Do all women think same about short guy?
If they do so, I will give up flirting attempts.
I'm only 5'4 - a. k. a. the shortest GaGer over 18. I hate my height but I can't change it. I will always be this tall. Now I'm in a happy relationship with someone that is the same height as me. We love each other no matter whay but she sometimes tells me she wished I was taller. I tell her me too but that won't ever happen. Ofc I found it hard to find someone I would like, fight for and regardless of my height make them love me for who I am, but I did. If I can do it, anyone can! Being short is a bitch. Building and keeping up your confidence it's hard enough for just anyone but it's even harder if all the odds are against you. Just do your best and be your best self in whatever you do. That is only so much the universe can ask of you.
Dude I see you are from Sweden. It must be harder among those elves. But, it is an European country, people are more evolved. I live in Turkey, avarage Turkish man is 1.74, I'm 1.78 and about avarage. But our people have a big inferiority complex even for our avarage. Turkish women like only +1.85 guys. They are superficial as fuck.
But, we lack of them. Nearly all qualify required job are full of men engineering, medicine, chemistry etc. Turkish women are kind of redneck and primitive mostly.
I will be dead in that times)) Turkish shows are fucked up. I hate fucking Turkish series. They are all about rich people's heaven. I hate those superficial people effected by those bs shows.
Yes. Women are pretty much the spawn of satan and the only way to get them to do what you want is to have a 7 digit bank account and a top-shape body with a gigantic dick.
Don't even waste your time approaching if you are below 6 in height and penissize.
Cause short guys are closer to hell... jk jk.
Being a tall woman it always seemed as if the taller men liked the shorter girls so I see where you're coming from. In my opinion I like short guys just as much as tall guys (maybe even more so cause I find them very cute <3 ) , but some girls have the need to have attention on them, as in the media couples always seemed "cuter" if the guy was tall with a short girl, and the other way around was viewed as "odd".
What's your height?
@beacreaiveguy
I'm about 5'9 ish.
At mere 14! Oops. You will end up into a 6 ft woman and scare most menðŸ˜
@beacreaiveguy
The average man is around 5'7. Average girl 5'4.
Yes, so you would scare and intimidate both men and women.
@beacreaiveguy
Yes, and it's terrible. We get judged as much as a short guy.
So what if you get judged? at least it doesn't effect your self esteem , self worth , self confidence and day to day life
@beacreaiveguy
Haha true, I mean the only thing it effects is dating but if they have a problem it's their loss. Thanks :) .
Being a tall girl, you are absolutely absolutely OK with being with a short and much shorter guy?
And I feel so jealous of you tall people😞 it's so much confidence for you
@beacreaiveguy
Yeah totally, but not every tall person is so confident. For a guy maybe, but not as much for a girl, tall guys like short girls, short guys like short girls.
But yeah, my crush is 5 inches shorter than me, and I'm okay with that :) !!
5 inches shorter man! Don't you feel a giant next to him?😞
I would be so intimidated and feel inferior next to a girl my height as well. Doesn't he feel odd and inferior next to you?
But still being tall has HUGE advantage and people respect you a lot and are scared as well. Just it limits dating , apart from that the general life is awesome as a tall girl
@beacreaiveguy
Well I'm a very bubbly person, I'm very extroverted. So I guess because I'm a "happy person" I don't come off as intimidating, I always try to smile to make others comfortable :) .
Still I would be very intimidated by you. Lol.
I am shy and introvert
@beacreaiveguy
Haha, awe. Shy guys are cute. I actually have severe social anxiety but still manage. It's like I'm bipolar lol. Like one moment I'm just like dancing around and making really bad jokes, then the next I'm super shy and don't want to talk to ANYONE.
Perks of being a tall girl tho, I don't have to worry about being raped as much haha. :D
Lol, no fear of being raped. ya nice one. Short and shorter men would he afraid of being raped by you!😉 Lol
@beacreaiveguy
Haha, no. I could never do that to a person. I would never want to give anyone PTSD.
Ya NO girl ever rapes !😉
I don't know whats in that thread... but i would say a lot wouldn't date... and i wouldn't say "hate" either
for me personally, anyone shorter than me is just.. well no
i like really tall
taller guys just "feel" more assertive and dominant
and when you stand next to them you feel protected, cute and feminine lol
and generally speaking there are many women that dont care or actually prefer shorter
i know a couple where the woman is like 175+ cm or something like that and the guys is like 150+ cm
and they are fine
@drkcmana
why so defensive lol
and i agree... all those things usually imply more estrogen and more femininity... generally speaking
i dont see why you wouldn't want them
Because of why do you want to stand near tall guys. by the way, I'm a short 1.78 bulit, mesomorphic guy. I can kick the ass of a tall skinny guy easily. So, do you think I'm feminine still?
I dont usually care about those things, I just think I'm going to start articulating them so woman can feel like shit. Since they make us short guys feel like shit.
How do you think guys feel when you tell them you are not tall enough to make me feel safe, protected and all that, and that tall guys are more manly and better than you.
I am 176 cm by the way
@Asker
why are you taking this so personally?
and besides you asked right?
i like them muscular too... big guys generally are more appealing to me
and no one said short guys are "feminine" i just said they are not for me... and 178 cm is not that short anyway
@drkcmana
well if you dont want answers dont ask questions and dont read them
and w/e you have to say does not offend me in the least... it would take a very insecure woman to feel offended by that
and again, i never said they are less manly or less capable of protecting i said I "FEEL" this or that way when a taller guy is standing next to me... and also , again, 170+ is not that short
You say that tall guys make you feel protected and that they are more assertive and dominant. Thats a direct blow to short guys, you are saying they can't be dominant and you cannot feel safe with them.
Whatever, the only thing I can say to you is that if you want a tall guy you better be a "real" woman with big ass, big boobs and curves otherwise you are in no position you tell a guy he's not manly, dominant enough for me
and for both of you... i said if someone is "SHORTER THEN ME" its a big no no.. not just any short guy
if you can't handle the answers then dont ask... smh
Fuck sake. How tall are you? Fuck feminity, I love nerd masculine women by the way. They are more intelligent and I'm a sapiophile.
I think if a girl says she want a tallER guy, that is 1cm, 2cm, 3cm whatever just a taller guy, thats reasonable. My personal opinion is that no girl who is not a "real" woman with big ass, boobs, curves can have ridicolous requirements that he needs to be 188cm or something. You're in no position to tell men under that height that they are not manly enough because you are not feminine enough.
good for you.
ok great.
I'm 6'5 and very muscular, but a woman like yourself is just.. well no. No sane guy will tolerate a woman who's discriminatory towards short men, that's a red flag. If YOU ever stood next to me, I would simply walk away, for you don't deserve me, or honestly anyone who's "Tall". You're going to have a very difficult time in the dating world if this is how you are. You shouldn't rely on men for protection, that's a stereotype that's not reality, you can still defend yourself if you ever feel the need to.
I've got countless guy friends that are under 6 feet, and all of them have beautiful girlfriends, some are even taller than them, and all of whom love each other. The taller girlfriends also love acting dominant towards their boyfriends. As for you lady, I think it's time you start dating men shorter than you, and then tell us how much you're in love with them.
No. Stop this short guy nonsense. Women like confident men. If a short guy has more confidence than the tall guy I'll take the short guy. I like manliness and not all guys have this. Forget about tall and short.
Don't generalize. Every woman's preference is different. Although, for me, i would like my guy to be taller than me. Why? Because i'm sooooo short already. Haha!
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I am a woman and I only care about how a guy treats me.
-.- good lawd #generalisation638 I'm so over this height thing. most of us are too short to care by the way.
638 huh? That 1000 take should be along by September then :D.
I wonder what people actually do in their lives or during their day that makes them dream up these conclusions... seriously lol
Wow. I have missed a lot. The last time I saw it was close to the 300 mark or so. Have gag really been that bad or worst?
2 short 2 care.
Really, you're getting your information from Twitter?
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Maybe you should give up.
Yeah, the 3.5 billion of women on this planet hate and want to kill every male that's shorter than 6'5", duh. >.>
I don't think so? I've dated a guy shorter than me, it's something I didn't even think about lol. I see it a lot on here though, so it confuses me. It's so shallow to be like that to someone over something they have no control over. Not saying its wrong to have preferences, but bringing someone down or refusing to date them just over their height? That's just wrong.
Same here. If I find a guy attractive I find him attractive. I really don't get these short guy questions. I think guys think it's their height that is not getting the girl but I can bet my money on it it's something else.
I'm tall and I don't mind short guys. I've always been attracted to guys of my height or shorter. I've recently dated someone who wasn't taller than me and I felt protected and all that shit.
Whats your height?
Not all women. Probably mostly tall women, but even some of them will like short men. Not me personally, but I'm sure they exist.
I hate proud tall women. Being proud of your height is analog of being proud of your race. They are heightist bitches for me.
Tall woman are not entitled to tall men. And depending how desirable they are they may have to give shorter guys a chance.
If you are a girl who seeks a masucline, 6'2+, muscular with a handsome face dude you better have big boobs, big butt, curves, cute face, otherwise you standards dont match what you can offer.
Exactly people should know their place.
Woman who have curves, big ass, big boobs, cute face can require guys to be tall it makes sense. Woman who are skinny, have small boobs, small ass have no right to require such thing.
Short guys, I dont know what you consider short, I am 176cm/5'9 and everyone calls me short, has no right to require curvy woman. Tall guys do.
People should know their place and have requirements that match, you see
@Lavillage or whatever, why do you think all women love beastly masculine men? Some women are sapiosexuels. He should accept anything. You can't decide your height, so judging people by it is like racism. You can't choose your race too. If you are a redneck white-pride, I don't say anything for your arguments. You can find your -80 iq, beastly, redneck in everywhere.
You better have a big butt, big boobs, curves a cute face and the perfect body to diss a guy like that. If you want to say I am not man enough, you better be in such position.
I have less issue with guys calling me short when they are much taller than me, they've been born with that right. But certain woman who are not much to look at calling other guys short, thats just laughable
@la villager You and your boyfriend and all of us will be decayed earth in the possible future. So, what is the point of making suffering people due to smth they can't choose? Are you a sadist?
How can I not take it personal, do you realize what its like being told you're not good enough or man enough because of something i have zero control over. I just recently saw a poll here where woman look at short guys the same way guys look at fat girls. The difference is that a fat girl can get in shape and become desirable. I am stuck as a fat girl may whole life.
So I wish to all woman who puts guys through this to also get told they are not adequate enough for something they cannot control, maybe then they can see how shitty it makes you feel
@drkcmana all I see is a child having a temper tantrum because he didn't get his way. Not everyone is going to find you attractive and that's just the way life is. Accept that you're not everyone's cup of tea and move on. It doesn't mean that someone won't find you attractive because I don't. I didn't suddenly become the representative for All Women Everywhere.
I am 21 (my actual age, not the profile one) in college getting my masters in engineering, I dont need anyone telling me I am a child.
I dont find you attractive either, unless you have a big butt and curves, dont know why you brough it up I wasent hitting on you. But where I live the girls are pretty damn tall, and if most of them think like you, then I am pretty much screwed. You say you're not representative of most woman, not too sure about that one. In highschool I was rejected by a girl that was 170cm/5'7 which is even smaller than me. I cannot imagine how a tall girl would even view me.
How is getting defensive acting like a child. I am getting told I am not manly, good enough for taller woman. I do my best to find other ways to make up for it, and to be more appealing to woman of your stature and compete with tall guys but nothing I ever do will be good enough. You would probably choose a tall uneducated, good for nothing, fat slob, who still lives with his mom over a guy of my height. Its a checkmate for me
@drkcmana How tall are you? I'm 5'6. Sure, its harder when we are outside the norm, but I've had girls interested in me that were 2+ inches taller.. I'm not that great looking. One of my earliest and favorite memories is a female school teacher who I thought was the bomb... her husband came to school once to bring her stuff and he was shorter than me. He was a chemical engineer:)! She said she remembered first meeting him and the very first meeting they knew they were right for each other.
So don't take so seriously what is being said. Sure, there are girls that won't give you a chance... that is their issue for filtering out probably really good men (the ones that are mature and can handle rejection;) and thus she is losing out. Same way we are filtering out some women who are good women because of some criteria. Definitely get more education/training/ and self esteem development... that IS the solution. my experience... it is all about confidence. Even tall guys bomb out...
@lightbulb27 Like I said. Not my cup of tea, but I only speak for myself.
@lightbulb27 I am 5'9
I dont care at this point. Least I am taller than most girls and those that are taller than me are usually stick figures, with limtited female curves and ass. Not my type, does nothing for me.
Shorter woman are more feminine anyways.
But you're right the best thing to do is to just focus on oneself
you are entitled. any idea why you only like guys of X height? some male role modle in past? just feels more manly? curious.
my prior reply was to the opinion owner LaVilaine.
you are 5'9 and other women are taller than you... where do you live? That isn't short in my book but I'm 3" shorter. I don't think you have much to worry about, I'd focus on self esteem... women feed off that. best wishes.
@lightbulb27 I have never really thought about it but all the men in my family are tall. Like 6'+ tall. I'm not short myself and I like to wear heels. I dated a dude who was my same height and he would get pissy whenever I wore heels (because let's face it, as far as fancy shoes go, heels are typically prettier).
@lightbulb27 No most woman are not taller than me. Some are taller woman are often less attractive body type wise since they more times than not come with the boyish stick figure with small boobs and booty. So its not a huge loss for me
well that makes sense, it is your reference point for what is attractive and probably would feel odd bringing him into that group... and all the psychological trauma of that prior BF:) lol
I like tall girls and heels always look good... I would have been fine with it. were all different.
@lightbulb27 he had a lot of issues.
We all have a lot of issue sometimes we need to just let it out, which is not something I can do around my friends and my mom would probably slap me around and call like you said a little bitch. But yea you are right, I am bitching over woman not finding me attractive when I dont even want them in the first place, like I want everyone to find me attractive which is unrealistic. But like a said, its not a loss for me anyways, so I ought to stop overthinking it.
That's horrible. Don't pay attention to that Twitter page.. I don't mind shorter guys as long as they're taller than me. There are short girls out there too... Just find someone you're taller than
How tall are you?
5'5". I had a boyfriend for 2 years that was only like 5''7"
I don't hate short men, but if you're below 5'2", I likely won't find you attractive. Same way a guy who likes thin girls won't date a fat girl.
You're not short OP and you're handsome so don't worry.
Being handsome without +6'2 is nothing in where I live. Our women choose by their primitive instincts controlled by back of the brain. A good face, intelligence, personality are no important for them. I want to date a Asian woman in the future. I guess they must be into short guys due to their father figures.
Do you really NEVER see couples on the streets where a guy is short? I do. So obviously all women don't hate short guys -_-
I wouldn't say hate, but for some girls it can be an issue. I'm 5'6", so I'm short for a man, and yes I had some issues with it.
Only women who are taller than you, it's really simple...
I wouldn't say hate but they probably aren't attracted to them and look down on them ocassionally.
No I'm short and short enough to find the RARE occasion where a man is shorter than me
It's funny to me when women who are five foot three put in their Tinder profile:
"I only want men who are 6 feet".
I am 5'10" and I have went out with a few Tinder women who have said this and they couldn't even tell the freakin' difference
Nooo, there are a lot of attractive short guys out there. I would totally date a short guy if I liked his personality and found him attractive.
Since you said all, then it's definitely a no; everyone just have preferences
Tom Cruise really struggles with women then settles for hideous freaks.
I don't trust short people, the only reason to be short is because they're always sneaking around.
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