Would you date a girl that drinks every weekend?

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datgirl · Accepted Answer

You see, I don't see anything wrong with alcohol or drinking it, but I get kind of annoyed when people are so crazy and obsessed about it. There are people who just need it all the time to have a good time it's like calm down.. its just alcohol. I sometimes drink when I go out with friends or other people are having it around me and I'll have a glass of wine every night with my work out buddy but thats it. I never go out of my way to get it or drink it on my own. I prefer water, teas/coffee, juice etc. So yea, i would be a little turned off if a guy was consistently drinking.

Darkfairie17 · Accepted Answer

I think ultimately to be happy a person needs to find someone similar to them.

Sure opposites can attract, but often it's people who have more in common who are happier.

Think about it, if you are someone who loves to go out and drink, but have a boyfriend who refuses to go out and do anything fun. It would suck!

That doesn't mean it won't work out. But likely it will put a strain on the relationship.

It's also not wise to change who you are for your partner. So if going out and drinking every weekend brings you joy, then you do you!

oliviaroseleroux · Accepted Answer

Depends. Someone that drinks wine with their meals on weekends or someone that has a cocktail when you go out isn’t a big deal. Drinking is encouraged socially where I’m from. Almost all events revolve around it. If someone was drinking socially and not just to get smashed every night then yes I would

samhradh_leannan · Accepted Answer

If by drinking you mean having a couple of drinks, I would date someone who drinks every weekend. If by drinking you mean getting wasted, then absolutely not, I couldn't date that person.

mrsatori · Accepted Answer

It's not about her love of alcohol, it's about her personality and how well it agrees with the one of her partner. Does it mean she loves partying a lot, or does she drink alone? Does she enjoy the state of being drunk or is it just the taste that she likes?

The love of alcohol itself is quite natural for every human being, we all drink from time to time, it should not be a turn off. However, the reason (!) a girl loves it may tell us much more about her character traits, which, in turn, might be a turn-off for some guys, but not necessarily.

curiousnorway · Accepted Answer

It depends on how much the person drinks, how often they gets hangover or other problems and if the person want me to join or not. I wouldn't like to date someone who gets drunk often, are partying a lot and is causing troubles. I wouldn't like being on such parties either. It's not my thing. I don't want someone to throw up at me, calling people names and making a fool out of themselves. I don't drink alcohol. People can do what they likes to, but if they do something I don't like, I may choose to not date them.

coachTanthony · Answer

Drinking is one thing so if you mean going out every weekend and getting trashed then that's a big FAT NO.

Mocktinman · Answer

To be honest this question can have multiple answers. It truthfully depends on the guy and his morals.

But for me... The answer is no.

My whole family and my wife's family drank a lot! So we don't drink. Every once in a while to celebrate maybe, but me on alcohol... Is not someone I like being. But to each their own

Hope this advise helped you!
Have a wonderful day :)

guilly18butnot · Answer

Yes.

Drinking is not the issue. The issue here is: does she control what she drinks or how much she drinks? Does she drink to conceal something? Does she become another person when she drinks? Does she drink as a form of self medication for some mental issues (i. e. usual is anxiety disorder, but bipolars drink often too).

But if drinking is just a way to break barriers to socialize in a responsible way, well, I think we all who drink from time to time are in there.

InTimoreDei · Answer

Girls that I know personally that drink every weekend are the type that jump into bed with whoever they want whenever they want and dress provocatively. They're the types that have kids out of wedlock with multiple men and then abort. They're the type that act holier than thou. So, no, I wouldn't...

TFXNYC · Answer

That would all depend on to what extent did she drink. Did she just have 'a few', or did she drink til she was falling down drunk? I can date any woman that enjoyed a beverage from time to time, but not someone that can't be responsible. Tried it in the past, never ends well.

Goochbreaker · Answer

Quit from daily drinking cold turkey half a year ago so no, I'm trying to stay away from that entirely. If the girl was perfect in every other way and had a few drinks on the weekend I might not care but 95% of girls who drink on the weekend will be too promiscuous for me anyway

JSmuve · Answer

Does she get drunk every weekend?
If yes, then no, I wouldn't date her.

Is this the beginning of alcohol-dependency?
If yes, then no.

Is she irresponsible and makes bad decisions when drinking?
If yes, then no.

DizzyDesii · Answer

My boyfriend keeps mentioning he's ready to be 21 and drink but im glad he's not yet. For me, i can tell he won't do it often but omg my moms dating a guy who drinks almost everyday. I can tell it bothers her but she's puttin up wih it

19magic · Answer

Things like this depends on age and whether the guy drinks as well. It can also depend on if she gets hangovers a lot too.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

When a girl drinks all the time, guys will wonder how trustworthy she is and if she is abandoning him for other guys or cheating on him or playing him or even using him for free drinks

RastaMahn · Answer

I would bone her, if that counts as dating. Of course, you never want to bone her on a weekend when she's drinking. Because as we all know, even a sip of wine makes a woman incapable of consenting to sex. Because the government considers women to be the mental level of a four-year-old.

NGGRDCK · Answer

No, I'll know a girl like this, me and her had a history, now she dates my roommate, even though what we had is in the past, she comes over and insist that I'm present in everything they do, it's weird and when I try to distance myself she gets upset and my roommate gets upset because she's upset, I feel trapped in a triangle I don't want to be in.

KingZeus · Answer

I drink maybe once a month so I'd like someone who does the same or at least isn't at a club/bar every weekend. This is assuming we are close in age. If she's 21, she should have fun, I can't stop her anyways.

LittleSally · Answer

Depends probably on what you mean 'drinks' and 'every weekend'. Do you mean has a few drinks or gets smashed? Do you mean one day a week that's on a weekend, or Friday, Saturday and Sunday night?

GracefulCharm · Answer

I would date her, but I would be doubtful that our lives would become harmonious because I don't enjoy drinking alcohol at all. If she can't have a good time without drinking. We probably wouldn't last very long as a couple.

Greaver · Answer

Nope because I don’t want a girl that drinks tons of alcohol I want a girl that can drink one drink and be done because after they are drunk then they start fucking around and that gives them a “excuse” to cheat

winterfox10 · Answer

I would try to avoid it. I'm not a regular or heavy drinker at this point of my life, so it would be a lifestyle adjustment issue.

sahas20 · Answer

Never. Occasionally is fine. But every weekend its a sign of weakness and dependency on that substance.

Langseax · Answer

If she keeps in shape and it stays on the weekend (and not too heavily) then why not? If not, that’s a whole another thing. I’d imagine girls would say the same about guys.

BeHappy1985 · Answer

Mind boggling, why limit drinking to just weekends?

Whyhellothar · Answer

Like... one or two at home in the evening? Sure. Excessively, or always needing to go out for it? No thanks.

ryanlightning · Answer

No, I have nothing against those who drink but I don't. She would be out getting drunk and then hungover all day the next day so would lose 2 days a week with each other...

zagor · Answer

Depends. A few drinks with friends, or puking drunk. And if it is absolutely necessary that she drink, if she can't go and have fun without drinking, then forget her.

10dsw · Answer

One or two drinks? Fine Like piss drunk partying/clubbing? I think most guys wouldn't. I certainly wouldn't

Guardian412 · Answer

Depends on how much. A little drinking can be good, especially as its a good stress reliever. Of course if she ends up on the floor, that's not so attractive.

kaeaek · Answer

I drink every night after supper but I’m not alcoholic.  I hope I can find someone who likes to drink haha

jersos1 · Answer

No never. I hate drinking. Personally don't advocate it! It ruins your health in the long run!

Lovethecountry · Answer

No, not a drinker myself, and I would expect the same fr

honey202 · Answer

I wouldn't think its a big deal if they do. I get horny when I've had alcohol (like many other women) so its a win win for you?

exca_the_questioner · Answer

No. Not every weekend. End of story. I don't drink. Might be just cause that.

Anonymous · Answer

If drinking refers to having a glass of wine alongside a fancier dinner with friends or family, then sure.  If it means getting drunk to the point of vomiting and going to clubs, then no.

CrazyTurboBeast · Answer

Don’t see the issue. But if she is going out regularly and staying out late then no

yucel_eden · Answer

Depends on why and how much. Also about their age.  A 21 year old drinking like crazy is ok. A 30 year old drinking like crazy is not. There has to be a age where we grow up.

CaptainClueless · Answer

Are you saying drunk drunk, or just drinking? If it's just drinking, I'll drink with her! If it's sloshed, Ehhh maybe.

Prof_Don · Answer

I would, drinking in itself is not a bad thing! Fucking prudes. :-P

Eridan · Answer

What's so wrong about having fun? As long as you have a life outside of getting drunk, you're fine

pavlove · Answer

yea, i would date, but i wouldn't take her anymore seriously than she obviously takes herself

sizzlewizzle · Answer

4sho! Why not? but of course as long as she has control over it, not my biZz... in addition, would be kinda buzzkill if she gets drunk or loose it anyhow instead

CaptainSmartass · Answer

Nope. It would just drain me even more. Simples...

jboswell · Answer

When we're young and if she doesn't let it get in the way of advancing in life. Then I wouldn't mind

NigelToverdijk · Answer

Since I practically drink every day, i'm not allowed to judge 🙃

LegateLanius · Answer

How much does she drink? How does that change her?

DaTruth01 · Answer

like one or two drinks few times a month? could work with that , more no

johnieohm2 · Answer

lol i would ask if she can invite me so we both can get drunk together

Rargueta · Answer

Nah, she probably has no standards and looking to get dicked down tbh

Commander_Courtney · Answer

No thanks, not the type of girl for me.

Anonymous · Answer

Been there, done that. Twice. The first one started cheating when drunk.

Belgie · Answer

Of course. I'm irish.

Anonymous · Answer

No, I never drank alcohol and never will, Alcohol is poison to the mind and body.

Anonymous · Answer

Someone may see having fun, I see a lot of insecurity

Chaz269 · Answer

I have. Although I probably wouldn't again.

omgjassy · Answer

I would not date a guy like that.

Anonymous · Answer

There’s only one girl I know who drinks every day possibly & boy can she suck a 🍆

Anon-ymous1 · Answer

Sure, if I like her. Duh.

ladsin · Answer

Is she drinking with me?

Anonymous · Answer

Yes... I also drink a lot... there's no problem indrinking but upto a certain limit

Xaged · Answer

Yeah, could use a good drinking buddy

Itismeagain · Answer

Well I will not date a guy who drinks at all.

YingKim · Answer

I drink everyday :o Water :)

Vindi · Answer

Every weekend is different than every day.

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