Would you date a girl that drinks every weekend?

[Anonymous]

[datgirl]

You see, I don't see anything wrong with alcohol or drinking it, but I get kind of annoyed when people are so crazy and obsessed about it. There are people who just need it all the time to have a good time it's like calm down.. its just alcohol. I sometimes drink when I go out with friends or other people are having it around me and I'll have a glass of wine every night with my work out buddy but thats it. I never go out of my way to get it or drink it on my own. I prefer water, teas/coffee, juice etc. So yea, i would be a little turned off if a guy was consistently drinking.

[Darkfairie17]

I think ultimately to be happy a person needs to find someone similar to them.

Sure opposites can attract, but often it's people who have more in common who are happier.

Think about it, if you are someone who loves to go out and drink, but have a boyfriend who refuses to go out and do anything fun. It would suck!

That doesn't mean it won't work out. But likely it will put a strain on the relationship.

It's also not wise to change who you are for your partner. So if going out and drinking every weekend brings you joy, then you do you!

[oliviaroseleroux]

Depends. Someone that drinks wine with their meals on weekends or someone that has a cocktail when you go out isn’t a big deal. Drinking is encouraged socially where I’m from. Almost all events revolve around it. If someone was drinking socially and not just to get smashed every night then yes I would

[samhradh_leannan]

If by drinking you mean having a couple of drinks, I would date someone who drinks every weekend. If by drinking you mean getting wasted, then absolutely not, I couldn't date that person.

[mrsatori]

It's not about her love of alcohol, it's about her personality and how well it agrees with the one of her partner. Does it mean she loves partying a lot, or does she drink alone? Does she enjoy the state of being drunk or is it just the taste that she likes?

The love of alcohol itself is quite natural for every human being, we all drink from time to time, it should not be a turn off. However, the reason (!) a girl loves it may tell us much more about her character traits, which, in turn, might be a turn-off for some guys, but not necessarily.

[curiousnorway]

It depends on how much the person drinks, how often they gets hangover or other problems and if the person want me to join or not. I wouldn't like to date someone who gets drunk often, are partying a lot and is causing troubles. I wouldn't like being on such parties either. It's not my thing. I don't want someone to throw up at me, calling people names and making a fool out of themselves. I don't drink alcohol. People can do what they likes to, but if they do something I don't like, I may choose to not date them.

[coachTanthony]

Drinking is one thing so if you mean going out every weekend and getting trashed then that's a big FAT NO.

[Mocktinman]

To be honest this question can have multiple answers. It truthfully depends on the guy and his morals.

But for me... The answer is no.

My whole family and my wife's family drank a lot! So we don't drink. Every once in a while to celebrate maybe, but me on alcohol... Is not someone I like being. But to each their own

Hope this advise helped you!
Have a wonderful day :)

[guilly18butnot]

Yes.

Drinking is not the issue. The issue here is: does she control what she drinks or how much she drinks? Does she drink to conceal something? Does she become another person when she drinks? Does she drink as a form of self medication for some mental issues (i. e. usual is anxiety disorder, but bipolars drink often too).

But if drinking is just a way to break barriers to socialize in a responsible way, well, I think we all who drink from time to time are in there.

[InTimoreDei]

Girls that I know personally that drink every weekend are the type that jump into bed with whoever they want whenever they want and dress provocatively. They're the types that have kids out of wedlock with multiple men and then abort. They're the type that act holier than thou. So, no, I wouldn't...

[StarsInTheEyes]

A man who doesn't admire a girl that behaves like so, is admirable.

[InTimoreDei]

@StarsInTheEyes :)

[StarsInTheEyes]

@InTimoreDei 😉

[TFXNYC]

That would all depend on to what extent did she drink. Did she just have 'a few', or did she drink til she was falling down drunk? I can date any woman that enjoyed a beverage from time to time, but not someone that can't be responsible. Tried it in the past, never ends well.

[Goochbreaker]

Quit from daily drinking cold turkey half a year ago so no, I'm trying to stay away from that entirely. If the girl was perfect in every other way and had a few drinks on the weekend I might not care but 95% of girls who drink on the weekend will be too promiscuous for me anyway

[JSmuve]

Does she get drunk every weekend?
If yes, then no, I wouldn't date her.

Is this the beginning of alcohol-dependency?
If yes, then no.

Is she irresponsible and makes bad decisions when drinking?
If yes, then no.

[DizzyDesii]

My boyfriend keeps mentioning he's ready to be 21 and drink but im glad he's not yet. For me, i can tell he won't do it often but omg my moms dating a guy who drinks almost everyday. I can tell it bothers her but she's puttin up wih it

[19magic]

Things like this depends on age and whether the guy drinks as well. It can also depend on if she gets hangovers a lot too.

[jennifer_bloom]

When a girl drinks all the time, guys will wonder how trustworthy she is and if she is abandoning him for other guys or cheating on him or playing him or even using him for free drinks

[RastaMahn]

I would bone her, if that counts as dating. Of course, you never want to bone her on a weekend when she's drinking. Because as we all know, even a sip of wine makes a woman incapable of consenting to sex. Because the government considers women to be the mental level of a four-year-old.

[Brewmaster531]

They never address the man's alcohol intake with this law. If he had 5 shots, a jack and Coke and a beer, and she stopped after the shots, he (though it depends on body type) is more drunk. In this given situation, did they rape each other? Did he rape her? Did she rape him? Does his alcohol intake not matter? What if she's drunk, he isn't but she initiates the whole thing? There's too much confusion here.

[NGGRDCK]

No, I'll know a girl like this, me and her had a history, now she dates my roommate, even though what we had is in the past, she comes over and insist that I'm present in everything they do, it's weird and when I try to distance myself she gets upset and my roommate gets upset because she's upset, I feel trapped in a triangle I don't want to be in.

[KingZeus]

I drink maybe once a month so I'd like someone who does the same or at least isn't at a club/bar every weekend. This is assuming we are close in age. If she's 21, she should have fun, I can't stop her anyways.

[LittleSally]

Depends probably on what you mean 'drinks' and 'every weekend'. Do you mean has a few drinks or gets smashed?
Do you mean one day a week that's on a weekend, or Friday, Saturday and Sunday night?

[GracefulCharm]

I would date her, but I would be doubtful that our lives would become harmonious because I don't enjoy drinking alcohol at all. If she can't have a good time without drinking. We probably wouldn't last very long as a couple.

[Greaver]

Nope because I don’t want a girl that drinks tons of alcohol I want a girl that can drink one drink and be done because after they are drunk then they start fucking around and that gives them a “excuse” to cheat

[winterfox10]

I would try to avoid it. I'm not a regular or heavy drinker at this point of my life, so it would be a lifestyle adjustment issue.

[sahas20]

Never. Occasionally is fine. But every weekend its a sign of weakness and dependency on that substance.

[CrazyTurboBeast]

Bullshit

[sahas20]

Yea it is. Weak souls are dependent on other things to make them feel better all the time.

[CrazyTurboBeast]

That’s a tad judgmental.

Perhaps people drink every week cos they go out with friends?
There’s nothing wrong with that.

You sound naive.

[sahas20]

I've seen lives being destroyed by alcohol first hand. And if your friends take you to get drunk every other weekend, I doubt if they really are you friends or not.

[CrazyTurboBeast]

Right but there is a glaring difference between alcoholism and somebody that has an active social life!

Your experiences have made you judgmental. Relax.

[sahas20]

Maybe they have. You can socialize without the need of getting high too.

[CrazyTurboBeast]

Getting high?
So we’re talking drugs now as well?

Wtf are you on man, are you high just now?

We are talking about drinking, not alcoholism or drug abuse!

[Langseax]

If she keeps in shape and it stays on the weekend (and not too heavily) then why not?

If not, that’s a whole another thing.

I’d imagine girls would say the same about guys.

[BeHappy1985]

Mind boggling, why limit drinking to just weekends?

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