My girlfriend is very money minded. She says she has changed. Please see details Will she actually ever change?

[Anonymous]

for my girlfriend money is very important. She is never satisfied with the salary i earn. We both are planning to get married. Recently she said she's changed and won't think about money a lot. But i wonder will she really change in the long run or its just for time being. once we get married issues regarding finance shouldn't arise again. What should i do?

[Psylock]

your future decisions are yours to make mate but if it was I'd consider it a problem since I don't really trust such issues won't arise again specially after marriage and they occasionally lead to an unhappy marriage but after all it depends on the girl and you that was my opinion, I don't like girls with money focused mind :).

[Asker]

u meant unhappy or happy marriage?

[Psylock]

Unhappy marriage, problems between husband and wife over money income leads to unhappiness, not everytime though if it's to encourage a better life style to the family then it might be productive but if it's the wife or husband being simply unsatisfied with what they have and wanting extra unnecessary stuff then that's a problem. let me put it like this " be satisfied with you have then try to get more, if you can't remain satisfied and try again, if you can then thank god, be satisfied and try again" if my girlfriend or wife can't do that with me then that's a problem.

[ANITKUMARVERMA]

okay... tell me one thing you really want to check her...
i am young but í can tell you the best way.

[Asker]

how?

[ANITKUMARVERMA]

for men...
you can see your girlfriend is loyal or not when you will be a broke.
you told she like money. just. act like you became broke for some days.
you have nothing...

[samhradh_leannan]

You'll have to talk to her about it more to ensure that she is committed to her change of mindset. Maybe she has realized that her expectations were unreasonable and materialistic. People are capable of changing.