To keep things concise, I'm 16, 6 foot with a slightly larger muscular build. I'm not trying to be cocky but I have been told I'm handsome but it seems like girls are giving me the cold shoulder a lot more often than my friends. With most girls, I start talking to them and it goes well but they have personalities like they're asexual. I'm a confident reserved man but do initiate most conversations with girls. Guys has this happened to you and how do you lower their intimidation? Girls has this happened to you and what do you suggest I do to get more girls to open up with me? P. S. My hair isn't so up and unnatural looking like that anymore 😂
I'm 20 years old and If I like a man I will still act weird in fact the more I find someone attractive the more I will pretend like I don't. I know it's silly but it's just how I am. I just get embarrassed around guys I like and try to cover it up by being cold with them other wise I'd probably just stand there giggling like an idiot I also can't flirt to save my life. So these girls may just be socially awkward like me lol or maybe they are just shy or lack confidence and if you are confident around them it may intimidate them a little.
oh yesss, but it looks soo cute. There was a girl (she's actually cute herself too), had crush on me. When we confronted each other when passing, she made her face like cartoon. Also once she was walking beside me and being spacey, she just bumped on the wall... lol
@fermatote lmao that's basically me I actually walked into a door once trying to get away from a guy that I liked but walked away as quick as I could before anyone noticed 😂😂
Some girls are shy (can't relate) and don't go up to guys, but usually shy girls won't talk to anyone and have trouble even talking to other girls. Some guys come off as if you have to be this certain level of hot to talk to him. I've felt that way before so I just didn't try. It's more about making it clear that you're interested in girls at the moment. I think appearance plays little role, just more the idea of guys make some girls nervous.
I asked the exact opposite a couple of weeks ago because the same thing happens to me. You're a good looking guy, but usually some girl would approach. You're sixteen. Do you act less mature than girls like? Are you hanging around the same girls you did in elementary school. I'm not sure what's causing it, but be yourself. Show girls that you're a nice guy by maybe approaching a couple of them.
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I'm actually way mature past my age and a more reserved person. I smile but maybe not enough like other people were suggesting.
In fact the maturity thing might be the problem cause the guys at my school with girlfriends are all less mature than me. I think you're onto something 😂
No! girls today seem to favor the braggard, the bully and the jerk. They don't care what you look like, walk across any campus in this country and I think you'll get my point. Just be loud and obnoxious, that what women are atttracted to
lol you're honestly not attractive to me, maybe it's because you're younger and I mean you're clearly trying but it's not working for me. So they might just really not find you handsome after all.
Um well it depends on who the girl is and what kind of confidence she has, some attractive men do intimidate me to where I wouldn't dare to breathe in their presence personally you don't intimidate me even though you are attractive. if she is they shy type you might
I think you're quite attractive tbh and yeah i've been shy af around guys I like and yeah just be ready to carry the conversation and make her feel more comfortable talking to you.
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Anonymous
(25-29)
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tbh you aren't attractive to me, your facial structure is too wide, eyes are too far apart, bushy eyebrows, and you have a stubby nose. If girls are giving you the cold shoulder they probably aren't interested.
Girls generally are only intimidated by guys they like / have a crush on and not by every handsome guys they meet.
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Anonymous
(30-35)
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It's because you're very attractive and they think that they're not pretty enough to talk to you. I'm extremely shy and if I see an attractive guy, I would be extremely nervous to the point where I have a panic attack.
->short face ->handsome objectively u dont look good at all tbh, but ur haloed hard by very good skin and hair.
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Anonymous
(18-24)
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Yes, a girl can secretly want to fuck you on the inside but on the outside she never makes eye contact nor talks to you. She'll act shy. If she's an outgoing girl, she'll tease you a lot
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