Do you like dominant men?

Question

What's wrong with a man being in control and telling you what to do? Just because you're submissive doesn't mean you're weak. I don't see anything wrong with it. Change my mind.

Kyle_Apricot · Accepted Answer

I think all women do, with a very small exception if at all. My last girlfriend spent her whole life doing the whole miss independent thing, yet it was only when she got with me (a guy she could actually trust and look up to) did she slowly find herself of her own accord seeking out her stereotypical sammich making role.

I think that's the difference, if a woman can find a high quality man that knows how to get what he wants, and she trusts his intentions to serve her interests as much as his own, that's when i think women instinctively desire to drop Miss Independent, and embrace being Happily Oppressed.

Passinggas · Accepted Answer

As long as he is never abusive or controlling and sensitive to her then yeah I think he earns a submissive woman. And true that does not mean she is weak and never be looked to that way.

BrittBratt2416 · Accepted Answer

I don't mind it, as long as he doesn't let it go to his head and think he can treat me any kind of way cause he's a man and head of the house. God may have appointed you to be head of the house but that doesn't mean you get to act like disrespectful fool. Once you lay your hands on me or start emotional or physically belittling then we have a problem.

BrookieCookie0422 · Accepted Answer

It’s sexy to get bossed around by a guy sometimes. I’m fully capable of making my own choices and being independent but it’s exhausting. I’d love someone to just tell me what to do with my life sometimes. Lol

Plus it’s way fun in the bedroom.

Finchie40 · Answer

A man should only be dominant and controlling in bed but outside the bedroom he should let u be who u are , if he is telling u what u can wear or where u can go Then that is just abuse , in a relationship u both should value each other and respect one another , to me a commitment already has rules , se dont commit to someone to be single or in control , if someone has to control u to make them happy then u r setting yourself up for disaster. And more cases then some the person controlling doesn't trust u so they sure as hell dont trust themselves

ariadneR · Answer

I'm gonna say yes.
While I am fiercely independent and can look after myself there's something to be said about when my boyfriend takes charge and asserts himself with me. It's not like make me food I'm hungry, it's more like come here let me look after you.
Or even if I'm being a brat. I don't know. I didn't know how attractive it was till he did it.

MzAsh · Answer

Nope. I like men who are chill enough to be okay with me doing as I please. I’ve been around dominant guys in personal and professional life and the problem is that none of them knew what they were doing. Terrible decision making skills all around. Sometimes we’re just better at making our own decisions.

ILoveAnime · Answer

Hell nah, man! I hate when people try to control me. It makes me feel trapped and threathned and I might snap at you in defensive. Tbh, I would say I'm mostly neutral but if I had to pick a side, I'm defenitly much more on the dominant side of the expectrum.

Ankitasingh466 · Answer

I like it , but he shouldn't cross the limit and be respectful.

MarkTKD · Answer

The thing is that women themselves say they want one thing, but go for the complete opposite. Most women claim they want a guy who'll treat them like a queen, but then end up going for the guy who's an asshole and wants to call all the shots. Basically, they act like they want respect, when in reality they want to be dominated. And this holds true for well over half of all women.

mysterywolf · Answer

I say definitely yes. While I see myself as independent there is something about having a guy to look up to and protect you that just makes everything better. 😁

Anonymous · Answer

Yes I like a dominant man but not to the point where everything I do he must have control of or over. Also we are both in the relationship so we are both entitle to our opinions. Also their is going to be a time in the relatiinship in different situations where he is submissive and I am dominant and he is the dominant and I am the submissive and where we are both submissive and dominant in the relationship.

datgirl · Answer

They're the only kind of men I'm attracted to. Seems they are becoming rare though. 😫

Shutupman · Answer

I’m dominant myself, so is my partner it’s fun. I couldn’t deal with a man being submissive cause I’m way too strong of a person but I also wouldn’t want someone that is alpha and needs someone submissive. To each their own.

PumpkinSpiceisnice · Answer

Dominant does not mean controlling or that I should be his slave. It means that he responsible and protective of me.

pusatpardus · Answer

I think women want to feel the power of a man. and they want to take refuge in him. so they might be attracted to dominant men

thegirlfromthething · Answer

I’d prefer a more equal relationship, but there’s nothing wrong with you wanting to be submissive if it works for you and your boyfriend.

Smiley_face101 · Answer

Men are dominant. Boys are submissive. To me part of being a man is being dominant.

Anonymous · Answer

Guys are sexier dominant in my opinion but hey everyone thinks differently 🙂

FranLimonade · Answer

Yes please~ but he shouldn't be dominating me outside the bedroom.

Anonymous · Answer

The context depends. In bed, yes I like my men dominant. But just about as dominant as I would like him to be. In everyday life outside of the bed, i HATE dominance. I always look for a submissive trait outside of the bed in all my partners. I cannot tolerate being told what to do but I would absolutely love to dictate my partner.

MayBlythe · Answer

I like a man like my husband. A man who can dominate, as well as be dominated

Amnooreen · Answer

I think there should be an equal dominance by both the people. I personally dont like being dominated over... Im the dominant type

Alpha09 · Answer

Sure when I don't feel like doing all the work. In the bedroom that is, don't try it outside the bedroom.

Nadim171 · Answer

No I don't like it I like dominant women that tell me what to do, and if you have the right to like dominant men I have the right to like dominant women. Period

Secret6620 · Answer

That's the best kind 🌺

elissa23Trans · Answer

I love dominant men but only in a sexual setting. Love him to be a bit bossy in the bedroom.

LuWe22 · Answer

Joint control is much more better. I don´t need someone to tell me what I should do. We communicate, compromise and having fun. Easy and fun

TonyMetal_86 · Answer

Submissive wife is an amazing woman

FrenchyRomain · Answer

i'm a dominant so i understand your point of view

GraveDoll · Answer

i love dominant males.

Hawky_ · Answer

I'm easygoing but definitely in charge in the bedroom department

Anonymous · Answer

I love a dominant man 💪

GayHowellMeme · Answer

Yeah, that's the way it should be.

Anonymous · Answer

Nope, I'm always the dominant, especially in bed.

laurenzzz · Answer

yes i like dominant men , but only on bed

CT_CD · Answer

Yeah, that's the way it should be.

thefutureisfemale · Answer

NOOOOOOOO.  xx ~ Mrs Manson

Hamsteroids · Answer

Yesssss 👀

Samantha_17 · Answer

I only like guys who are dominant in bed !!

goldfleur · Answer

Yes..🙂

Noodle_fan · Answer

do you mean you like to be bossed around by guy?

kriti123 · Answer

Only on bed

ChefCurry · Answer

Most women like telling men what to do.

ImpatiensSultani · Answer

Nope

Anonymous · Answer

Only in bed

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