To start off with, this relationship is still relatively new, but so far as a whole, we get along great. We share the same goals, we agree on the same things.
But one thing that I feel is currently getting in the way is our sex life. We do have sex fairly regularly but the issue is that it’s always me who initiates it first. And even when I do, she does enjoy the moment but doesn’t really make an effort, which I think the best way to describe it is that she enjoys sex but wouldn’t be disappointed if we didn’t have it? I have a very high sex drive and then then there’s times I do try to initiate it first and if she’s not in the mood and rejects me, it really gets me quite down. I feel if she would at least put some energy and effort into it or even initiate it herself at times, I’d take the rejection from time to time with a pinch of salt.
I don’t know if she’s just nervous or generally just isn’t interested like that. Apart from that, I’d say we have a fairly healthy relationship, and I don’t want this one thing to get in the way.
Any advice/tips?
But one thing that I feel is currently getting in the way is our sex life. We do have sex fairly regularly but the issue is that it’s always me who initiates it first. And even when I do, she does enjoy the moment but doesn’t really make an effort, which I think the best way to describe it is that she enjoys sex but wouldn’t be disappointed if we didn’t have it? I have a very high sex drive and then then there’s times I do try to initiate it first and if she’s not in the mood and rejects me, it really gets me quite down. I feel if she would at least put some energy and effort into it or even initiate it herself at times, I’d take the rejection from time to time with a pinch of salt.
I don’t know if she’s just nervous or generally just isn’t interested like that. Apart from that, I’d say we have a fairly healthy relationship, and I don’t want this one thing to get in the way.
Any advice/tips?
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