He has never been able to figure out what his passion was in life. He knew what he enjoyed doing, but he couldn't seem to find what he wanted as far as a career was concerned. Well a couple of months ago he got a new job working as a car salesman. Up until that point, we had a peaceful routine. We have a daughter and we were a family. But things changed as soon as he started the new job. His work hours were very long and he saw a new found self-confidence in himself.
So now, he has broken up with me twice in the last 2 months. He started going out to the bars to hang out with his new salesman friends and he told me he needed to take some time to have fun and not be in a relationship. He said he still loves me and doesn't want anyone else. He says he is just confused.
But things have escalated now to the point where it seems the kind of life he wants isn't compatible with our relationship. He says he still wants me in his life, but he doesn't want to be tied down. I know that most of you will probably say he is just taking some time to figure things out and I should give him space. But I need more depth into what he is thinking. I mean, he seems like he is becoming a different person and I think he will regret this decision if we never work out. But I don't know what to do. I don't want to be hurt by him anymore, but if I move on then that is it. It will be over. Please help!
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