In my life I've been around and seen so many black girls who do well in school, going to good school, getting good grades, trying to make something of themselves and who have dreams of becoming high paying professionals like lawyers, doctors, engineers. Some girls even graduate valedictorian of their class. However, something puzzles me. These girls are around black men who are also working on making something of themselves and doing well in school and if their open to dating outside their race men in general with this mindset. But they don't go for those type of guys, for some reason a lot of these girls go with guy's with ghetto mindset no career/education aspiration, who dress up like thugs, and all about swagger and looking cool.
And it looks like a lot of these guys who are with them are banking on these women to take care of them for life when they become successful and basically be freeloaders.
I would like to know why so many black women still take the street thug to be their lover when they have intelligent black men around them with drive to make something of themselves?
Why so many Intelligent, over achieving, BLACK WOMEN date thugs and BLACK MEN who are near total losers?
This is a real US problem. But i got this guy because over here in the Netherlands i also see black girls dating thugs and shit. They can say that the confidence is the part but then they too dumb to see what's behind that confidence.
The most fucked up part is that they end up with life support money and 5 kids of 3 fathers. That is also the reason why you see most succesfull black families are mixed with white people.
Those women are not high quality women. In some cases they are drawn to low quality guys. In other cases they simply couldn't get a better man if they begged so they settle for this guy while telling themselves that they made a choice. Similar to how a lot of single moms get into a relationship with a spineless guy and think they actually chose him over a guy with a backbone when actually they just got the only kind of guy interested in their BS situation. I'm generalizing but yeah.
And I'm not saying these black women are low quality because of race. It's because of their behavior. I once pointed out that black women -- according to stats -- are the best at marketing themselves as low quality if you look at the single mom birthrates. A woman who can't get/keep a good man is... what it is... Of course there's a lot of high quality black women too, but those aren't the ones begging losers to date them, right?
On a side note, the number of white single moms is rising fast too. You have this time of woman in every racial group.
Most black women are three O-overweight/obese, overbearing and because society (and their equally fugly ghetto mother) tells them black men suck, they believe themselves superior to even us handsome Bradys. Most believe handsome, educated black men, unmanly, and thugs the black male ideal because of their ignorant swag. There are even beautiful, educated black women who consider men of their education men lacking true black maleness and street cred, so they avoid them for ugly, dumb rappers, criminals and the like.
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A lot of black men are in jail so they have no options..
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