What does it mean when a girl asks you to sit next to her?

[Anonymous]

So my female best friend asked me to sit next to her at lunch and I don't know why.
by the way she has a boyfriend.
After this, she put her head on my shoulder for no reason
Why did she do this?

[Goochbreaker]

thot identified.

run

seriously though, girls, if you have a boyfriend, don't go cuddling up to other dudes and resting your head on their shoulders and shit, you may think this is stuck up and prudish but guys are protective of their girls and they don't want them getting physically intimate with other guys. Give em a hug to say goodbye, whatever, but this cuddling shit is too much

[Asker]

Sometimes she does this often.
Sometimes she’ll even lock arms with me when her boyfriend isn’t there

[Goochbreaker]

try to lock arms with her when her boyfriend is there and see what happens. You gotta be strong man, lord knows I wasn't when I was under 18... but you must be strong. Just say "get your fuckin head off my shoulder" and if she gets mad, be indifferent. Cold, emotionless, like a mountain.

[Asker]

This one time she was holding hands with her boyfriend and so she saw me and locked arms with me while holding hands with her boyfriend

[MJ-Pitmom]

She likes you which if she has a boyfriend doing that if they broke up I’d put a nope on that cause that is just a sample of a girl able to chest unless y’all are childhood best friends then that is different entirely

[MJ-Pitmom]

But even so she has a boyfriend she shouldn’t do that she can put her head on the bfs shoulder not yours lol

[Asker]

That’s what I thought so too. We’re best friends though.
Sometimes she even locks arms with me

[MJ-Pitmom]

Like I fun locking arms or like couple locking arms

[Asker]

The couple version.
When she does it Idek what to do. She’s only done it twice though

[MJ-Pitmom]

That isn’t really good I don’t think I don't know I think if you are in a relationship no matter what age you don’t do that with another person even a friend it would make the guy kinda jealous I’d think make him think she doesn’t care as much for him and vise versa

[MJ-Pitmom]

But I’m old fashioned

[Goochbreaker]

be the mountain

[MJ-Pitmom]

I don't know what that means lol or who you saying that too lol

[Asker]

She says we’re best friends but I’m not sure about the locking arms thing

[MJ-Pitmom]

I’d talk to her about it she shouldn’t be doing that if she just started doing all that it’s one thing if it was something y’all always did but if it just started that isn’t good if she had a boyfriend

[Asker]

This could be coincidental but today she like tried to force her way to sit next me at school during lunch.
Probably just a coincidence

[MJ-Pitmom]

No I’d talk to her about it if she is with a guy she don’t need to be doing that

[Asker]

True lol
I mean we’re best friends but there has to be boundaries

[MJ-Pitmom]

Yeah and you are a good guy who notices it most guys wouldn’t care and would let her but if she has someone you need to say look you have a boyfriend I’m not comfortable you doing this if I was your girlfriend and you did that to another guy I wouldn’t like it so I’m sure he wouldn’t like it either

[Asker]

Yes that’s true

[MJ-Pitmom]

I meant if I was your boyfriend not girlfriend your not a girl 😂 sorry

[Asker]

Lol I know what you mean

[Huntfortruth]

Sounds like she either likes you.
Or
She was having a rough day or not feeling well and having you near by was a comfort for her.

[Asker]

Well that’s good lol

[Balcazaurus]

Nothing. It means nothing.

[Asker]

True lol

[OfDeath]

You're friend zoned.

[Asker]

Ha lol
I had a feeling

[OfDeath]

You have to send a clear message. When she does that, put your hand on her inner thigh

[Asker]

I think I’ll try that

[jiothecat]

She likes you

[Asker]

Lol I don't know man it’s an oof

[jiothecat]

She digs you dude.. and she wants to make boyfriend jelly.

[Asker]

Lol I don't know man
Probably though

[jiothecat]

I know..

[Asker]

This one time though, she hung out with me because her boyfriend was with a friend who looked real pretty for him.
And so when we hung out she put on makeup and stuff which was to make her boyfriend jealous I’m guessing

[jiothecat]

And to make you interested

[Asker]

I’ve been Interested In her for a long time time now but she has rejected me and says constantly that we’re best friends so oof

[jiothecat]

Start hanging out with her more, play her old Prince songs with suggestive lyrics.. and start seeing someone else attractive.

[Asker]

I’ve been trying to move on from her, but it’s quite hard sometimes.
You’re right though.

[jiothecat]

Of course I am! Seriously start seeing someone else and play it super cool with this one. Do e everything u can to cool it down and be over it

[jiothecat]

Then you can flirt in a detached manner

[Asker]

That’s true.
I’ll do that