Why did these girls treat me like this?

[insidetherabithole]

I was a freshman and there were these two older girls. I looked older for my age I was 6’0” had a deep voice and looked like I was 18 at least. At first I talked to one. Girl 1 she laughed loudly at my joke and at great length then waited after class to tease me by saying boo. She began finding any way to talk to me butted in all my conversations or laugh at dumb stuff I say. 1 Got red while talking to me couldn’t look me in the eye and smiled while hiding her face. Couldn’t look me in the eyes and say hi first. From me saying hi first she blushed. After getting my attention did the same thing to tease me. I was joking around with her and she says my name a lot and I could see the joy in her eyes she held good eye contact and had a gut feeling she likes me. She giggled and said my name for no reason. 2 started talking to me and they both laughed at my jokes and smiled a lot at me. She found any excuse for me to be around them and asked me to be around them. She copied how I walked then said she’s doing it. They started asking for selfies with me and I had to be next to 1 she would ask me for a selfie when I talked to her and wanted me closer to her. She might’ve had her friend come and get me for a selfie when she was dressed up. They approached me together and 2 helped 1 approach me. 1 found any excuse to talk to me. They both smiled and made eye contact with me seeing me and when I looked at them. 2 offered me a ride when it was unnecessary. 2 said “he’s 6’ tall with long legs ooh” and 1 said “nobody else is as big as you” and asked me how much Im taller than my dad by. They both flirted with me. Well now they’re women. They aren’t friends anymore after this with me. 2 got a boyfriend and she only came and talked to me once. She wants nothing to do with me, unfollowing me and 1 on ig. I don’t exist to her. I see 1 around and she has been trying to get my attention and places herself where I can see her and does things to draw attention to herself and stares at me.

[MrBurke]

Well im not sure how to help you out here but I've had a similar experience but I am older than them and they always tried to talk to me keep my attention and so on they wanted selfies with me I didn't understand them I got the vibe that these were bimbos though and I knew what they wanted after awhile seeing as I don't want that with that kind of chick also I learned from an acquaintance that they were taken of course by then I was already trying to tell them off to no avail one of them is still trying to get in my pants I think even though I graduated we are unfortunately in the same neighborhood well I don't know why I told this or if it helped but if they bother you just ignore them or try to tell them off or something I don't know I just got invited to this thing

[insidetherabithole]

So how come they treated me this way

[MrBurke]

I don't know maybe they just wanted sex

[insidetherabithole]

How come they’d compliment a lot
Offer me a ride
Find any excuse to be around me talk
Want selfies with me
Smile a lot
Everything
Shower me with attention

[MrBurke]

Girls are totally batshit crazy in high school I've found out that the hard way now that girls in college have graduated to just batshit crazy

[insidetherabithole]

How come they would do that stuff

[MrBurke]

Dude your trying to understand women even other women don't understand women nobody but God understands women

[insidetherabithole]

Could you report Herelbes opinion

[N192K001]

Girl 1 seems to like you a lot, while 2 was either just backing 1 up or also liked you but is trying not to be a jerk to 1 and is hence keeping herself unavailable to you.

If you are interested, pursue 1 and leave 2 alone.

[insidetherabithole]

Did it sound like they were fond of me

[N192K001]

From the information provided and the way it was presented, it seemed so (based on my very limited knowledge of women). But, I would not advise pursuing Girl 2, a scenario that would create so much unnecessary trouble for all 3 of you.

[insidetherabithole]

How come they’d compliment a lot
Offer me a ride
Find any excuse to be around me talk
Want selfies with me
Smile a lot
Everything
Shower me with attention

[N192K001]

Those behaviors done by women in high concentration/number in a limited number of time while all directed to you seems indicative of interest in you as a person. Girl 1 seems open to a relationship and seems to be waiting for a romantic response from you.

[insidetherabithole]

How come two girls who are friends that are older would give this special treatment To a guy did they want to build me up or something feel like I needed some loving

[N192K001]

It appears to be a show of interest and a test of your availability for a romantic relationship.

[insidetherabithole]

What kind’ve relationship did the 3 of us have and were we special friends lol

[insidetherabithole]

His would they think of me and view me now that they’re women

[Prettyojos1]

Well one was certainly interested in you she just didn’t know how to tell you but her behavior certainly spoke how she felt. It spoke for her if that makes any sense the other one that has a boyfriend now doesn’t want anything to do with you because she’s probably in a serious relationship and doesn’t want to jeopardize anything as well just is that friend to help her friend get that guy she is interested like guys have that one friend who will help them get that girl they like the type man wing man but girl version if it makes an sense. And she did find you physically attractive if they are describing how tall you are as well

[insidetherabithole]

How com she seemed to flirt on her own try to be around me offer me rides compliment me

[Prettyojos1]

She certainly into you she may not have told you straight forward but her behavior and her giving you compliments left and right and t always near you and flirting with you she’s interested because if she wasn’t you would receive to much action. The only thing is if she flirts with every other guy that’s a different story May be a attention seeker but if she is solid and only flirt with you and complement you and offer you rides then you are solid man you are good and she’s very interested and like when a guy likes a girl he goes for what he wants. And you probably have something that she really likes beside your physical exterior if you guys have interacted and personal gotten to know one another. have chemistry

[insidetherabithole]

I didn’t hit on either of them like most guys did or say they’re hot

[Prettyojos1]

Okay compared to the other guys which call them hot etc is probably that you’re very tall from what you said earlier they find you very attractive out of all the other guys that called them hot they have that Eye onthe prize and they are trying to get you basically if they’re telling you multiple compliments as well as offering numerous rides. Some girls Ignore the guys that pay attention and they don’t want Can tell them that their beautiful hot etc. but if they’re not interested then that’s that no chance. And other is some girls will notice guys Who don’t pay attention and complement them and it’s like a spark in their minds and question it’s like you’re different there used to someone giving compliments left and right attention and you don’t give it to them so there are several key factors in this situation from what I have gotten from this feedback you don’t give them what they want so you steak out plus if you’re attractive. Because some pretty girls actually have low self-esteem

[insidetherabithole]

Did they sound fond of me

[Prettyojos1]

50/50 don’t want to get you hyped nor do I want to stir you in the wrong direction. Yes they are fond of you but I am not certain if it is because they’re hot &need some uplifting ego strokeand you don’t pay attention to them which is not what are used to getting or seeing since otherguys say they’re hot. yes they are fond of you but I am not certain if it is because their used to complements, attention &you don’t pay attention to them which is not what are used to so You stick out goes for guys too that& how tall you are as with they have mentioned you will have to feel the vibe and see if it genuinely there don’t go in so quick because you don’t want to get hut for someone’s boost to feel better whether it’s a girl or a guy not cool to play someone to make you feel better not saying they are but just see how things go&get the vibe and feel if they’re being genuine you can tell what they are about and if it takes a while the truth will come& be shown & ican tell you w/h confidence

[Prettyojos1]

You are a young And if I can give some advice from past things and advise and help others to maybe permanent damage in the heart department I will no matter if young or older than me I can give my own experiences and advise. I know if I can give some advice from past things and advise and help others to maybe permanent damage in the heart department I will no matter young or older than me I can give my own experiences and advise. You’re instincts will tell you you will have a feelings or some people have that good eyeI detector to decode.

[insidetherabithole]

How come they’d compliment a lot
Offer me a ride
Find any excuse to be around me talk
Want selfies with me
Smile a lot
Everything
Shower me with attention
Did they figure they should give me some loving

[Athena1]

I think the 1 genuinely likes you because of her behavior, so maybe try asking her if she likes you. And as awkward you think it might be girls want to know what their friend or boyfriend are thinking and if it's wrong then at least you know that she doesn't like you and she will likely forget about it later on. And if she does then at least you know and can date her, if you like her too.

[insidetherabithole]

How come they both treated me that way

[Athena1]

I think that 1 liked your first , but something happened between them so 2 thought she might get back at 1

[insidetherabithole]

What do you mean

[insidetherabithole]

At first

[Athena1]

1 liked you but needed help talking to you so 2 helped her

[insidetherabithole]

Did 2 at all or no

[Athena1]

But honestly there are many things that go that could have happened , but since 1 is still around and is hinting that she likes you, she might actually be interested

[Athena1]

I don't think 2 really did

[insidetherabithole]

But she flirted with me tried to be around me any excuse

[Athena1]

Do you like 2?

[insidetherabithole]

No but she found any excuse to be around me

[Athena1]

Define any excuse

[insidetherabithole]

Hey you can walk with us do this with us
Hey I’ll do this with you
Want a ride

[Athena1]

As a girl, I do that with many of my guy friends, except for the driving, but sometimes there is the assumption that you like them when you don't and I think that's what happened here.

[insidetherabithole]

Wait so she assumed or I did

[Athena1]

I think you assumed she likes you when she was just helping out a friend

[insidetherabithole]

Another one of her friends looked at her and said her name when I entered a room

[insidetherabithole]

For 1

[Athena1]

1's friend? 2's friend? Or both of their friend?

[insidetherabithole]

Friend of both of them

[Athena1]

And she said 2's name?

[insidetherabithole]

No the friend did it to 1

[Athena1]

Girls do that when the guy their friend likes is in the same place

[insidetherabithole]

Well now we’re in college. I was in class finishing up and she showed up on time for class and just walks in. She saw me then stared at me a little when I wasn’t looking. After that she shows up 20 minutes early and keeps walking by 4 5 times then stands in the doorway then waits by the door.

[Athena1]

SHE LIKES YOU!!!

[insidetherabithole]

She’s a 21 yo woman now

[insidetherabithole]

Is it like she’s a school girl again

[Athena1]

Meaning?

[insidetherabithole]

Like school girl crush she’s shy
She’s a flirty school girl again

[Athena1]

Kinda because it's weird if she just stands there and started at you, so she goes out and pretends to be there when you are free

[insidetherabithole]

No she doesn’t stand in the door and stare at me she stands in the doorway pretty much in the room

[Athena1]

Do you like her? Do you think she has become someone importantly in your life, like if she just disappeared would it affect you?

[insidetherabithole]

I thought she’s a good friend

[Athena1]

Then ask her if she likes you!

[insidetherabithole]

How come she shows up early and does that like what type of tactic is that

[Athena1]

That's is something some girls do

[insidetherabithole]

What exactly is the mentality like what is the intention

[Athena1]

Being with you. Like if you really liked someone won't you want to talk to them more, and be with them more?

[insidetherabithole]

She doesn’t talk to me
When she was a school girl she only approached with her friend and blushed from me saying hi and couldn’t look me in the eyes say hi first

[Athena1]

She is shy and didn't know how to start the conversation

[insidetherabithole]

Does she still need a girlfriend to approach me

[Athena1]

Maybe, try talking to her and initiating the conversation and then she will easy up

[insidetherabithole]

How come she’d be happy and flirt with me whenever I made the first move and talked to her

[Athena1]

She likes you and thinks you might like her back

[insidetherabithole]

Hey could you report Herelbes opinion

[MissOptimistic]

Girls can be mean. One, the one who doesn't want anything to do with you was most likely trying to use you. And the other one most likely genuinely likes you or feels bad because of that other girl. But more importantly, ask. Be confident. Us girls can definitely be mean. Not saying that we're all like that, but it definitely sounds like the girls I went to high school with. Just remember, there are other fishies in the sea that are genuine and sweet. Why people act the way they do, you will never know exactly why unless you ask them yourself.

[insidetherabithole]

So 1 liked me
What do you mean the other one was trying to use me

[joshua1799]

Looks quite obvious 1 likes you and 2 is already in a relation they both clearly have had a feel for you, but maybe 2 got fed up of waiting for you to make the move so she moved on? Try asking 1 out for a date and whats the worst that can happen you loose her? Well if ur 6ft tall thats 1 feature girls just love no matter what if ur tall girls want you simple. Thats my opinion height plays a very important role

[insidetherabithole]

Wdym had a feel for

[joshua1799]

They had a crush on you? (1 seems to still have that crush on u)

[insidetherabithole]

Did they act like my girlfriends

[joshua1799]

No they quite acted like they want to be your girlfriends

[insidetherabithole]

Was I like a teddy bear to them how come to friends would treat a younger guy like that did they want something with the three of us

[joshua1799]

Actually that is somewhat more depending on the individuals itself in uk girls are not much of the sharing type haha

[insidetherabithole]

Did they sound fond of me

[insidetherabithole]

Most guys would hit on them
Say they’re hot I did nothin like that treated them nothing like other guys

[joshua1799]

You are just making them feel like they are being friendzoned by you... And eventually that will make u fall into their friendzone

[insidetherabithole]

Now that they’re women how would they think of me and view me

[SuccessfulPoem]

They were probably attracted to you and that is why they wanted to be close to you. The one that doesn't really talk to you anymore has a boyfriend that is probably the reason she unfollowed you. The other one is probably still attracted to you, maybe waiting for you to make a move. So if you are attracted to her then why not ask her out? :)

[insidetherabithole]

Why would two friends decide to do that to a guy younger than them
Like did they figure I needed some loving

[SuccessfulPoem]

How old were they?

[insidetherabithole]

I was a freshman they were seniors
They’re women now

[SuccessfulPoem]

Well you said you looked like you were 18 at least so they probably thought you were the same age as them:)

[insidetherabithole]

Was I like a big teddy bear to them or something
How come they’d both shower with attention want selfies smile a lot laugh, find any excuse to be around me and offer me ride and be on top of me

[SuccessfulPoem]

Yes you were probably like a big teddy bear to them :))

[insidetherabithole]

How come they both did it
Do girls like sharing a guy to do this stuff with

[SuccessfulPoem]

Some do. Maybe they feel like it's not as hard to flirt if they are both doing it together because then they'll both get rejected together if you didn't like it, instead of just one of them. Or maybe they were competing, the first one to get you wins. Many girls are weird, especially at that age. :)

[insidetherabithole]

Was there anything wrong with how they treated me I thought they’re sweethearts

[SuccessfulPoem]

It isn't wrong if you liked it.

[insidetherabithole]

How come they’d do that did it sound like they were fond of me and thought I’m different than other guys
Most guys would hit on them say you’re hot I didn’t treat them like that

[SuccessfulPoem]

Yes they probably thought you were different because of that, maybe more of a boyfriend material.

[insidetherabithole]

Were they fond of me

[SuccessfulPoem]

Yeah probably.

[insidetherabithole]

Did I get the girlfriend treatment from both of them

[SuccessfulPoem]

It sounds like that.

[insidetherabithole]

What type of relationship did the 3 of us have a special friendship
Like we’re they trying something with the three of us

[Lex23stars]

I feel like they got into it with each other and somehow girl 1 won... and now she’s trying to move forward with you, 2 is probably upset that she lost and Is being immature about it... do you like either one? It seems like you’ve been taken by surprise bc they’ve been so straight forward with how much they want your attention.

[insidetherabithole]

Not sure about them
How come 2 found any excuse to be around me and liked offered me ride for no reason and complimented

[Lex23stars]

IT sounds like she was attracted to you then or around that time period... flirting and finding ways to Be close to you... but feelings do change over time... think of it... they put in all that effort to be around you with what results... your not sure about either... girl 2 has given up and has moved on while girl 1 is still trying to play the game

[insidetherabithole]

Now how come they both would treat a guy like that and on their snapchats would put bffs on out selfies
How come they would both treat a guy like me
They have a special place in my heart

[Lex23stars]

You must be an awesome dude... sometimes others see things that we can’t see in ourselves... but honestly when it comes down too it. These two people liked you a good amount and expressed it. The next step to really understanding their feelings is to talk to them about the situation. Maybe girl 1 bc she seems more eager and ready to reply. And if you want to restore the relationship with girl 2 you’ll have to figure out what happened bc something went wrong... also you can’t live like a king with 2 girls complimenting you and doting on you forever so your sadly in the situation where you can have one or none bc no one wants to be strung along

[insidetherabithole]

I didn’t hit on either of them like most guys did or say they’re hot

[Lex23stars]

It’s more like they want a reply... to a question unanswered... they want you to notice and say hey you’ve been around I’m starting to like you girl 1... or you girl 2, they probably don’t wanna just ask you to be with them, like subtle hints a girl does to get you to do something...

[insidetherabithole]

Did they sound fond of me like did they view me different from other guys

[Lex23stars]

Probably bc everyone else hit on them whereas you were there bc you liked them as people and you actually cared... people like that are hard to come by. So yea they did that stuff bc your one of a kind... alittle innocent too... girls like that at times

[insidetherabithole]

How come they’d compliment a lot
Offer me a ride
Find any excuse to be around me talk
Want selfies with me
Smile a lot
Everything

[Lex23stars]

You won’t know unless you ask... they are the only ones who can tell you... be brave you got this!

[insidetherabithole]

They figure I need loving lol

[nojokecarmichael]

1 definitely likes you. Two might have or she could have been just doing things to help her friend out.

Is it rude for a guy to redirect attention to another girl momentarily while talking to another one? ↗

[insidetherabithole]

Did they act like my gfs

[nojokecarmichael]

No, that's just what some girls do when they're flirting

[insidetherabithole]

Why did they both flirt laugh at stuff I say easily want selfies with me find any excuse to be around me talk to me defend me and smile a lot. Then offer me rides
Be on top of me and give me all that attention

[nojokecarmichael]

You're obviously attractive to them

[insidetherabithole]

Was I like some crush that they both shared

[insidetherabithole]

A
Crush they both had

[nojokecarmichael]

Probably, they might have both tried to see who could get with you first

[nojokecarmichael]

Can you answer my question that I linked?

[insidetherabithole]

done
what do you mean get with

[nojokecarmichael]

Like date you

[insidetherabithole]

were they jealous
trying to see which one I'd ask out and which one can win me over

[nojokecarmichael]

No idea, might as well ask the one that's available while you have the chance to

[insidetherabithole]

do they sound like thots

[nojokecarmichael]

S**t possibly. It could have just been a friendly competition

[insidetherabithole]

wdym friendly competition

[hansukota]

Dude they where teasing around and hitting on u. It's college life man. Plus ur tall and have a deep voice, its most girls fantasy. Plus u were younger than them. If your not into casual then start dating someone. If what u said is true about yourself thin I don't think it will b that hard for you

[insidetherabithole]

Did they like me

[hansukota]

Mostly not. they just were fooling around

[insidetherabithole]

Did it sound like 1 did. one of her friends looked at her and said her name when I entered a room

[hansukota]

1 does seem interested. Y don't u ask her out. I'm sure she will say yes

[insidetherabithole]

But you said they were teasing around

[hansukota]

I got a bit confused with the numbers. After reading again I got it right

[insidetherabithole]

What does it sound like on review

[hansukota]

Review of?

[insidetherabithole]

The reading

[hansukota]

Of your post? A bit confusing

[insidetherabithole]

Hey could you report Herelbes opinion

[hansukota]

OK sure

[insidetherabithole]

Did you do it

[hansukota]

DM. Yes

[insidetherabithole]

What did you report for

[markpeck69]

I am not a good speller and I am not wrighing a collage papor so.
1 has a boy friend and also love has a experation date no one likes rejection or to be led on wether you ment to or not # 2 has a longer expration date if you won't her play it cool but go for it if not let her know but if you have no intrest dont pull the band aid off slow rip it off
as far as not being friends guys throw fists some girls are more catey and drage fights on over guys.

[insidetherabithole]

How come they both treated me that way

[markpeck69]

tough trough
O I thought 2 was still flurtatious I chase after a girl for 3 monts and she was not intrested so I got tierd of sayong to my self what is wrong with me now I wish I did not have to see her becose it is just like FU good luck finding your chiseld rocket scientest. I doesent matter how nice you are how hot you are how charming you are they are pised at being rejected and if you were hed over heals for some one and maby lost a frend ship over it you would be too. If you won't her you are in for a up hill fight. Good luck emotions are not rational

[insidetherabithole]

I rejected both of them?

[LostLxxn]

Story was rather confusing so I'm not sure if they were friends or not but anyways..1# probably liked/likes you as for 2# was there to help 1# not make it too obvious but throw hints at you or reverse either way go 1# ;)

[insidetherabithole]

How come 2 found any excuse to be around me and did the stuff Girls do when flirting
Why both shower me with attention offer me rides find any excuse to be around me compliment everything

[LostLxxn]

My friend and I did that to our guy friend it's perfectly normal but anyways it seems like you miss one of them just go for it I think you have a good chance

[insidetherabithole]

Why did you do it

[LostLxxn]

My friend and him use to date he came to us for support after they had broken up we all became close and comfortable with each other

[insidetherabithole]

We’re they fond of me

[insidetherabithole]

I feel like I grew to love them and they’ll
Take a special place in my heart

[Pluto4prez]

1 has a crush on you. 2 might have been playing the wingman for 1 and gave up when you were too busy overthinking things to respond to her advances. It's possible that 2 told 1 to give it up as well, but she didn't, and it caused a rift between them, and 2 is now mad at you for that.

[insidetherabithole]

Mad at me for what

[Pluto4prez]

For wasting her time.

[insidetherabithole]

Wasting her friend’s time or both of their time

[Pluto4prez]

Both.

[insidetherabithole]

How did I waste her time too

[Pluto4prez]

By not responding to the, "I want to be your girlfriend. Now ask me out or tell me you're not interested. But for the love of all that is good and holy, figure out what you want, make a decision, and do something about it." treatment that they were both giving you. 1 is still giving you that treatment. 2 has concluded, based on the evidence presented, that you're an idiot who isn't worth the effort and believes that she wasted her time trying to set you up with 1, who she believes is still wasting her time on you.

[insidetherabithole]

How did I cause a rift between them did they have a falling out over me because 2 thinks 1 is wasting her time on me

[D_Bone_Steak]

I just got done answering another question like this, but here it is again...

I was skinny... nothing. I got fat... nothing. I got buff... they giggle when I walk past.

Kinda obvious if you think about it...

[insidetherabithole]

Now how come they treated me like that

[D_Bone_Steak]

They wanted you. Nothing happens at all when they dont.

[insidetherabithole]

How come some guy said they were messing around playing games
Are guys like that jealous assholes

[D_Bone_Steak]

I'd say they are jealous assholes. Like the jealous assholes I overhear talking shit about me as the girl hanging on his arm is eye fucking me.

[insidetherabithole]

How come two girls that are close friends would treat a guy like that and flirt with him try to be around him any excuse shower compliments and attention

[insidetherabithole]

Almost didn’t see jealous
We’re they trying something with the 3 of us

[D_Bone_Steak]

Same reason I just over heard "now that's a pretty boy" by two girl when I was looking at which milk to buy... I didn't figure it out until I walked past them and they started giggling.

It just is what it is dude.

[insidetherabithole]

Did I get like the girlfriend treatment from them

[D_Bone_Steak]

At least the initial giggly shit they did. You gotta take it further if you want them on their knees giving you the girlfriend treatment the way I get them to do.

[insidetherabithole]

How would they remember me a special guy that will be in a special place in their hearts? They always said they’d miss me

[D_Bone_Steak]

Gotta be special... that part is a gift of practice.

[insidetherabithole]

Did they both give me affection

[D_Bone_Steak]

Hard to say... the giggles is attraction, affection is something more. A lot of girls will do the giggles part and expect you to pursue of chase them. Some girls simply never give much affection... even if they like you.

[jabbahut]

1 most likely likes you and 2 I think just wants to flirt and play around as such. Not much girls are serious in college about relationships especially younger ones in their late teens.

Had the same scenario at college

[insidetherabithole]

Did it sound like they’re fond of me

[DayniaJ]

The first one seems she likes you more than the others. I can't say what happened with the others though.

[insidetherabithole]

There was a second one

[DayniaJ]

The second one i think may have backed off to give #1 the chance to be with you. It seems #1 still does like you though. As she still tries to get your attention.

[insidetherabithole]

What was 2 doing

[DayniaJ]

Its hard to say because all girls behave differently in various situations. But i think its either: 1) she liked you too but decided to let girl #1 go ahead because she met you first. 2) she found someone else she liked more 3) girl #1 probably told her to back off.
I can't say for sure. You'd have to ask girl#2

[insidetherabithole]

Were they both acting like my girlfriends

[DayniaJ]

It seems that they liked you. And girl#1 possibly wanted to get to know you more or become your girlfriend.

[insidetherabithole]

Like did I get the girlfriend treatment from them

[Mornin23]

You should make a move man, women putting themselves out there like that doesn’t happen very often...

[insidetherabithole]

now why did they treat me that way

[Mornin23]

Because they were into you. 1 almost for sure, 2 might’ve just been trying to help her get with you. Take some initiative and go for it

[insidetherabithole]

Wait did 2 try something and was she into me

[Mornin23]

I don’t know, but it’s auite possible. 1 was though. And probably still is.

[madhatters4]

girl 1 likes you
girl 2 has a boyfriend and isn't making herself available

[insidetherabithole]

what was up with 2 why act like how she did

[madhatters4]

she got a boyfriend so she is no longer willing flirt and what not... that's what my interpretation is

[insidetherabithole]

Did she like me at all or no

[madhatters4]

certainly possible she liked you but makes sense her behavior after she gets in a relationship would change significantly.

[madhatters4]

you would want your girlfriend to stop flirting with guys after she started dating you right?

[insidetherabithole]

Yes
Now why do I no longer exist and she ignored me and everything

[insidetherabithole]

Why make herself unavailable

[madhatters4]

because she has a boyfriend and you were a flirtation

would you want a girlfriend hanging out with the guys she flirted with prior to being with you?

[insidetherabithole]

But to not talk to me and act like I don’t exist

[madhatters4]

was your relationship based platonic friendship or flirtation?

[insidetherabithole]

Flirtation
Now what do you mean flirtation

[insidetherabithole]

Are you saying we had a flirtationship

[madhatters4]

i think you living too much by your profile name. many times girls and guys have flirtatious relationships built on romantic interest. if the romantic interest is no longer possible then the interactions and "relationship" will disappear

don't try to glean too much from this

[insidetherabithole]

Was it a flirtatious relationship
Now the only reason she wanted something to do with me is romantic interest

[insidetherabithole]

I thought we were just toying around

[madhatters4]

what is the difference between toying around and flirting?

and if you're just toying around what is there left to do once she's in a relationship? you can't keep toying around

[insidetherabithole]

Is there a difference
I think there might be
Now how come she had a boyfriend who lived next door to me and she acted like I never existed

[madhatters4]

because she has a boyfriend and you were a flirtation... or as you said were toying around.

you gotta stop going round in circles about this

[insidetherabithole]

I thought it wasn’t anything serious if it was something serious then ignore me

[insidetherabithole]

Well I go to the same college as
1 interesting story

[insidetherabithole]

I go to the same college as 1
She saw me in a class she walked into showing up on time. Stared at me when I wasn’t looking
Now shows up 20 minutes early and walks by the room 4 5 times then stands in the doorway then waits outside it

[Eryxx]

The first one definitely seemed to like you. Can't tell exactly about the second one. Maybe she was just flirting.

[insidetherabithole]

How come they were both flirting
2 found any excuse to be around me
Compliment me a lot

[Eryxx]

As you said #2 has a boyfriend now and has unfollowed you and #1. She wasn't looking for something serious I suppose or maybe she thought that you didn't like her back. I'm sure about the first one though, she likes you.

[insidetherabithole]

Why did 2 act like that

[Eryxx]

No idea about that, I can't tell.

[insidetherabithole]

Did they figure I needed some loving or something lol

[menina]

It looks like they liked you and girl 1 is still interested in you.

[insidetherabithole]

Did they act like they were my girlfriends

[menina]

I don't think so.

[insidetherabithole]

Why did they both flirt laugh at stuff I say easily want selfies with me find any excuse to be around me talk to me defend me and smile a lot. Then offer me rides

[menina]

That's because they like you.

[insidetherabithole]

Do girls want to share a guy they like
Am I like a special friend to them

[menina]

It depends on the girls, but I think most wouldn't want that.

[menina]

Yes, it sounds like you are special to them.

[insidetherabithole]

Now that they’re women not school girls anymore how would they view me and think of me

[menina]

They might still like you.

[insidetherabithole]

What would make two girls who are friends both want to flirt with and shower a younger guy with all that attention and be on top of them
Like did they figure I needed some loving

[menina]

Ok, maybe they wanted to have a threesome with you.

[insidetherabithole]

Did they give me affection

[menina]

You're the only one who knows that since you've been with them.

[insidetherabithole]

How come one would say nobody else is as big as you ask me how much I’m taller than Dad by than another said he’s 6’ tall with long legs

[menina]

I don't understand that. You have to ask them.

[insidetherabithole]

Do women or young girls really like 6’0” guys Is that really a big thing

[menina]

Yes, we do. Lots of women like tall men.

[insidetherabithole]

Did they really like that I was 6’0”

[menina]

Yes, they did.

[insidetherabithole]

Now I’m between 6’1” 6’2” put on weight
Would they like that or is 6’0” better

[menina]

They would like that.

[insidetherabithole]

Did they sound fond of me and view me different than other guys
I didn’t hit on them
Say they’re hot or do anything like that

[menina]

Yeah, they did.

[insidetherabithole]

We’re they fond of me

[menina]

Yeah

[insidetherabithole]

What would the intentions be of two close friends flirting with a guy like that and finding any excuse to be around him and talk to him

[timeflies10]

They both like you and I think girl 1 still likes you maybe?

[insidetherabithole]

Did I get like the girlfriend treatment from both of them

[timeflies10]

What do you mean by the girlfriend treatment?

[insidetherabithole]

Act like my girlfriend

[timeflies10]

The first one definitely did more than the 2nd one. Yes.

[insidetherabithole]

did it sound like they were grooming me

[timeflies10]

A little

[insidetherabithole]

wait how do u see grooming as

[DaChillCookie]

They obviously liked you. Don't know what else to say since you seem pretty aware of this

[insidetherabithole]

Did I get the girlfriend treatment from both of them

[DaChillCookie]

Apparently you did

[insidetherabithole]

How come two girls that are friends would do that with a guy a couple years younger

[DaChillCookie]

They probably didn't care about your age, more about your appearance

[insidetherabithole]

We’re they trying something with the three of us
And am I like some teddy bear to them

[DaChillCookie]

I'm pretty sure they were, yeah. They were just leeching off of you, pretty much

[insidetherabithole]

Leeching off?

[DaChillCookie]

Means they're getting as close as possible to you and sucking up all your attention.

[insidetherabithole]

Why would two friends do that with a guy

[insidetherabithole]

Do girls want to have a guy friend they both like so they can share and flirt with him

[DaChillCookie]

Yup. Some people are into that, including me.

[insidetherabithole]

What kind of relationship did the three of us have

[Anonymous]

2's boyfriend put his foot down. While 1 wants to be your girlfriend.
This reminds me of my best friend and I at school with a 6.6ft college guy who played basketball only we had a threesome.

[insidetherabithole]

Why did they both fuss over me

[insidetherabithole]

How come they’d compliment a lot
Offer me a ride
Find any excuse to be around me talk
Want selfies with me
Smile a lot
Everything
Shower me with attention

[Opinion Owner]

2 was probably competing against 1 to be a bitch to 1 but it's 1 that really wanted you.

[Opinion Owner]

To be your girlfriend. Maybe they both were willing to share you.

[insidetherabithole]

We’re they both acting like my girlfriends

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah but it sounds like you missed an opportunity

[insidetherabithole]

Was I getting like the girlfriend treatment from both

[Opinion Owner]

Including sex?

[insidetherabithole]

No lol so I wasn't

[Opinion Owner]

So a missed opportunity of sex with girl 1, sex with girl 2 and a threesome with girl 1&2.

[insidetherabithole]

Was that what they were trying

[turnmypainintopower1]

1 crushing big time 2 may have had a crush but sounds like she was just being a wingwoman lol

[insidetherabithole]

How come two friends would be on top of a guy and shower him with attention and find any excuse to be around him and like flirt a lot
Do that to younger guy