Guys, what are your biggest problems with us women and how can we fix them? (Page 2)
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If something about our behaviour upsets you, please just tell us, if we appear to be in a mood that is ready for listening of course lol,,,
Men aren't as intuitive as women imho, and we're not psychic, I hope that doesn't sound rude,,,
And please don't ask our opinion about anything for any other reason than to affirm your choice by always going with the opposite of what we say is our preference,,,
And please don't say "Phillips screwdriver" when you actually mean "Posidrive",,,
Oh, and please don't "graunch" the handbrake, there is a button on the end of it which you should depress when using it, thank you so much!!!
by the way my Doctor, Dentist, Optician, Chiropodist, and car mechanic are all female, so I hope I don't come across as chauvinistic,
Don't always aim at men being horny for you. No matter if you dress attractively, talk sexually, want sex or witness a hard-on on a man, you can't prove if a man is horny or not, since it's still a matter of mind as well.
Same for periods of time or certain groups of people. You might WANT to think that men would feel attracted to grandmas, to kids or whatever. I don't know what thrills women to think that way. And not all men think of sex all the time, if any. Or do you think we come home from "work" where we've masturbated in groups for hours non-stop? It's like you want to cast everything regarding sex upon men, just to appear like discreet ladies to others yet keep your desires satisfied of which we ALL know you have them as well. Just stop pretending like there'd be anyone out there wanting you to be someone "perfect" who'd rather must be some sterilized sex actress!
Hello cakes 91 I may have been one of the angry voices about women and frankly that's just due to 50 years of being lied to cheated on manipulated and overall being just plain used. Not only has it happened to me, but if sat center stage and watched the women in my own family do these unloveable things to otherwise loveable human beings. I am also willing to give credit where credit is due and if your the type of woman I wish I would've found 30 years ago, then, I wish I would've found you 30 years ago!! But I've been seeing and witnessing these behaviors for such a long time even in my own that I don't even talk to my mother and sister anymore
If you are the diamond in the rough so to speak and are null and void of such treachery, then I deeply apologize for anything I may have said that offended you.
The hot/coldness is annoying, and so is the (seeming) lack of independent thought. Like you're a grown woman; you shouldn't be so unsure of how you feel, that you treat me like a prince and a turd in the same week. You also shouldn't need your girlfriends to tell you whether or not a guy is desirable to date.
"Anyone who is rude, generalizing, or in other words, being a dick will be deleted. I just want to hear your voices in a professional way."
Enough said. Seriously, could you be any more dismissive, condescending or anti-male? So sorry for being born with a dick, seeing as how that's soo BAD, disgusting and wrong, and how that makes everything I could ever say, think or feel automatically invalid, on account of "being a dick"...
I think it's cause all of us guys have been treated like objects by multiple women. It seems like it's okay for women to put us down and treat us like we are only there to give them what they want and when they are done with you they move on to find the next guy. It's happened to me so many times I no longer ask women out either for friendship or dating.
These million-year-old rules of how a guy should act how a woman should act. And if you don't follow those million-year rules you are less of a person I hate that. I know not every woman doesn't but there's enough we're at times I shake my head and wonder why I bother 😂 till I meet chill female
"These million-year-old rules of how a guy should act how a woman should act" like what?
I think it's mostly those women that think every man is a handyman and knows how to fix it automatically 😂 then when say I don't know say ok get real name a simple one. Cuz totally what genitals I have determines what skills that I have 😂 is one not even in serious relationship
Real man to do it sorry speak to text messed up
Okay can I change my answer I guess my real answer is being compared to exes hearing a bunch of while my ex did this why don't you why my ex did that.
Some of the women in my life have been manipulative, selfish, and two-sided. This was mostly in order to receive attention, but some of them were legitimately hateful people. The solution is simple. Just stop walking around with this "men are the enemy" mentality and it becomes easier to be reasonable with men. As someone who had the same issue with women years ago, I can confirm.
Be direct, say what you mean and mean what you say. Also don't ask a question and threaten to "delete" people if you don't like the answers they have.
That's like me asking what the size of my penis is, but anyone who says small will be shot. You created an echo chamber.
for me its when a women says they want a nice guy yet when one like me comes along they say iam to nice or that they want a jurk kind of guy it blows my mind why say "we want a nice guy " yet blow off the nice guy its very hurtful least to me it is... hope i did not come off as a dick... i dont mean to
Women think they know what they want... they want bad boys... boys that aren’t that easy get at... this method works wonders for me with the ladies dude... it’s implanted in their subconscious , but their is a downfall to it
I had a woman on Quora say that 99.9% of all men were as sexually appealing as non-human species like raccoons and proceeded to use beastiality as an analogy to convey her disinterest.
Discrimination of short guys.
Assuming men exist for women.
Flaking on dates at the last minuet. Being flighty and changing their minds.
That's it. I know girls who don't do any of these things. I really like those girls a lot. Like seriously.
This dialog:
"You can never know what it's like to be a woman." It's a trump card used in almost any argument. But the corollary of therefore you can never know what it's like being a man is both ignored and dismissed. I neither assume nor dismiss your problems, yet issues that men face are both dismissed and ignored. And if they are raised the answer is inevitably "but you don't know what it's like being a woman."
Well, it is not really your job to make angry incels think better of women. If you wish to though, it always helps to be nice to the shy guy in the room. You don't need to go on a date with him or anything, but in my younger years I was an angry woman hater of sorts. People, (especially females) showing me kindness helped me to become a better person.
Direct communication!!! Use words please!!!
Sure, I can read body language just fine but I almost EXCLUSIVELY count on verbal communication because... I am, in fact, SO skilled at reading body language that I know how open-ended and ambiguous it is by its very nature. And that leads me to another problem: you ladies seem to think ambiguity is your friend. IT IS NOT!!! ... at least if you want a man whose word is worth his salt ;)
Nothing I can think of. Anti-feminists are guys who don’t like change. Just like the civil rights movements and gay rights, the haters will be loud. But in actuality, there’s no extra pressure on guys in this “me too” era. The anti-feminists just hate all the noise.
You expect guys to be mind readers, to be able to tell what you want or need without telling us what exactly it is, you want or need. Pls communicate clearly and be direct to your men. I always hated it when my girlfriend used to do that to me. One of the contributing factors to our breakup. Don't be like, "you should be romantic and be able to tell what it is I want". Pls don't do that or else your relationship won't last long.
Women need to be faithful, respectful honest and communicate. Social media, phones and passwords need to be a shared.
If you ever are in a position to betray your SO, imagine your son or daughter being betrayed after they were married. Or how your child is being treated in a relationship
I think most of the whining on here is due to an ever growing number of people growing up glued to a computer or phone with zero social skills that end up completely unable to deal with the opposite sex.
Personally it’s girls expect I’in that guys are going to magically change for them.
Modern women are overly liberal and blame Men for everything
Hahahahaha
I hope I don't sound rude, but I wish women would give more effort with dating too since men are expected to do so much while women don't seem to have to do a lot to find love. I know its biological to do that, but we're civilised and not primitive so it feels really unecessary and just horrible.
For example, there are some guys including myself who aren't dominant nor upfront. At least for me, the idea of men being required to be strong really hurts since I'll never suit that since I hate controlling others along with being a more sensitive sort of guy. I hope that's understandable.