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willing to bet most of those "friends" want to be more than friends with you.
What if they actually don't find her attractive or they have a girlfriend
@ItsAMeWeirdo I have girl friends but I don't chill with them. I don't give them much attention I mean we talk once in awhile its great to get a female perspective on something but as far as like being great friends with a female? Na not really. So I suspect guys that claim to be friends with a girl actually just want some ass.
I agree but there is a big difference then liking someone and just wanting to fuck someone. And I know guys that would fuck anything that moves. So when people say they can't be friends with a female because they want to bang them, you can still be friends but it's just sexual attraction not romantic attraction. With that logic bisexual people can't be friends with anyone.
So I understand your point of view but it doesn't really mean anything, there are plenty more women in the world other then your female friends.
@ItsAMeWeirdo yea... okie dokie
Well nothing. But im curious to know, have you slept with any of them?
nope.
You will probably have a greater chance of finding that desired mate from a big circle of friends 10 years down the track.
you mean because I have more make friends or just a large group later in general
Then they live happily forever and after.
Male friends
maybe I don't know
It's too soon for you to know. You will see it later in future.
I have a good mix of both and honestly I think you just happen to vibe with someone then you can be good friends regardless
Doesn't really matter to me as long as she remains loyal
That she gets along with males better.
I'm noticing the older crowd is being a bit more mature about the subject. a lot of younger people mostly guys, think of her as a slut. which could be true for some but a lot just see it as a universal fact.
Either they are hot and don't get along with other girls because other girls hate, or they like to be with guys and can't get along with other girls cuz they're sluts, or they're tomboy's who just don't have anything in common with most girls.
I imagined I would get jealous and assume one of her male friends that's better looking than me, has known her longer and knows her better than me wants to get me out of the picture take my place.
Girls with more guy friends are WAY more likely to cheat. It's proven. Science.
more options exposure I guess. not ok but true.
I'm not judging.
I have a lot of girl friends and I have cheated on the past. Sex is so available to you when you're... surrounded by the opposite sex :P
either tomboys, girls who dont want drama from other girls, or slutz. lol.
I'm a tomboy and I hate drama and they protect me from my big brother who thinks it's funny to hit me.
dang that sucks, please get protection maybe from law enforcement or something, seek help there are anonymous abuse hotlines with info. please dont put up with that. Tell him if he hits you you have friends who will repay the favor to him.
He barely does it now since he could go to jail for it. My friend was his friend now they hate him for that he does.
barely is still too much. get help and get out or get him out. have your guy friends call him and say whatever he does to you will be done threefold to him. that may be a deterrant. if he does it while drunk there is no negotiating and you need out. i wish you the best!
You might be hot and they want to get with you or it's the contrary
I'm one of them :) so i personally have no bad opinions on it.
If i had a girlfriend i wouldn't mind her having Male friends as long as she committed to me that's all matters.
Red flag, turn off, call it what you want but iam not interested in being with such a girl, her friends choices tells me everything i need about her.
It's normal and very common.
I'm the same way with woman.
It means other girls don't like her because she's a ho.
well shit
Lolol usually girls like this actually are cool which is part of why she has lots of male friends. However there seems to be a connection between cool and slutty I guess if a girl thinks like a man she's bound to be a ho. Afterall most guys are kinda hoish by nature.
well I haven't screwed any of them so I guess we can be friends
I mean thats fine. But don't you relate to your own sex more? I've always related to men more than women like simce kindergarten.
relate in regards to being female? yes. interests hobbies and personality... not so much. I'm not without female friends, but the ones who stick around r hard to come by.
Well just know if you're attractive most of those male "friends" just want your vagina lol
yeah I'd say that's a given for some of them, or at least in the past
Why not just find other tomboys to befriend?
haven't come across many.
Me too i dont know why but i think i get along with girls pretty well too just couldnt have one to stick around
i would have to say i wouldn't be into her but i dont mind havig a friend thats a woman
Depends on how they act around them. If the girl laughs and jokes and otherwise acts as many consider appropriate, it doesn't matter. If the girl is constantly flirting and teasing the guy friends... well that's a different story.
Depends on the individual, but it can be a red flag for attention whoring and such.
Why not? You must be a nice lady that makes guys feel good. I love to be a friend to a lady. doesn't work as well when a boyfriend becomes exclusive.
Totally fine i have a few girl friends lIke that. But if she's slept with any of them or exes. Thats where the issue lies.
She's usually the one they keep around for gang-bangs. None of them actually like her.
well there's no gang bangs happening here lol
Sure there's not. ;-)
fck that.
Is that what the guys say to each other while waiting their turn?
I'm just messing with you. :-D
no that's me communicating the level of which I'm turned off at the thought.
If you've never kissed, dated, or fucked any of them. And if none of them hit on you. Then there is nothing wrong with that. But if you have a history with these guys and claim they're just friends... then that makes u a hoe!
well I liked one of them in the past but nothing ever happened or came of it.
Or mayb just progressive and polyamorous.
they probably are more stable and probably more fun
Those friends have some guys who she fucked and were fuck buddies in the past with.
Lol yup
meh, do what you like pretty much... If someone else had a problem, eh, fuck em.
Well personally I think it starts like this and soon becomes an issue. my girlfriend had a lot of guy 'friends'. I was okay with it but moving forward when I was expecting a more mature relationship, it was beginning to annoy the shit outta me.
my last experience my girlfriend had a lot of male friends and for her that's all it was but as a guy I could see a lot of them were friend zoned guys and after our split not 1 or 2 but 5 of them made a pass at her 2 that had girlfriends etc.
girls with more guy best friends than girl besties simply means that these girls are genuine people who don't just want friends for gossip and shopping and other crap, provided the guys they always hangout with don't gossip all the time.
nothing wrong with that. only bad if she slept with all of them but thats what a comdom is there for
What are your thoughts on guys with mostly female friends?
either they are players or just have a lot of friends that happen to be female and there's boundaries and it's completely fine.
I've found most girls who are like that to have some deep personal issues, just from my experience. Same case for guys as well.
they are more down to earth and from personal experience more easy without teying to stereotype or offend anyone
I think that most of the times, these girls just don't like other girls in general. U could say that these girls however they might look are much more guy than girl (not in a trans sense).
o know I get called a flirt, but it's not. like that. I spent ten year of my childhood with just my brother (siblings were too young to play with) I connect better with guys.
They are usually tomboys and usually don't look girly like the girl in your photo.
So many girls have so many male friends, and not a single girl wants to be friends with me.
who wouldn't want to be friends with Raymond Reddington? The problem isn't girls not wanting to be friends but more like he doesn't keep them as friends for long
Life must be boring she can't talk about a lot of things only girls have
I think maybe she's kinda boyish or slutty/flirt (depends on her actions) or just a regular girl who happens to get along more with guys.. It really depends
Well I am hanging around with a boy.. and I think he is really funny 🌚 but everybody thinks I have feelings for him but no.
That's absolutely ok. Opposite poles attract. by the way no two person of the same sex can go long unless they are thick friends.
she fucked with all of them.. is what I might think first if I don't know her...
I feel like guys with many guy friends love the attention and special treatment they get for being different
Depends on what kind of things she does with them and talks about with them
Cool, I love male friends, you know you could trust a guy and they are loyal.
im just a guy with many girl friends (one gf) so i dont judge
too much competition
also they are not her friends they are waiting to sleep with her
Not necessarily.
They may be only friends to you, but, trust me on this, they all want to fuck you. You'll see.
Maybe not all but at least 1-2 wouldn't say no
I'm fine with it, the majority of my friends are Females anyway xD
I guess it just means that you don't want much drama in your life.
you want things to be simple, fun and random.
If she allows them to touch her or hug her, I'm leaving her.
well shit
What? You let your guy friends get physical with you?
I'm comfortable with hugs when it's a goodbye or hello. but that's only if where really good friends, otherwise don't touch me. I only know a few of them closely and physically yes I'm more comfortable.
I would leave the girlfriend in that case. Even a female co worker that is in a relationship hugged me and it made me very uncomfortable. It just seems so wrong to me.
Probably because your from a culture where u are not comfortable with hugging a friend then? I know in the beginning it was the same for me as in i was not comfortable but then now i only hug my close friends (from both genders). As @Alpha09 said, only to the very close friends if not then just a handshake or a wave to say hi or bye
The need men to do things for them
it's fine I have mostly female friends we all been really good friends since school
nothing bad its her choice. if shs is comfortable with male friends she made male friends..
I don't mind it much. I'm just like "she must be have more guy friends then she has girl friends".
guys and girls can't be friends. I'm a certain that one of your guy friends likes you in a romantic way and you friendzoned him
unless they are gay*
where mutually friend zoning each other
mainly to the guys... what are your thoughts on guys with mostly female friends, roommate and coworkers?
there's a difference between a girl that has a lot of male friends and a girl that goes out with guys often. there's nothing wrong with either though.
Even though they aren't usually, it drives me away because I feel like they're a hoe.
A girl with mostly male friends means she's masculine. Not hot at all.
well I'm not so...
I think that's cool. As a girl I feel better when I'm with guy friends. u knw they don't talk about serious and gossip kind of stuff.
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