Girls treating guys like crap

[innray]

ok. so I'm typing this on my iPod, bear with me:)

so I have this friend, and I have a huge crush on him. but he has a girlfriend already. BUT she treats him like crap and I don't understand why he stays with her! she fliers with all of his friends, wears other guys jackets, ignores him, bosses him around, and is just a general betch to him. and he's one of the nicest people I know and he doesn't deserve to be treated like that. I don't just say this because I like him, other of my friends have noticed it too.

so guys(or girls...): why do guys stay with girls who treat them like crap instead of going out with girls who would treat them well?

[PHILR]

LOL...you hit it on the head already "he's a nice sweet guy" he's the type of guy that girls like his girlfriend latches on to to get material things while treating him like crap as you put it. you don't mention how is dating life was from before so I'll assume this girl may be his first real girlfriend .

why does he stay with her . ask some girls why they stay with jerks that treat them poorly . most likely because they won't or can't do any better . its better to be in relationship with a jerky bitch than in no relationship at all.

if he truly is a nice guy he may get his heart torn to shreds when this female jerk gets ready to dump him . he won't understand it because he's most likely clueless about the female species anyways. so if that happens just be the good friend and help him through that troubling time. being you have this huge crush on him definitly be there fore him because sooner or latter this other gal is going to tire of him and leave him dangling by a tread making him believe she may come back but most likely won't. unless she wants something that is. you sound like the female version of the nice guy. because your last statement is the exact same statement nice guys make about the girls they may have a crush on as their love is unrequited. even before this other gal decides to dump him make it known your there fore him if anythging happens. definitely let him know now how you feel . let him know that you don't believe in coming between a boyfriend/girlfriend situation unless that situation ends but that if itr did you'd appreciaate it if he'd consider you .

this may actually help him to make a definitive decission if something does happen because he now knows he has at least one other option. because you've given him a possible other option he may start thinking rationally a realize what a bitch she is a beat her to the punch and dump her.

i you carebout him let him know it and as said then be there fore him

hoped this helped

[snowboarder720]

same thing with girls. ha ha I know a REALLY cute girl that I've always wanted to be with, but she's taken with a douchebag that treats her like garbage. Its the whole "want someone who is better than you" idea. The only you can do is sit back and let nature happen. If I were you, id just stay in contact and be there for him when he needs a friend who is a girl. Then (if) things don't work out like he wanted in his current relationship, maybe he'll come to you. best of luck to ya.

[innray]

thanks! hope yours works out too

it just really sucks to watch him take that crap...

[snowboarder720]

yea and they just don't see it in a 3rd perspective lol

[Superpredator]

strange... girls always treat me really nicely... I generally don't speak to any girl that is bitchy or tries to act like she is better than everyone else

[jacki2424]

They don't think they can do any better and so just having that mean girlfriend is better than not having one at all.

[sinful1620]

Girls who treat a guy well are EXTREMELY rare. We get used to girls being self-important cnts.

[Cupcakecutie0]

He thinks she is really really hot.

What a bitch tho!

[phantomcolt10]

Maybe your friend is afraid of losing something he gets from her e.g. making out, etc. Maybe she is very attractive and he thinks that he won't get such a girl again if he breaks up? Maybe she manipulates him? possibilities are endless... Good luck!

[Smithkakarot]

So why don't you explain it to him?