I've been rejected by every girl I've ever liked?

SlimThunder
I know this is long, but any advice would be much appreciated. Thanks, you all are awesome ?

I’m 17. Young yes, but it still doesn’t change the fact I’ve been rejected by every girl I’ve ever liked. Normally in something like this, I’d think “this keeps happening, what am I doing wrong?” But I can’t think of anything. They’re different circumstances every time, but the end result is the same. Whether I’m moving slow and another guys comes along, or she stops liking me, or she has a boyfriend, or she suddenly starts ignoring me, or we don’t live close enough, there’s more and more circumstances of many types. The end result is the same. It doesn’t work out between me and her, not at all. And it’s not like I like just one type of girl. I like girls who are pretty, shy and quiet, nice and extroverted, in between, etc. It’s just so frustrating! Some people might say to go after other girls, but the thing is I can’t just go after any Jane off the street. The girls I like I sort of “click” with, meaning we get along well, and it’s sort of like things flow easily (i.e. conversation & personalities) between us. If I went after any other girl for the purpose of going after a girl, it would be wrong and I would feel bad. There are girls who like me, but I don’t really click with them. I know you’re saying give them a shot and I sort of am. I’m trying to get to know them, talking to them, trying to get to know them more, but I still just feel nothing and don’t feel interested. If I went out with them, it would be for reasons other than attraction, selfish reasons such as lust or going out with her for the sake of going out with her. It would be leading her on and I don’t want to have that on my conscience. I’m the nice guy. I’m the guy who believes in love and happy endings, who wants nothing more than to make her feel special and love her. That’s just me. I’m conservative and like to take things slow. I tried taking things fast before and not only did it not work, it just didn’t feel right. Even though I try to smile and try to tell myself it’s all fine, which works sometimes, the feeling of loneliness always seems to creep up on me, and the fact that though I’m surrounded by 6.7 billion other people, I feel alone. I just want someone to share my life and love with and have no one.

I've been rejected by every girl I've ever liked?
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