are assholes at a bar" this video speaks the truth.
@eric644 read my question about creep shaming. attractiveness has NOTHING to do with creepiness
actually a lot of women do label men they find unattractive as a"creeper" that is the truth, yes to many other women it literally means the guy is weird or is creepy but to a lot of women it just is a nasty way of saying they are not attracted to the man.
@eric644 no it doesn't. men who happen to be unattractive and creepy use that as an excuse
no, i know a lot of guys that are far from being creeps but because they are unattractive they are automatically labeled as creepers by women at bars. I've observed it when they approach a woman they are nothing but nice and not even a sentence has come out and the women treat them like crap and say "get away from me creeper" yet I've seen attractive men say completely creepy things and those same women flirt with them. I've gone through it, when I wasn't attractive I was labled creeper when I approached women and all i did was just introduce myself, but since im attractive now, I've never heard that word since... I wonder why... coincidence. You are obviously trying to use some feminist excuse and you are trying to make your fellow women look better, but we can be honest that term is usually used to just be mean towards men who women just don't find attractive and that's that.
"“No one ever asks me out,” she said. “I am lonely every Saturday night. Guys are so mean to me."
Lol so if guys don't ask you out that is being "mean" to you? Typical feminist, anything I don't like "GUYS ARE BEING MEAN TO ME!"
But yea, they are all looking for Mr. Big from Sex and the City. They refuse to consider anyone else. Just look at dating sites, any men under 6' blocked, any men making under X blocked, any men outside of a 2-4 year age range, blocked.
while i do find the height requirement thing to be ridiculous, I find no reason why a woman wanting a successful man with a college degree to be a bad thing
Lol, get your money back on your degree, your reading xomprehension sucks.
my point is some of the men here are complaining about women wanting a successful man, some here are complaining about women wanting men with college degrees. Hey, most women want men that can provide for them and a future family, a college degree is very important now days. no woman says "i want to marry a garbage man" or "i want to marry a landscaper"
Yea when you hear women talk about "Ambition" or "Success" read as "Rich" or "I'm a gold digger." Not "a guy who has a college degree". I grantee they will reject 9 out of 10 guys who do have one, because that isn't what they really want. Those women are tired of being called "gold diggers" (what they are) for wanting rich men so they use other words as euphemisms.
And FYI I know a lot of landscapers that are happily married. Guess the one good thing about being a landscaper is it weeds out the gold diggers, and the ignorant elitists. Don't know any garbage men though.
yeah, but women have a right to want financial security and the ability to raise future children in a healthy environment, you can't blaime them for that and n most cases men with college degrees will more likely find a a good job and provide that security for them, not saying it is always true but in most cases it is. Other women might desire a man with a college degree because they themselves are intellectual and want to be with a man that is an intellectual like them and again to those women that man will most likely be able to talk about world problems and current events, intellectual men are more likely not to have dominance issues (the need for them to be alpha and dominate ther woman), more likely to not have aggressive behavior, more likely not to have an obession with getting big like the Hulk aka bigorexia. Can't blame women for finding these traits undesirable and most likely men who are uneducated have these personality traits more than men who are educated
Ok you seem to be fixating on the whole "college degree" thing. Most of these women DON'T CARE. They just want rich. when they say "ambitious" they mean rich. If you have a college degree, but aren't a millionaire, they DON'T CARE.
not really, there are women who desire a guy who is intellectually compatible to them and if the woman is educated that will most likely mean a guy that is educated. yes many desire a man that has an education because most likely he has more of a chance at becoming rich over a guy who has no education, women desire financial security, you can't blame them for that. And again many women associate uneducated men with negative personality traits such as; aggression, dominance issues, bigorexia, etc, while this not true of all men who are not educated many uneducated men do possess these negative traits. So yes to some women it is because they want a guy that is wealthy, to others it is the need for a partner that is comparable with them intellectually, and to others it is to avoid negative personality traits that are usually associated with men who are not educated.
Lol yes really, and continually trying to deny it won't change that fact.
Im beginning to doubt if you even have a degree.
Bachelors in Business administration buddy, have a great job in sales. Trust me dude, some girls just want a guy that is intellectually compatible with them
I have the same degree dude. Trust me, some girls might, some are just gold diggers.
Yeah there are some gold diggers out there, you just have to weed those out and find a girl that likes you for you
In America, it can be true. They hate beauty and they want to turn all the beauty into ugly. They love dirty, smelly, out of ordinary, blah blah. Look at Lindsay Logan. Who ruined her? Everybody. They all are so jealousy of her. She is such a pretty face. They want to ruin her. I don't know why but Americans hate beauty. That's well known.
Yeah, I don't get it. If J-Law went on Tinder or any other dating site, she'd instantly get an avalanche of messages from interested guys. And there'd be no shortage of "nice" ones who'd only want to treat her well. I usually think when a woman ends up alone, it's because she passed up every opportunity that came her way. Whereas guys end up alone because they don't like "hitting on" women or got rejected every time did.
I think it's funny they get so bent out of shape that they actually have to put effort in and ask a guy out. 99 percent of guys always have to ask a girl out and never get asked. Those women act like never being asked out is the worst thing in the world.
some women are really never approached... and those are mostly the 'fat' and 'ugly' women... but I don't know they'll be approached at some point in their lives, they're just being impatient
Or they can take the initiative that many people do in that situations and improve on their appearance, and lose weight.
indeed hahahaha
Well put !! After all a man is EXPECTED to work on himself & have ambition / shit together to even have a chance with an average woman.
@FatherJack Yeah... unfortunately. But when a man is that potentially awesome match & he happens to have an off day, that's when the selective woman rejects him because of his appearance or situation that moment... stupid... Murphy's law.
I guess I'll never measure up since I never went to college but I never had a problem getting a job as a blue collar worker and always fix my own things in the house or a car most times. They seem to be more picky in their 20s then in their 30s it seems anyway