Why do so many people trash black women all the time and overlook them when it comes to dating? Aren’t they more valuable than most people realize?

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I’m not saying black women are my top preference overall but there are still many of them that I absolutely would consider dating.

I’ve had both good and bad experiences with them but collectively overall I still think they are a great option.

But I feel as though so many people these days still enjoy trashing black women all the time. Calling them ugly and saying they act all loud and aggressive and ratched and all this other stuff played out on the media.

But in my experience that’s only really if you spend your time looking at the worst examples. Most of the black women I’ve come across aren’t really like how they’re usually portrayed on TV or in the media.

Most of them actually seem like genuinely friendly people. I know a lot of them that are very loyal to people when it comes to friendship. A lot of them are still everyday people you can connect to that don’t overcomplicate the issues. Most of them aren’t very political or activist. Unlike *cough* white liberal women, who are obviously the worst of everybody.

A good number of them are attractive as well but obviously sometimes the culture can be a little bit different.

But box braids are certainly something that looks great with certain women. ❤️😊

ct1243 · Accepted Answer

I don’t care to engage with non black women at all. Not for conversation and definitely not to friendship. I’ve heard of a lot of non BW prefer BM , but hate who created them. A lot of the stalker behavior comes from non BW and BM who are obsessed over BW. My current girlfriend is black all my GFs will be within my race. Everyone wants to look and be like BW ( conferring ) to non BW.. take Kim Kardishan for example her being with a BM ( Kayne West ) still made her to be a single mother and trashy. Like I told you BM and non BW are made for each other. Not every BW is trashy , ghetto, and disrespectful. Every BW I deal with was classy and still is well mannered and in college. BM condone this behavior of non BW talking down on BW. Non BW weren’t doing this until they started dating BM and making it none. What other races of women don’t know is when BW completely disregard BM for good ( pretend ) like they don’t exist BM won’t be of any substance. BM have devalued the BWs image and reputation if I weren’t GAY I still wouldn’t date a BM

doopayo · Accepted Answer

Because they love to generalize black women as ghetto, loud, angry, etc so we aren’t deemed as attractive to the point actual black women who are attractive, which are many in my opinion. Are called “pretty for a black girl”

Black women are underrated and this effects dark skin black women heavily especially since they also have to deal with colorist black men who don’t like them cause their skins dark since the black community has that’s problem

The_Maphio · Accepted Answer

Personally I find their looks too outlandish for my tastes.
The current social situation in America would make me think twice about getting with a black person as well, because of all the racist shit that blacks are trying to push onto everybody not being of their own ethnicity.
As an italian though, the only reason is tied to looks. Not my type.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

The problem is that it’s more common than not that black western women (especially in the US) are aggressive and act like “ratchet” types when they are angry. They wear hair hats, fake ghetto nails, and basically look and act like the stereotype. Fornicating with anything and being single mothers of some thugs child or multiple thugs children.

Pegases · Answer

Some black women shoot themselves in the foot. Some actually are loud, have bad attitudes, and focus exclusively on ways to extort men for money to make up for the fact that many aren't approached as much as other races of women. Additionally, most black women have become a victim of hookup culture, and are unlikely to be able to settle down as a result. This has created an excessive amount of bitter black women, whom often have children that end up just like them. This dates back to segregation, and slavery. Black people in general face many obstacles due to racism and inequality, and black women face even more. Black women are even more likely to die during childbirth which has been proven to be a result of racism. So in many ways, the way many black women act makes sense, but unfortunately, the result is what we see today. In my experience, most black women have had troubled pasts, which has made them calloused and masculine. That being said, the black women that are fortunate enough to have had a great upbringing, are truly amazing in my experience as well.

kkirk4442 · Answer

If I were dating, I would certainly date black girls. And Asians, and white.

Anonymous · Answer

Cause they are disgusting racist dumbfucks lol. For all the karens no im not black i am arab and i’ll address your BS too.

karaspara · Answer

It's just another ridiculous stereotype i know several lovely black women that any guy would be lucky to date

Exterminatore · Answer

Why do you keep asking questions about different races of women. In regards to this one I’ve only heard black men talking trash about black women. I don’t know why.

Anonymous · Answer

The Last Black Girl I dated stole my credit cards, IDs and membership cards then She took my watches, smartwatches, USB thumb drives, SD cards. When the cops came they gave me their classic bullshit excuse.

JesseJayNeak · Answer

I tried doing that. Didn't end well and I'm black myself

Anonymous · Answer

Question asked by a white person... for white people. That's not the only perspective...

Browneye57 · Answer

Racist diatribe. GTFO

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