We are told repeatedly that It is men who abuse women. Not even close to the reality, women can and do abuse men, and the results are traumatic as well. How do I know? I was stupid/in love/infatuated. The constant nagging and seeming inability to please her can wear you down if allowed to continue. The constant pressure, the unrelenting nagging, daily being screamed at over the tiniest perceived slight or oversight or breaking any of her many rules.
If we had not had a child together I would have left long ago. When I did finally leave after living for three years in a nightmare. Shortly after she became pregnant her behaviour started becoming progressively more erratic and abusive and just kept getting worse until I finally left in a desperate attempt to save myself and be capable of later rescuing our kid. I had to finally go to family court , she was suing for everything. She expected the courts to just nail me to the wall but she blew it. Under intense cross-examination she admitted that part way into her pregnancy she had decided that I would be what she wanted , a servant who did everything , paid for everything and got nothing back or she would drive me out of my mind. That changed everything. She also accused me of physically beating her for years when I have never touched a violent hand to a woman in my life. When the judge found out that these beatings I was accused of were "psychic" he could not believe what he was hearing. In her mind I wanted to hit her and that was the same to her as if I had actually done it. Apparently I was the cause of a nebulous concept she calls "distress" even though she can't define it. I told the judge that even though there were times that I wanted to get physical it never happened , not once , and she had to admit that. Lord how I wanted to but never did. Not once. She demanded the house, both vehicles, everything material that we had, plus just the alimony she thought fair far exceeded my monthly income not to mention child support. When the judge started to call her on her BS she started screaming that the judge and the prosecutor were just more men conspiring against her and cursing the judge. He shut her down and told her that if it continued she would be removed and restrained until she calmed down. All her claims were thrown out and she was instructed by the court to seek professional mental help.
That was too long ago and the damage is done. My only sin was loving too much.10 Reply
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yThat's why guys should start tearing off some boobs to keep these ball busters in check... knock the bitch out and repeatedly punch her fucking boobs. kick that dumb cunt too!!
A kick in the balls is not only EXTREMELY painful, it can cause permanent damage which will prevent you from having kids or they might have to be removed. In rare cases it causes death as well.
Such assaults should be given back TEN FOLD00 Reply
+1 yThe balls are very sensitive so that's why. But me... I'm not gunna kick your family jewels. I'm gunna punch you in the gut. That way you know I hate you but I still care about not hitting any thing that can parmenantly damage or ruin your body 😊
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+1 yCause it's taught & copied through tv
Men Created stronger than woman so it's the only way for self defense. so stupid if for argument. He should report her cuz I think it's dangerous00 Reply
+1 yLOL cause that's where the guy's weak spot is. It will get the message across. You've seen guys laugh when girls try to hit the guy anywhere else but the privates.
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I think that girl was pathetic. She was probably losing in the argument so she hit him for her to feel better.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yBecause they are taught in womens self defense classes that it's effective (it is). But then most of the time they use "womens self defense" against a man that had nothing to do with self defense. I'd say most women who ever even use those moves are just domestic abusers.
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+1 yI think girls shouldn't mess around unless it's something really serious like her being raped or in a very serious situation like that. I have never seen a guy hit a girl in the boobs at all. Girls shouldn't mess around with da balls very sensitive.
00 ReplyBecause it's an easy target and extremely effective.
50 ReplyI bet it has a perfect success rate of 100%.
It's whatever in self defense but fucked up in the situation you described. That bitch crazy30 Replyits simple , girls are much weaker so guy to girl the girl is gonna lose and she knows it so a cheap shot to the balls renders her opponent weaker for some time , its a cowardly move really sometimes there is no need to do it
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yOh ow :( . I don't know, I would if a guy attacked me and I was in danger because obviously that's the weakest point to hit, but over an argument? That's crazy, he could report her for assault
30 ReplyMost girls don't, but it's pretty messed up when anyone does do it.
10 ReplyTime to start wearing cups in day to day life, gents
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+1 ybecause apparently it´s socially acceptable to hit a guy there for the slightest reason to be angry at him... we´ve become misandrists...
10 Reply 454 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Because they are taught to.
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Asker+1 yWhy are they taught this
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@RosePink There's an axiom in martial arts "you will fight the way that you train," When "self defense" seminars are taught the instructor usually only has an hour or two to teach a group, usually of women, how to incapacitate an attacker enough that they have a chance to get away. With time constraints the way that they are the instructor usually teaches just a few basic moves and how to be situationally aware. One of the easiest, and most effective strikes that can be taught quickly is a knee to the groin, so virtually any self defense class will include it. The reason that you have not been taught that is because either:
1 you have not been through a basic self defense class
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2 you took an actual class with a trained instructor who had enough time to teach and practice better strikes
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Excellent description but I taught my trainees the brachial slap. It's along the side of the neck. It's the same place Holly Holm hit Ronda Rousey with a kick. Knocked her out for 5 minutes took over a half hour for her to recover
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Besides the one I stated there's a knee to the outer thigh or kidney then of course there's the foot stomp or heel of the hand to the nose
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Yes they are we couldn't send cops out kicking guys in the cubes And in my women's self defense classes I taught knuckle rubs groin grab not the balls the bundle of nerves slightly below hurts like hell. Pretty much the same spot on the Isnide of the thigh that when playing nice can send either sex through the roof.
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@dogman8073 I usually teach the to strike the floating ribs, kneecaps, top of the foot, armpit, the soft spot where the jaw meets the throat (Cervical Branch), and an upper cut into the stomach cavity (Cardiac Plexus). But I have the opinion that if you are in a fight you are going to a potential funeral, either your own or your opponents and if your fists need to go up, then you need to decide who is the one who ends up in the ground.
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Gibbs rule #9 Always carry a knife...
Florida rule #1 Better to be judged by 12 than carried by 6
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yGirls are not as strong as guys. The penis will hurt if hit there so obviously go for that
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Actually it's the testicles that will double hint up the penis might hurt if he was erect
Opinion Owner+1 y@dogman8073 Well I don't know personal things about penises. I just know that if I'm about to get attacked, I'm gonna hit him in that area
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yThat's messed up. I only hit or kick a guy there if he were to assault me. That place hurts.
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+1 ythey just jelly they dont have balls
they just jelly00 Reply
+1 ywe should adapt and just hit girls in the pussy when we get angry
10 ReplyLol that's over ratedaf, I sometimes even go practice before cups. It doesn't even hurt much or I have balls of steel
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+1 yWell, it kinda hurts like hell if that would happen so
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+1 yBecause you don't need any training and it hurts like hell.
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+1 ybecause it as very effective way to take down a guy
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yMaybe because that's probably the only good physical self-defense your average girls have.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yThat's what they are taught. And 99 percent of the time it's done for wrong reason.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yIf that happens I'd be sure to break her bones or cut her to pieces and feed her back to her parents.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yIf she do that I will make sure I will kick her clit and make her sorry..
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+1 ybecause there it hurts..
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+1 yBecause that's wear it hurts I assume.
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+1 yI'd have booted her right in the crack.
00 Reply984 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. I've literally never seen this happen ever.
10 Replypathetic girl, oh well.
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+1 yshe deserves to get slapped on the tit
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Girls, why do girls always go for the balls?
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