What do guys think of girls that have only or mostly male friends?

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ManOnFire · Accepted Answer

A lot of them get tired of other girls' bullshit. Hell, I even have female co-workers that have mostly male friends and tell me why they do: because they get tired of the shit from their own gender.

The girls who think ill of girls with mostly male friends - "oh she just likes the attention" "she's just a whore" "she has issues" - just want to make themselves feel better about the fact that they're the ones who act like shit with other females and drive these girls to prefer guy friends instead. Fix how you interact with your own gender and you wouldn't have to deal with it.

Shiver · Accepted Answer

They're usually more fun to hang out with and when it comes to romantic interest, they tend not to play stupid games that so many other women do because they know guys.
My girlfriend has mostly guys friends (same friend circles) and she's very much one of the bois.
Over half of my friends are female and they're much more comfortable with me than they are with most other guys, so it goes both ways. And despite my crazy hookup game I've got going on, I don't expect or want sex from any of them and they know that.

ClassyMe · Accepted Answer

A bunch of these comments are absolutely garbage. They’re either really jealous or must have gotten hurt really badly. I’m a girl who has lots of guy friends and we are just friends. I’m also a virgin! Not every girl who has guy friends is a whore. How judgmental ! I simply just have a bunch of guy friends just because. It’s not something I force it just happened. If a girl has mostly guy friends good for her. I’m not going to care. It doesn’t make them a bad person. It could simply mean they get along with the opposite sex better or that it just kind of happened.

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

Why am I not surprised by some of these guys comments?

Is it so hard to believe that some girls prefer and get along better with guys than other females? I'm one of those girls for sure! The majority of my friends are guys and I love it!!! No drama, we hang out and have fun together with NO sexual tension or romance. Just friendship. Just like how some guys get along better with women than other guys.

If a guy has a problem with me having platonic guy friends, he's too insecure to be in my life.

J3nny · Answer

The most annoying mofos. She thinks it’s a personality trait. No Rebecca you’re just an attention seeking whore with daddy issues. I only know one girl like that. She brags about it all the time like it’s an achievement. i’m sure most other girls with all guy friends aren’t like that but the girl i know is.

girlzruleboyzdrool · Answer

From a girls point of view, I had mostly all guy friends and in fact married one of my guy friends.
I found guys were less drama, and I liked to do a lot Of daring things they did. I wasn't a frieNd with benefits either. I was one of the guys and we all were pretty good tight friends. I dated some of my friends and when it didn't work out we just went back to being friends. I think that girls that hang out with guys are more zen and gossip less and can just be themselves and not so fake
In saying that, I did have some girl friends that hung out with other girls and they were pretty nice. I did find girls gossip and talk behind each other's backs more

godfatherfan · Answer

As I have said 10000000000x on this page to this question, you do NOT have "mostly friends". You have a bunch of guys that would love to have sex with you and are keeping you on the radar. Men and women can be "friendly", but not "friends". For many, there really is no difference. And if all the guys are decent, and in relationships, the tension will probably not surface. But guaranteed, they all would say Yes if you offered (provided you both were single). Only women think that they have men friends. I laugh every time I hear it.

Hidden_P · Answer

I find the responses hilarious.

First off, I know 6 males before I leave my house. Now to some, that makes me undateable, untrustable, unreliable... shame those 6 are my brothers and dad so that rules out all those issues (sorry dude).
the female influence I had (my mother) was so awful it’s best not explored. I trust men more than women. I’ve spent my childhood, my life around men so I understand how to get along with them. I don’t get along with women. But it must be my extensive pornstar training with my relatives and my mothers abuse that made me just such a twat... OR... MAYBE... not all people follow stereotypes?

MindYourEyes · Answer

Honestly I have a bunch of dude friends because we get along more. The female friends I’ve had or tried being friends with we just don’t connect very much. Or too many differences. I mean now I have a little more which is cool but dudes have always been more chill and fun from personal experience

aWes0MeNeSs · Answer

I can't speak for what guys think, but I'm a girl who, though I have a good mix of both female and male friends, tends to "click" best with men. They seem to generally be more fun and laid back, and not so uptight, serious all the time, or moody like many girls tend to be. It does definitely depend on the guy as well, but I'm generally speaking here.

What's between a person's legs makes no difference to me about how I see them as a person and whether or not I like them as a friend. There's a HUGE gray area between wanting nothing to do with a guy and wanting to have sex with him. You can enjoy a guy's company without there being any sexual attraction.

I honestly feel that people who feel men and women can't be platonic friends only view the opposite sex as something to have sex with rather than just people.

fashionguy17 · Answer

Personally, I wouldn't date a girl who only or mostly male friends. I am not trying to sound like an asshole here... but there is a possibility that she could have hooked up with one of them in the past and there is a high chance of cheating. All you need is one drunken night.

Don't get me wrong, I am sure there are tons of women out there who have ton of male friends, never hooked up with them or anything of the the sorts... but it's just adds too much unneeded stress.

And before any woman says, "oh, you're just really insecure". Not really. Think about it for a second. Would you feel comfortable with your man having only female friends and having female friends that are better looking than you? Would you feel comfortable with your man having alone time with his female friends, even though you can trust him?

MysteriousDarkness · Answer

I see a lot of people think she has them around for sexual relations and that it's impossible for a heterosexual woman and a heterosexual guy to be just friends. I knew comments like that would be on here. Too many guys think all women are so called sluts. I think a lot of guys just love think that all women are exactly them same. Those guys have a lit to learn. There are women that all or most of her friends are guys that has sex relations with them and there are those that do not have sexual relations with them. The guys who believe that a heterosexual women and heterosexual guys can not be friends are the ones who tried to have sex with every female friend tgey had and got rejected which ruined the friendship.

Anonymous · Answer

In my experience girls who have only or mostly male friends tend to be more down to earth and mature because it typically means they are above the silliness, immaturity and back stabbing behavior most girls and young women tend to engage in. Before I married her my wife was that way. She hung out with me and my guy friends and was just like one of the guys.

Anonymous · Answer

I would suspect they've had sex, that's off-putting and gross.
There's also solid chance that one of them is crushing and I'd rather just have a girl without a crushing guy following her around. I don't want that drama, I don't even want that thought.

I like the kind of girl that can chum around with guys and not get bend out of shape about jokes and all that stereotypical girl stuff, but anything that hints at romance or sexuality is going to deter me.

Being friends with guys after we're firmly together is fine.

deryn · Answer

My group have a girl that's around us and she's the only girl in the group of like 10 guys, we all know her like a sister/brother and that's about it.

She doesn't like hanging with girls because (from her point of view) 99% of them just want to talk about make up and back stabbing eachother, she wants friends that she can relate to and not worry about suddenly being called a bitch and having to fight for her place every other week.

cheapshotbob · Answer

i think girls with mostly guy friends are users and i know this from the fact i was ditched as friend after being friends with a girl for 7 years only too have her blow me off due t her insecure boy friends.

they find it easier too ditch a guy than a girl in my opinion.

ImagineSketchy · Answer

1. She is disconnected from most of her sex
2. She gets passed around by her friends
3. She genuinely just enjoys male company more
4. She wants them to want her (subconsciously)
5. She met these people by chance and didn't exactly choose her friends so she's not a bad girl.

SirRexington · Answer

First, id like to say that Boy Meets World is my all time favorite show.

Second, a girl with a lot of male friends says that she os not traditionally feminine and doesn't get along with girls and their typical group behavior. So she hangs out with guys instead because her personality and interests are more in common with guys.
I also tend to assume she is likely fucking most of them since that seems to be a thing now.

Nogard1973 · Answer

Personally, I don't care of a woman has a lot/only male friends. I don't judge her by her friends (unless they're a bit shady). I'm interested in her, not them.

SpiderManFan2002 · Answer

At college most of my friends are dudes, and honestly, I'm laughing at the majority of these opinions😂😂😂😂👌🏾👌🏾

SomeGuyCalledTom · Answer

I used to think it meant she was down to earth. Now I assume she's just a glutton for male attention. She knows full well those "friends" would fuck her on a moment's notice if they got a chance.

If she has a small handful of guy friends and they enjoy her friendship for its own sake, then thats fine and quite healthy. But being surrounded 24/7 by an entourage of horny guys desperate for her affection is a huge red flag.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm definitely that girl. I've never had a relationship or sexual thing with a guy friend. I just dont get along with girls. I've always had issues with girls, backstabbing me quicker, more rumors, drama. etc... I'm more relaxed hanging with my guy friends. I've had girl friends and it never lasts.

Sensmind · Answer

I have seen this - There are some girls who get on better with guys - Not really an issue but sometimes feelings can be an issue - The line between friendship attraction and romantic attraction can be hard to see

IamStag · Answer

it means the topics she likes are more masculine. which means it's a lot easier to get on with her as a man. since I have no self-confidence issues, I'd rather consider it a positive thing.

Commander_Red · Answer

I have a lot of male friends simply because I have more in common with them but never have I wanted to fuck with any of them. Honestly, the thought send shivers down my spine. Ew, gross.

xyz94 · Answer

Nothing - it's up to the girl! Sometimes it's nice to be friends with guys because they're less bitchy generally.

Daniela1982 · Answer

I would say Boy Meets Girl but Girl doesn't Meet Girls. I would think she just likes hookups and likes to have her buffet and to have a lot to choose from.

SimpleRhubarb · Answer

Nothing, unless she’s like “girls are too much drama!!” which pretty much always means *she’s* too much drama.

mema810 · Answer

Well I have a lot of girls who are my friends and they also have mostly male friends. So I guess it's a thing about them being comfortable with men so I wouldn't mind cuz that's what they prefer and I can't judge a person for that!

mrfoox · Answer

No judgment, I think it's cool. Only time I'd roll my eyes if they insist other girls are all backstabbers/so fake etc I have mostly male friends and have for a few years now

Sarahr123 · Answer

I dunno all my friends are girls. I only speak to gay boys. I only have my boyfriend’s number on my phone.

joanofarcher · Answer

Oh yeah. "One of the guys" type of girl. They hang around guys because other girls can't stand them and have driven them away.

jamiepagepro · Answer

A secure guy won't have a problem with it until a problem is created. But if you really like the guy, respect his feelings about it also. Don't make him feel insecure

Junen · Answer

It just makes me mad when girls say they have guy friends because girls are mean. Like, obviously not ALL girls. Personality matters, not gender. 🙄

markscott · Answer

It means she has male friends, and for whatever reason, good or bad, they make up the majority of her friends. It seems neither good or bad to me.

wynn-ing · Answer

People give far too many fucks about other people's personal choices on this site.  Everybody has a PhD at being a cult religion it seems.

Anoniemus · Answer

Nothing wrong with that. How am I going to judge someone based on nothing? It says nothing about her. Who cares?

Maellyiod · Answer

Its huh, your choice? As long as it doesn't seem like you flirt with all of them. in my opinion idrc you do you booboo

KrakenAttackin · Answer

I won't date women like this. She has had sex with at least half of her "male friends" and the other half want to fuck her.

Any woman who says "most of my best friends are guys", is a major red flag for me.

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Either she is a tomboy Shares common interests as most males do Or the classic She loves dick

aebyrd79 · Answer

I am that girl. I've always been more comfortable being "one of the guys"

seniorghostman · Answer

Because they can’t stand being around girls who are immature, materialistic or gossipy. Reasons I have been told before

ForteExe · Answer

My first thought is "she's a hoe" or "there's too much competition here".

Cocacolaaddict · Answer

Your a tomboy you like doing guy stuff and prefer to get your hands dirty your more masculine than feminine I'm sure your feminine too but got a bit of masculinity in you aswell

Miristheiss · Answer

No need for a guy in her life... she has 5 already.

serious · Answer

That she is not likely to be a feminine type of girl.

Unit1 · Answer

Good for her. Really. No judgments whatsoever. Friends are friends. Wish I could have some female friends.

Perhaps · Answer

Nothing? I don't see how having friends of a particular sex defines someone's personality.

DiscomfortZone · Answer

That they're exploiting the fact that these males are pathetic desperate little bitches.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Ask a guy who have many female friends, i feel nothing.

AD240pCharlie · Answer

Nothing. It just means she happened to have bonded more with them than she has with the women in her life.

Paul09 · Answer

That's a good question. I would not feel 100% comfortable. A little strange, but not really a deal breaker. But I know there might be a guy or 2 that likes her. So that can get in the way.

GOOSEBOY78 · Answer

doesn't need any attention from me. she has enough from her friends.

Haelaeix123 · Answer

Totally fine lol, I have more female friends so same thing really

lsjr16 · Answer

She prob had a lot of brothers so she is comfortable with guys she like hanging out with guys. But other than that nothin.

samkayla · Answer

Honestly most the time is so they can keep a guy on the side and now mide you if its a guy with a bunch of girls that are his friend how eould you feel?

shorty45 · Answer

It depends on the type of the guy there are a guys who feel jealous and don't accept that and there are others who don't care but I think the first type is the right way of thinking

Anonymous · Answer

I have mostly male friends but it is not by choice. I would love to have more female friends.

loveslongnails · Answer

I love that, especially if she's smart, fun, good looking and I'm one of her friends!

Shamalien · Answer

I think “i wonder if they all run train on her at once, or if she just fks them one at a time”

front2back · Answer

Likely sexually experienced. Likely will have a "back-up" boyfriend lined up while dating you.

moststrangestguy · Answer

I met one recently great to be around but she's fucking insane legit you cannot date her

middleschoolisfun · Answer

I think it's definitely ok because I have mostly girl friends so it doesn't matter

GreenGold1992 · Answer

I think it makes her special cuz she's the only girl in the group, so the guys have gotta protect her

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