What do I need to do to make girls initiate texts?

[Anonymous]

What is it that a guy needs to do to make the female text first? It’s always me texting first and making moves it’s never the other way around.

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[lania_m]

you gotta do both be hard to get and give her attention.
if she has a boyfriend of course she won’t text first... it’s just bad form. it’s one thing to reply to a guy who messaged you but to seek out another guy and initiate is just... it’s different in a bad way. not cheating but not being loyal either.

if/when she’s single i’m sure she would text first.

[Asker]

Yea that’s true. I need help with her. Do you want to hear it through dms on gag

[lania_m]

yeah you can dm me

[Asker]

We gotta follow eachother to dm

[AppleBlossomGirl]

I used to text my guy all the time, but I was really into him that's way I texted him, if the girls aren't texting you then they do have feelings for you.

[Asker]

She’s into me in person but never texts

[AppleBlossomGirl]

How often do you see her?

[Asker]

Like I used to see her like 4 times now I cut it to 3

[Asker]

She is taken and I know 1000% we both like eachother but it wouldn’t hurt to text would it

[AppleBlossomGirl]

If she's in a relationship with someone else, she obviously it's texting you because she likes the other guy, and if she flirting with you, when see is seeing someone then she isn't honest.

[Asker]

Do you think I should wait for her to breakup

[AppleBlossomGirl]

Yes, as you don't want to be the other guy, that ruined some other guys relationship. Guys/girls that cheat are hated by a lot, and sometimes the people that knew they were with someone else get a lot of hate too. You don't want that to happen to you or to her. So keep you distance until she's single again then make your move.

[Asker]

It would probably help me if I can tell u the whole story

[Asker]

through dms

[AppleBlossomGirl]

You can DM me. I will be back on in a few ours.

[Asker]

Alright

[Asker]

We gotta follow eachother to dm. I followed you

[AppleBlossomGirl]

You will have to add me and I will follow you back.

[winterfox10]

Just stop messaging them; it works like a charm. She's going to go a few days without hearing from you, and she's going to wonder what gives.

[Asker]

Like I never understand these people who find these girls. Like where tf do people find people like this that text back and forth and face time. It’s legit ridiculous and feels like whoever does it first gets their egos shot and the person who gets the text gets the ego boost. Wtf is this

[winterfox10]

Hey man, I'm so single that I make Pringles look polyamorous. All I know is that women DO text first from time to time.

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

I've never even thought about it. If you connect more, then she'll text more. Especially if you're already fucking

[Asker]

She shows signs of interest in person but she doesn’t text

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Act on the signs of interest then. Work with what she's giving you. Make a move

[HiHelloHowdyHiyah]

Hey I think I can give you some inside on the situation as I’m dealing with something similar. Dm a little bit more so I can help you out a bit.

[Asker]

Thank u Appreciate it. I’ll be back in a couple of hours

[HiHelloHowdyHiyah]

Sure take your time

[Wanderingwoman]

Maybe you should communicate that? A simple text such as "don't be afraid to message me if you want to talk 🙂" might work.

[TheRealJosephStalin]

Don’t text them. Men’s should never initiate conversation with women. Guys need to start viewing themselves as the prize instead of being so desperate

[Asker]

Like my mind is so messed up right now. I need help mentally. Like on one side there’s people saying you gotta man up and be the dominant guy and text and make plans. On another side people say play hard to get and wait for the girl to come to you. Like... what do I even follow anymore. This garbage society and it’s stigmas ruined dating.

[TheRealJosephStalin]

Never be desperate. I’m not desperate I’m not out here chasing girls. Why do you think women act so entitled nowadays and expect men to do everything. Cause they know guys will. It’s men who need to change and quit chasing

[Asker]

And has this method worked for you?

[TheRealJosephStalin]

Yeah if a woman wants she will text if not no big I’m not desperate your problem seems to be that you are desperate for women that’s sad clearly women aren’t desperate for you or else they would initiate

[Asker]

So what do I need to do. Like how do I need to act from now on

[TheRealJosephStalin]

Don’t initiate texts let them come to you and if they don’t move on cause they clearly don’t want you. Never put more energy into someone if they aren’t doing it back that’s desperate

[rotjunky]

find a girl whos actually interested in you. if they dont care to have a conversation they aren't gonna text first.

[Lofidy]

Some girls just expect guys to text first, it's sad but that's how some girls expect it to be