Would you care if a female friend of your boyfriend kissed him on the cheek?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend’s bestfriend’s girlfriend gave him a kiss on the cheek when we met them on a double date. I honestly felt uncomfortable she did it. Do I tell my boyfriend that I feel uncomfortable about it? Is it wrong I’m feeling uncomfortable?

[MissDawn7961]

try this ! to help you to feel better about this kissing act between your man and any other non relative woman ! Make sure you kiss your man on the lips every day or as much as you can ! then when you two are out with friends , let each other kiss others on the cheek but make sure neither of you touch the opposite sex on their butt or chest ! like the woman does not allow who ever she kisses to grab your butt or breast nor does your man allow another woman to touch his butt or rub his chest either ! Thanks

[menina]

I can see why it makes you uncomfortable, I would feel the same. But he's your boyfriend and she's just a friend. He loves you and I'm sure he respects you.
There's nothing wrong with your feelings. You like him, so it's normal to feel jealous/uncomfortable.
But if it really bothers you, then you should tell him. I guess he will understand you and there shouldn't be a problem.

[DUHOHNO]

Tell him, Express how it made you feel. See how he interpreted the situation then let him tell you how he felt about it. You can't let the little things bother you too much. Forgive and forget if you love him enough. Its is customary in other countries to kiss people on the cheeks that aren't your partner. I know some people do it without thinking its sexual.

[Shiver]

Cheek kisses are normal greetings, I don't think it's cause for alarm.
If he follows the bro code to any extent, he won't make any moves on his best friend's girl, nor will he cheat on you.

[lenlenxyz]

Um yes I would feel uncomfortable. First of all, there should always be boundaries be set in place in a relationship. Tell him that you're feeling uncomfortable. But it is up to HIM if he is willing to put that change in place. That is where the real relationship test is set in place.

[CubsterShura]

I'd call her out on this if she's close enough. I would hate it if any woman even hugged my man let alone kiss him on the cheek. I'm fine with handshakes in formal settings, anything beyond that is a big no-no.

[Anonymous]

Well I don’t know about you, but that is soooo common in Latin families or at least mine, we hug and kiss everyone.. might seem weird to others but perfect normal to us.. is courtesy

I see my friends families only say hi by waving that’s all. That’s weird to me. Lol like cold. As if they don’t know each Other ther, sort of the way you would say hi to a random stranger lol

[nicotinecommitment]

You should always voice your opinion in situations like this and make it known you didn't appreciate it or like it

[Asker]

Thank you!

[nicotinecommitment]

Of course

[SpacedCharr]

Nope.

I kiss certain friends on the cheek as a sign of platonic love.

I'd say have that conversation, but be open to understand first. Maybe it's a cultural thing, or a long-standing tradition.

Seek to understand first.

[Pink2000]

I’ll be DAMNED. As soon as she did it I would have said something immediately. That’s not okay. Bestfriend of not.. keep your lips to yourself.

[matchrestore]

I don't think you need to be uncomfortable with that. It's a pretty common greeting, and on the cheek certainly isn't romantic.

[Anonymous]

You should kiss him on the lips so she knows who's riding the dick.

[LyricalMoon]

I wouldn't be too bothered as it is customary to kiss people on the cheek in some places. But if you seem bothered by it talk to him and explain how you feel.

[fauchelevent]

Just for a greeting? No, not really, that's just being polite. If she just did it for no reason whatsoever, then I wouldn't like it.

[Gena-2005]

I have to listen about politics all the time, but a guy and grl should be alone, lol mike pence rule, lol because i know what i want to do.

[DorkVader]

Issa normal thing. Maybe he has cute cheeks. I wouldn't jump to any conclusions.

[Nitnit2585]

Tell him it feels you uncomfortable. You shouldn't be ashamed of your emotions

[Anonymous]

Yes and no. It would be weird for me cause I'm Swedish and here we like our own space and we don't get that close to echother. But if I were at another country and that was the culture then I would understand it and accept it but still feel weird..

[Jwags]

I dont think itnis a big deal. It could just be the way she was raised or her culture. But if it does continue to bother you you should say something. Communication is key to a strong relationship.

[JustRollTheDice]

Yeah it's just the cheek and it's a form of greeting in some cultures

[TacosRAwesome]

I'm more of a hugger but it's a normal greeting around here. Would slightly bother me if only he got greeted that way.

[Aiasis]

No, because that may be her cultural custom to do that.

[Anonymous]

Did she greet him with a kiss on the cheek? Seems like a normal way for an adult woman to greet an adult man

[Asker]

My boyfriend was kind of far away and she tried hard to lean in to kiss him on the cheek...

[Surely]

It is probably just the way she is.
She did it in front of you. No reason to be jealous.

[LuWe22]

I would not think much of it. Some people do that here

[Anonymous]

No, I don't have a problem with it. I kiss my best male friends on the cheek as well. I've never been a jealous person. Trust is everything in a good relationship!

[Anonymous]

In some cultures you give two or three kisses on the cheek when meeting someone or saying goodbye. So it might be just a greeting.

[fonduegirl]

It's just a kiss on the cheek.

[Stan83]

That’s ok

[Reddwolf]

Yes u need to

[Kelly6]

No
it’s fine

[Kelly6]

I also give cheek kiss to my male friends

[Momicantpausethegame]

Nein