Confidence should matter to everyone! Why would you disregard lack of confidence and the low self esteem that usually comes with it as not important? I would question any guy who felt that way. It indicates a lot of red flags in terms of character and what kind of relationship that person is looking for or what they would accept tbh.
Confidence is attractive in interaction with people. he's more likely to approach you, first, and more likely to easily engage in conversation and be open to getting to know you. Guys who lack confidence most likely are going to exhibit exactly that when they encounter women they like and that puts a huge strain on the woman. Don't forget the issues that often come up in relationships with people who lack confidence - insecurity, jealousy, possessiveness, passive aggressiveness, feelings of inadequacy, resentment at your confidence and your life, etc. No thank you, absolutely not.
It starts off with the impression. You're just not as likely to be as comfortable and engaging if you have no confidence. But beyond the barrier of initial attraction, I think there are several reasons why any woman (or man, for that matter) should be cautious when entering relationships with partners who have low self-esteem and/or low confidence.
If you dont have confidence, your priority should be self-improvement and becoming comfortable with yourself and facing your fears. I've had to go on that journey myself and I think I'm a much better partner for it. I'm not perfect, but much better than where I used to be. You really can contribute a lot of negativity to any relationship if you're not okay with you first. I'm attracted to men who value themselves as well as women and engage in the self-work necessary to confront these issues.
It's important to have self confidence because if you don't, people can sense it and you would be less likely to be approached by someone who finds you attractive but if that occasion DOES happen and he approaches you, your relationship may end up being super rocky because he could throw compliments at you all the time but if you keep blinding yourself from them and keep moaping on about how little you think of yourself, eventually your partner's going to believe it as well no matter what gender you are. I used to be one of those people and realized how much of a drastic difference it can be with a little self confidence.
When a guy isn't very confident or doesn't have a lot of self esteem he doesn't typically take that step to show the girl that he likes her. So unless she's really fighting for him she won't even notice guys that don't appear to be flirting.
Confidence is important because it helps you achieve your goals in all aspects of life.
My fiance isn't very confident and it doesn't bother me. Im not very confident myself
Unconfident gals often end up with mean partners (both male & female) who hurt them. Confidence attracts mentally healthy people.
confident people get what they want
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