it's totally ok, if you have guy friends that's great! guys are super fun. there is nothing wrong with having guy friends and also don't let anyone tell you that they all just want to hook up with you cause they don't. they just genuinely like you as a friend and you should keep it that way.
I've usually had more guy friends than girls. I never was the type though to have multiple guy friends and being the only girl in the room amongst 5 guys. I'd be uncomfortable. I think it's better for some girls to have male friends as long as there no attractions.
Nothing wrong at all! I'm the same and to honest male friend are less dramatic than girls, and personally most of my male friends are really honest about stuff, when i do something wrong or so on Girls kind of never wants to hurt your feeling so they lie, at least that's my experience
I personally don't believe the philosophy of "guys have less drama so that's why I'm only friends with them," but I also don't buy into that whole "well if she's only friends with guys then she's a hoe." I think that you just click well with a lot of guys and that's it, no harm in that.
If your male friends respect the relationship she is having then there shouldn't be any problem. in my eyes, it gives the guy an opportunity to meet some great Bros that can be friends with him AND their female friend. It would be a problem if the male friends had a thing for you or have had pre-existing sexual encounter with the female that it can get entirely bumpy.
I'm one of them too. My guy friends are like brothers to me none of that fake friend zone stuff. I would like to have more female friends though. The females I do know are up their boyfriends ass. When I try to make female friends all goes well then they do some backstabbing bs.
like who like it matters little aboit the sex you have. look more for personality that you like to be around. and men are easy. make them a sandwich every now and then give a bj..
Yeah your question must be popular and they featured it. So they add a pic to it to give it an appeal to draw in more people I guess (?) Just my thoughts.
I like making friends with those girls.. great for getting other women... they also aren't as boring... but depending on her personality... eh... wouldn't date.
I'm a girl with mostly guy friends and it's good, we get each other and we have each other's back in every way we can. It is true that sometimes someone might have a crush on you but it doesn't mean we are strange Hahahaha
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Usually it is alright. It's not a bad thing. The only negative would be if you are trying to get a boyfriend then he may feel threatened but the gender of your friends really shouldn't matter. I'm a guy that makes friends better with girls and my girlfriend didn't like that. We are ok now but some people get too jealous or threatened.
Not interested because they all play the game and they use there male friends as referees to get involved knowing they are on her side. I don't even know these people but somehow they know me and they're involved with everything, always in my business as soon as something goes wrong or there is a minor dispute
One of my best friends is a girl. She has female friends too but she tends to be closer with guy friends. Her main reasoning is that most girls tend to be uptight whereas around guys she can be more chill and vulgar (I can literally talk to her like she's one of the guys and she's cool about it).
She maybe just doesn't feel comfy around girls; personally it's the same for me, girls are too... complicated and always cause problems. but guys are really easy to understand and easy-going. it's a question of taste and I don't think it can tell you something about the person, it's just a mere preference in my opinion
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I mean 3/4 of my best friends are all guys and my boyfriend was fine with it. I have no attraction to any of them they just are better companions. I haven't found a girl that's into the same things as me
I find befriending girls harder than guys. Girls are more likely to stab you in the back, and you always have to watch what you say to them. Guys are more laid back. :)
I don't have much friends, but majority are guys. :)
I'm also one of those girls that has more guy friends than friends that are girls. Mostly because I tend to relate or just get along with them better. I also have a boyfriend and he's aware of it but doesn't mind so there isn't a problem. a lot of my guy friends are also friends with him too.
I get that. Guys can be much more accepting and friendly than many girls.
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I'd think she gets along better with guys. She's probably more "boy-like". Just like the guys who get along better with women are more girly type of guys. Not necessarily gay, but just more feminine. Nothing wrong with either of them.
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I think they crave male attention and are untrustworthy, they'll never admit it or recognize it in themselves, but they're not worth the bother. For every woman with a queue of male "he's just a friend (s)", there are hundreds of better women who are better options.
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it's totally ok, if you have guy friends that's great! guys are super fun. there is nothing wrong with having guy friends and also don't let anyone tell you that they all just want to hook up with you cause they don't. they just genuinely like you as a friend and you should keep it that way.
most of them do just want to hook up lol.. I have seen men go years as a friend just waiting for the chance to make a move. it's pretty sad actually
I've usually had more guy friends than girls. I never was the type though to have multiple guy friends and being the only girl in the room amongst 5 guys. I'd be uncomfortable. I think it's better for some girls to have male friends as long as there no attractions.
Nothing wrong at all! I'm the same and to honest male friend are less dramatic than girls, and personally most of my male friends are really honest about stuff, when i do something wrong or so on
Girls kind of never wants to hurt your feeling so they lie, at least that's my experience
I personally don't believe the philosophy of "guys have less drama so that's why I'm only friends with them," but I also don't buy into that whole "well if she's only friends with guys then she's a hoe." I think that you just click well with a lot of guys and that's it, no harm in that.
If your male friends respect the relationship she is having then there shouldn't be any problem. in my eyes, it gives the guy an opportunity to meet some great Bros that can be friends with him AND their female friend. It would be a problem if the male friends had a thing for you or have had pre-existing sexual encounter with the female that it can get entirely bumpy.
I'm one of them too. My guy friends are like brothers to me none of that fake friend zone stuff. I would like to have more female friends though. The females I do know are up their boyfriends ass. When I try to make female friends all goes well then they do some backstabbing bs.
I am the same way girls are so much more drama it's so exhausting it's so much easier this way.
I'm happy you understand how hard it is to keep a women pleased lol
😂lol
So what if girls have more guy friends it means nothing 😂😂😂 and yea I bet girls say the same thing about you so
good point
like who like it matters little aboit the sex you have. look more for personality that you like to be around. and men are easy. make them a sandwich every now and then give a bj..
Fuck, these bitter responses are hilarious XD They are the only reason I still log on GaG.
😂lol
Same. And then gag adds that pic to add to it 😂
I was wondering where that came from...
@akadatank44 I know, right? when I saw it I was like: "Oh, this is gonna be awesome" XD
Yeah your question must be popular and they featured it. So they add a pic to it to give it an appeal to draw in more people I guess (?) Just my thoughts.
true
I don't see any bitter responses... just a bunch of dudes indicating that it is simple a red flag and the girl is probably not worth dating.
I think the bitter ones he's referring to are the ones saying it automatically means she's a slut
I like making friends with those girls.. great for getting other women... they also aren't as boring... but depending on her personality... eh... wouldn't date.
Oh fair enough, i only saw one guy saying that so i assumed he meant what most of the posts were saying (what i said above).
I'm a girl with mostly guy friends and it's good, we get each other and we have each other's back in every way we can. It is true that sometimes someone might have a crush on you but it doesn't mean we are strange Hahahaha
Usually it is alright. It's not a bad thing. The only negative would be if you are trying to get a boyfriend then he may feel threatened but the gender of your friends really shouldn't matter. I'm a guy that makes friends better with girls and my girlfriend didn't like that. We are ok now but some people get too jealous or threatened.
Not interested because they all play the game and they use there male friends as referees to get involved knowing they are on her side. I don't even know these people but somehow they know me and they're involved with everything, always in my business as soon as something goes wrong or there is a minor dispute
One of my best friends is a girl. She has female friends too but she tends to be closer with guy friends. Her main reasoning is that most girls tend to be uptight whereas around guys she can be more chill and vulgar (I can literally talk to her like she's one of the guys and she's cool about it).
She maybe just doesn't feel comfy around girls; personally it's the same for me, girls are too... complicated and always cause problems. but guys are really easy to understand and easy-going. it's a question of taste and I don't think it can tell you something about the person, it's just a mere preference in my opinion
I mean 3/4 of my best friends are all guys and my boyfriend was fine with it. I have no attraction to any of them they just are better companions. I haven't found a girl that's into the same things as me
same
what's it matter who you're friends with? hang out with who you want to. I have a ton of female friends, I don't think it matters
I find befriending girls harder than guys. Girls are more likely to stab you in the back, and you always have to watch what you say to them. Guys are more laid back. :)
I don't have much friends, but majority are guys. :)
I'm also one of those girls that has more guy friends than friends that are girls. Mostly because I tend to relate or just get along with them better.
I also have a boyfriend and he's aware of it but doesn't mind so there isn't a problem. a lot of my guy friends are also friends with him too.
I get that. Guys can be much more accepting and friendly than many girls.
I'd think she gets along better with guys. She's probably more "boy-like". Just like the guys who get along better with women are more girly type of guys. Not necessarily gay, but just more feminine. Nothing wrong with either of them.
I think they crave male attention and are untrustworthy, they'll never admit it or recognize it in themselves, but they're not worth the bother. For every woman with a queue of male "he's just a friend (s)", there are hundreds of better women who are better options.
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