Well, depending on the girl, she can send signals for many, MANY reasons. Maybe she's unsure about the way she feels about you. She might think it's too early to start a relationship, or maybe she's not sure if you would respond positively. Sometimes, girls who hate to ask guys out would send mixed signals as a way to say 'I like you, but I don't want to make the first move,' Either way, you shouldn't ignore her.
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I never mean to! Usually I'm really dense, so I don't realize when I'm being hit on unless it becomes painfully obvious. And I tend to panic and close up when I like a guy, because I'm awkward and shy and I feel like I'll say something stupid.
Because from birth, they're always told that 'men' would find it emasculating if girls were to initiate any potential for a relationship.
(... I've noticed you're 13. Give it some time.)
They may be kinda sorta already in a relationship, or are unsure who you are and won't commit to anything without knowing you better.
Or they may know the truth about you, so naturally they hesitate, even if they find you attractive.
Girls don't give mixed signals unless they're playing games. Girls go after what they want. Become what they want. Or just get out of the game completely and leave the bullshit up to guys who know what they want...
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Perhaps they are not. It is probably a matter of those girls not knowing what they want. It's most usually not a reflection on you. This doesn't change with age, by the way. Happy hunting!
She's playing a game, or you misread her signals, or she enjoys flirting/attention too much (which she may or may not be consciously aware of), or in very rare cases she's legitimately trying to make up her mind.
we are sometimes debating what to do in our heads and are confused with our own thoughts and actions
Girls *think* their signals are clear.
That's an error.Cause your 13 and we don't know what the fuck we want.
ya sorry we do that, but in our defense its hard to read your emotions and its also hard to understand our own feelings, they fluctuate so much
Women are evil and always playing some SICK mind games...
Because they don't know how to fucking communicate.
not all girls do. only girls who don't know what they want do that!
They don't know what they feel. Their trying to figure it out
Because we don't want to be seen as desperate.
Because they can and, for them, it is fun!
for example?
cause they are a confused lot
because they are also not aware how they feel
It's just what we do
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