Pros: there is some familiarity and comfort. You already know so much about your ex and what they like/dislike.
Cons: it never goes as well as you may have hoped. Whatever issues separated you two the first time may very well strain your relationship the second time around.
Also, if he was the one to say you shouldn’t contact him again, then just keep doing you and if he can’t resist, he will initiate contact with you sooner or later.
I'd say not to contact him because it's been awhile already and you don't want to start all over again with your healing process. He could reach out to you if he wanted. He can stare at you all he wants. He has the same option of contacting you but he hasn't. Cons.. feeling Rejected and driving yourself crazy if he doesn't answer or respond. Pros. You get to see if he's still interested. 7 months is a long time why do you want him back?
If he initiated the breakup/cut off then why would you lower your own self respect by contacting him?
Also, did YOU see him looking. Forget friends.
My advice is stay quiet. Force him to initiate.
by the way what was the fight over?
May be at that time he told not to contact him in anger... U should contact him
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I would look at why you broke up, and has anything changed or will be different now? In most cases, the answer is no and it will just repeat itself.
Just remind them he closed the door. If he wants to talk it is definitely his job to open it.
I just don't talk to exes in general. Once the relationship is over, I am done. If they try to contact me, I'll tell them to stop.
I'd fallow his wishes, let him break his not contact rule.. If you friends are wrong about contacting him, you'll look a little stalkerish
If he told you not to contact him then make him eat his words. The ball is in his court. You should be focusing on your own lie now.
Stay away, stop all contact. Exe's never seem like the same people once you split up with them anyway.
The pros are that you can ask them what are your insufficiencies and bad qualities. They can be really telling and give very useful information on how to correct yourself.
Pros you feel happy for the short period (if you start talking)
Cons you’ll get hurt for sure
You will become his booty call and nothing more. Focus on your life and move on..
Pro. Become friends
Con some one may pick up the wrong sign
Focus on you when u heal and become the best you it won't evan be a question. Ex for a reason
Pros- having a valentine next year
Cons- drama plus some extra
I think you should contact the person again and give a second and last chance.
Don't waste your time.
Exes are exes for a reason.
Keep away. You broke up for a reason
don't do it please
NEVER go back
You knw ach other too well to feel comfortable
Never go back to an ex
did you have sex with him, when you were dating him?
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