Does she like me? If she asks me to give her a foot massage...

[Anonymous]

ok, here's the deal: I'm 20 she is 3 years younger, we are christians so no sex till marriage, we go to the same church and hv become good friends over the last few months. We flirt and stuff and she is friends with my little sister who is younger than her. So, I told her I really like her and that I am willing to wait until she is ready to be in a relationship with an older guy, she said that she just wants to be friends and that she just wants to see where things go with us, I don't know what that means exactly since we are staying friends, and aren't doing anything different, but she asks me for foot massages and I'm just wondering if that plus her allowing me to wrap my arms around her while we were laying down together, if those signs means that she likes me but is afraid to do anytihing cause of the age differnce? Just tell me how to show her that I really love her and how should I do this? by telling her or just by hugging her more and holding her tight.

[helpingjessie]

well youve definitely got the right idea. she likes you, but she doesn't want to possibly give you false hope so she's holding back. just make sure she is comfortable and don't push anything.

good luck b^_^d

[anonymous1422]

She's got it right. I was about to post basically the exact same thing! She likes you-- she is flirting, but if she really wanted to be in a relationship with you she would have said yes. She might be playing games... but that is up for you to decide. Good Luck! Chat me anytime for more help.

[Asker]

I don't want to seem clingy to her, we text prob an average of 4 days a week, I hv the urge to text her everyday just to tell her how beautiful she is, but I don't want to push her like you said, I've never had a girlfriend, kissed, or anything else I've flirted with grls before but I knew that they were not going to be a good fit for me, so I let it fade, I feel she is who I'm suppose to be with for the rest of my life, I don't want to lay all of my emotions on her but I want her to know that I am serious.

[helpingjessie]

let it grow to 5 days then 6 then every day if she makes it that way. eventually if she wants you to be with her then she will either say so or you'll have to ask again. seems like you are doing pretty well. just let the chips fall as they may. if she smiles at you while biting her lip and looks at your mouth a lot then she'll want you to kiss her. if you want to act on that then do so, SLOWLY so she has a chance to stop you if she feels like she's not ready.