oh ya. nothing like stumbling across an answer that knocks you into Tuesday or whatever day (depending on what day it is) and - oh bahahahaha! it's just fun when an answer like yours pops up to say - hey - fucking don't take everything so seriously all the time! so ya - i appreciated it and got a laugh out of it! thank you!
If a man respects his wife on a daily basis and like her for more than her body then no it isn't offensive. Some men say it because they know they are pretty lucky and they aren't being arrogant.
If a guy is saying it to brag and only likes her because of her beauty then there is a problem.
Compliments aren't a bad thing especially if a woman works hard to stay in shape when it isn't easy , eat right, etc.
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This guy I just dated kept calling me hot and talking about how all guys must be so jealous of him etc. and it just felt like he wanted someone attractive to show off and stuff and he was pretty insufferable and selfish and insecure too. I guess it's different if it were someone i'd been with longterm and whom I knew loved me for my personality as well.
it's definitely not something to be angry about... maybe not in front of my grandmother but otherwise it'd be fine... sounds like something said in fun and in the spirit of a good time... to get mad would be wrong... besides if i'm in a mini dress I hope (my man) would say i'm smokin' hot.
Yeah the audience definitely matters. Basically don’t say it in front of her family and probably your family depending on how you usually talk to each other. If you have them, I think saying it in front of your kids is fine because it teaches them that even after years of marriage you should still love and affirm your spouse.
that's the absolute best compliment a man could say about his wife in front of her, and then to the rest of the world! why, in fact, some women would love it if he said that everywhere he went! cuz she's probably broadcasting to the world, her co-workers and friends and anyone else who will listen to her (like strangers on the bus!) that she has a smokin' hot husband! and she is so proud of him that she will look like a right mad idiot! but when she finds out that he says the same about her? Hello - that guy is getting blown whenever he asks! like whenever. he. asks. or. orders. or. whatever. he's getting blown. even when he's 83!
Certainly not. If my husband sees me as "smoking hot" I'd be flattered, since I don't consider myself as anything close to that. So if I'm hot for him, that's a good thing. It means I still have his attention, he desires me, he loves me. What else would a woman want?
Wha? How can this be bad? Objectifying her? I doubt it's that, because marriage is a choice, and a big commitment, and so if a person also gets someone they find really attractive, well it's the whole 'kitten kaboodle' (I know that's not the real spelling but it's so much more fun that way.) It's a nice compliment. There are serious things in a marriage/relationship, and there is the fun stuff, and this is the fun stuff. People shouldn't demonize and make it into something negative.
I think that would have been ok if he was15 years old currently, and married … to another 15 year old !! LOL It's also probably what his drinking buddies say about her behind his back, if she is indeed that good looking - who knows. But a grown man should know there are better terms to impress his wife with, like just saying "beautiful" or my "amazing and beautiful wife". It's also a much better sound byte.
With all the problems in the world, why the outrage? If his wife told him to stop making this comment, then people have a right to maybe be disappointed. But then again, how the heck would they know? I am not sure why someone in a broadcast role would be talking about their wife like this, but whatever, I'm not their wife. It's her problem.
I would be complimented if said in the appropriate circumstances. But to hear a Pastor thank the Lord for his Smokin' Hot Wife is really PATHETIC!!! He's probably one of those Pastor's that is Stealing from the Congregation owns Lamborghini's, Private Jets, etc... I get it was from a line Talladega Nights but still not right...
I would love him to call me that ! that would be the best compliment my husband could say about me ! I would reward my husband for saying that about me in my husbands favorite way too : ) ! thanks
If a girl said my smoking hot husband, I'd be ready for her when she got home. :) Being a girl that does change things but why in your view were they angry about it?
Haha, if that's offensive then I dont know why people live and breath. Giving compliments is offensive now. It's a said day when we have to ask this question.
seems those not called smoking hot would have been triggered. this particular husband thought his wife was smoking hot. who cares? they probably wasn’t, but it made his wife feel good, i’m sure !
Well, that was a joke in a comedy, so first of all: get over it people. But also, while he wouldn’t pray about it at the dinner table, my dad calls his wife hot all the time.
Anyone offended by it is a downright idiot who needs to experience a disengaged husband who calls the neighbour lade smoking hot. Then we'll see what you stupid bitches whine about.
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