Girls, My girlfriend takes self defense classes and wants my help?

[Anonymous]

So, my girlfriend just started taking girl's self-defense classes recently. She always approaches me really excited to show me what they've learned that day and says that she feels safer because of it. But the last few days she's been saying that she'd like to get some extra practice and would like to practice on me. Now, I'm pretty frail and I weigh less that 100 pounds, so... that kinda worries me, Especially, since they just learned how to correctly hit, kick, and overall hurt a guy in the nuts. She said she wants to try that on me since all their partners are female, and after explaining to her how painful that would be, she still wants to do it to feel safer.

Should I do it for her? How much of it should I help her with? Will she understand if I say not to do it too hard or will she judge me on that?

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+1 y

Um, I'll give you a cookie for an answer?

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+1 y

hello?

[TokyoGhoulLover]

Say Hell no, what the fuck is wrong with her? -.- try approaching her with a large knife and saying "Uh hey babe? I just learned how to skin chicken breast in cooking class today! But Im a vegetarian, so can I practice on your breast? I'd feel safer" get the fuck out of there. Tell her to go to an MMA gym and ask someone! Jeezus

[Asker]

Haha, pretty interest analogy but I'll take it. The thing is, I don't think she'll do it full force or anything.

[TokyoGhoulLover]

Dude I've grown up with men all my life. That place is a mine field. Don't do it. Think of the children T-T

*daddy daddy y did you let her kick me! now imma dye my hair plaid when Im a teenager due to conflicting feelings!*

[Asker]

Um, sorry, but what's a mine field. I didn't understand XD

[TokyoGhoulLover]

wait, are you not from an English speaking country pardon my asking, but a mine field is a field that has a bunch of landmines buried underground randomly, and what I was going for in my analogy, you don't know if an accidental brush against the family jewels will leave a guy sprawling in agony

[Asker]

Oh, no no no. English is my first language; it's just that I didn't get the metaphor. But now I do, and yeah, those things are SOOO sensitive, I once accidentally turned over weirdly in bed and was curled up for several minutes regretting my life XD I don't think my girlfriend truly understands that it hurts? I mean, there's know way for her to know...

[TokyoGhoulLover]

'-' ever try a video? ... or a song? or a poem?

[Asker]

0_o a poem about my nuts? lol that might work XD

[TokyoGhoulLover]

XD Yes! Just Yes!

[FashionQueen86]

If you don't want to do it, don't do it. Frankly, I don't see why she would want to subject you into that kind of activity anyway. Just say no. Don't make it difficult then it should be.

[Asker]

I'm just scared that maybe she'll be disappointed that I didn't help her.

[FashionQueen86]

Don't ever be scared to stand up for yourself or the things you do and don't want to do. You should be comfortable in your relationship and if she's the type to make you feel bad about certain things or give you cold shouldering vibes, then you may want to reconsider this relationship.

[BuchitaBuchys]

Tell her no! Protect the family jewels at all costs

[Asker]

Heheh... her hurting my jewels does not seem like it'd be a comfortable experience. I guess I could tell her no, but she'll probably think I'm weak if I say that I can't take it.

[BuchitaBuchys]

Um, hit her titties and let's see how she likes that lol

[Asker]

I've actually accidentally did that to her and she says it doesn't really hurt that much, so maybe that's not quite an effective thing to do XD

[BuchitaBuchys]

This girl is made of steel lol I don't know then but I wouldn't kick a guy there, it's painful to them!

[Asker]

Haha, believe me, I have those things dangling between my legs 24/7. I know what horrors they can do to us 😁. My girlfriend doesn't seem to get that though! She did ask me a bit sheepishly but she's quite adamant on me letting her try it.