Attractive girls and entitlement?

[Taciturn]

It seems like most hot girls I see have this weird sense of entitlement. They all treat people around them as if they owe them something. It's like they're used to be bombarded with compliments from guys, so they have this preconceived notion that every guy has to preferentially treat them, and whenever I don't, they start getting terrible, bitter attitudes. It's not that these hot, attractive girls are following me everywhere, seeking validation from me, but I feel like they think I owe them compliments and stares because they're hot. How do I fucking stop this?

[Amanda_Murph]

Definitely has to do with looks. I go to an all girls school so I hear a lot more bitching about guys. The sad thing is they don't just treat guys like that they treat girls like that to, they assume they are the only one worthy of compliments and attention and the hypocritical part is the guys they almost always break the heart of is the nice guys. I think it comes down to immaturity and age as well. Sometimes there is no reasoning with pretty inconsiderate girls. I personally hate it because they have all the beauty a girl could want and decide instead of appreciating it they let it get to their heads 😂

[AlwaysBelieving]

Beauty comes from the inside out in my opinion

[KadBitty]

Lol I knew a girl like this, but she wasn't even really that hot. Whenever you'd compliment anybody around her, she'd hear and automatically think you were talking to her and be like oh thanks. Was so funny lol.

You don't need to do anything, just be around better, less spoilt people. I know some really pretty girls who are humble. It's not a looks thing at all, you can't judge personality on looks, it's just people with a horrible personality, loads of ugly people are like that too.

[Taciturn]

Well, it's my school, and they're in my class, so I don't choose the demographic of people I coexist with.

You do have a point, however, I disagree. I think looks can definitely correlate with personality. These girls are all moderately good looking, and I think it's a huge reason why they're vain, egotistical dipshits. It's not directly correlated, however. I don't think a good-looking girl will inherently be a terrible person, however, the key factor to why these girls tend to be arrogant vain fucks is because of the severe excess of attention and validation they get from manipulative, lying, obsequious guys, which subsequently causes them to have this false and exaggerated image of what they deserve/how good looking they actually are, which essentially is because they're good looking in the first place. It can happen with ugly/average looking girls, but this phenomenon is more prevalent in social media than anything else.

[daydream446]

It's most probably because they know they can get the compliments and all and they don't want to settle for less if they can get more (in this case - the compliments). For them it's kind of like being offered $1 and $5. If you can get the $5 just as easily why would you choose to get $1 (assuming more is always better)

[Taciturn]

I have no idea how this is relevant to what I asked, but okay.

[daydream446]

aka like you said they're used to be bombarded with compliments so that's what they expect so when they don't get what they want they get stroppy bc they know they can get it somewhere else so they stop giving a shit about anyone that doesn't give them what they want (or because they think throwing a tantrum is the way to get what they want)

[bellagsully]

As a girl who gets annoyed with girls like this I just stop complimenting them. A girl who used to go to my school was very entitled regarding her looks and I just felt it unnecessary for me to further comment and enlarge her ego...

[InfoBot]

Guys create the problem by climbing up the asses of these girls. Then guys complain about the problem that they are creating. I'm not directing that at you, I'm saying in general. A guy who wonders why a hot girl never gives him the time of day is likely a guy who elevates hot girls to unrealistic heights of status. Whereas in reality they are just bags of skin and organs like the rest of us. They still shit.

[Taciturn]

Oh, I totally agree with you. The so-called "nice guys" that are really, just manipulative, sociopathic assholes who treat some people preferentially for personal benefit. I see this everywhere. Guys absolutely degrading themselves to astounding extents just for the approval for a couple of vacuous excuses of girls.

[Taciturn]

of a*

[Najoub]

there are many things you can do:
1-punch square in the face
2-ignore them
3-put them in their place
4-be even more terrible than they are (although not very suited bcz it can give bad rep)
5-look for a girl who is seeking more than just compliments
6-punch square in the face (if you liked it the first time you can do it again ;))

[bellagsully]

don't punch her in the face and don't act worse and once again don't punch her in the face. 2 and 5 are the best options here.

[ptarus-hasananswer]

You just stop giving a shit.

I'm was considered a "hot guy" in highschool, so if I just don't pay attention to them it drives them nuts.

Hold the door for a guy, but let go when some snooty chick tries to go in.

You gotta get passive aggressive, thats their game, best em at it haha

Nah, i dont recommend any of this stuff, i'm just a dick in real life

[KawaiiTowi]

same.

[CT_CD]

It's guys fault. Putting them on a pedestal. Always hitting on them and telling them how pretty they are. They become shallow, narcissistic and egocentric. They have a overwhelming sense of entitlement and arrogance. A large percentage of women are out of touch with reality; many who are simply plain or even ugly see themselves as awesome, fabulous individuals.

[Taciturn]

So fucking true. I promise I'm not one of those disgraceful, obsequious, pandering, white-knight faggots. I'm actually one of the most familiar people with them. My school can literally be compartmentalized into vacuous, stuck-up bitches with no sense of reality, guys who lie their way into the girls' pants through lies disguised in compliments, and 1% miscellaneous.

[KawaiiTowi]

why can't we just be ourselves and not worry about everyone else lmao

[Taciturn]

Worrying about yourself is all well and dandy until entitled bitches start unreasonably behaving antagonistically towards you.

[KawaiiTowi]

On a real note, if people bothered me, I would walk away in school.
I also tell people that I don't waste my time on fake people, and they don't deserve anyone else's time either.
My best friend asked me "why are you so savage?" I'm not, I'm just speaking the truth. Fake, attention seeking bitches, are nothing greater in the world than you. Just worry about yourself and don't give them the time of day.

[Taciturn]

Uh, it's actually not that simple. If it was, bullying wouldn't be as prevalent of a phenomenon as it is. Telling someone to "just walk away" is like telling an insecure person to "just stop being insecure brah"; it's easier said than done. The advice you gave was the first subconscious thing I did when this first started happening to me, but to no avail. My school environment is vastly different than what I suppose is the typical school environment, so there are really practically no rules or regulations. The principal doesn't exist, and kids fight all the time in my class, so telling on these girls would not only give me a reputation of "soft", it would also probably lead the situation to escalate to greater extents than just terrible attitude, bad gazes and teasing.

[KawaiiTowi]

ah, I was just saying that I walk away.
I get bullied a lot, people actually throw things at me.
But I just see myself as a better person. Not creating fights yourself and being the adult is way better than some of the responses of "punch them in the face", because in reality, you can't. They'll be used to fighting and it won't help them once they graduate.

[RoyaltyGirl]

You don't. You can't change a person that has grown up this way.

[Taciturn]

Oh God. I have a shit ton of these vain, so-called "hot girls" in my school. They're fucking terrible. I don't know if it's because I correlate personality with attraction, but I don't even think they're that attractive.

[RoyaltyGirl]

Yeah not all the 'attractive' girls are like that. You see they grow up believing that because they have acute face AND NOTHING ELSE they can rule the world. Ignore them they will stop at some point

[Taciturn]

exactly

[TheMoroccangirl]

Bruh, just take you distance and care less about what they think. Let them yell 😂 fucking hilarious

[Taciturn]

You're not very bright, are you?

[TheMoroccangirl]

Perhaps I am too bright.

[Anywayysss]

Call them a bitch and slap them across the ass. Let them know you are the one in charge and ain't gunna take no shit from them.

[SteelWill75]

Don't reward their looks they didn't supply the genes for their appearance. instead only supply their acts of kindness, hard work, and positive efforts.

[LolaB13]

I know guys that are like this too and they look like the 5th ninja turtle. 😂

[Teenage_Elmo]

Just ignore them. Chances are that if a girl is like that then that'll irk them the most

[Bezbozhnikustanka]

Try dating mingers, they should be grateful and undemanding because they know they can be replaced at any time.

[AlwaysBelieving]

If I sense a gal feels entitlement, I move on quickly.

[missbelieverr]

just ignore them.. Find a girl that isn't totally stuck up

[Aming]

they got the supply. its time to demand

[Logical_Idolist]

Punch 'me in the fucking face. Please.

[Logical_Idolist]

*'em

[Taciturn]

God, I fucking wish. I have this impulse to just lunge towards one of them and knock the fucking arrogance out of them with the force of one thousand metric tons.

[Logical_Idolist]

Holy shit. You're amazing. Are you sure you're not me? I honestly wish I could at least telepathically strangle a mother fucker sometimes.

[Taciturn]

Nah, you are. And I don't know, actually, I might very well be you in a Slipknot parallel universe. Wanna go jam to Iowa while perpetrating borderline psychopathic deeds on crazy bitches?

[Logical_Idolist]

YESSSSS!!!

[Logical_Idolist]

You're on.

[Taciturn]

On what?

[Logical_Idolist]

Like I'll take up that offer

[Anonymous]

So what did they actually do or say?

[Taciturn]

Terrible gazes, group teasings, and sometimes straight up insults. They're a group in school, so you know how that goes. It doesn't really affect me, but I feel like this will sooner or later escalate into something worse. You know how? Every boy in school is a servile piece of shit that is ready to do anything to get into their pants, and to be fair, when they do give me bad looks or emit through body language that they loathe me, I reciprocate.

[FashionKiller]

By stepping in the real world

[Taciturn]

Huh?