Are girls who dress super revealing insecure?

[Yep12345678]

[Apple1996]

I'm insecure and I dress revealing so yeah. It totally depends on the person tho like go to a beach with girls all dressed in bikinis and some of them are for sure insecure but are dressing that way cuz they are at the beach

[Apple1996]

Thanks for mho!

[AbsoluteCutie]

Not necessarily. It depends on the girl. Just like with anything else you can’t just write people off and shove them into a category.

[Daniela1982]

Sure you can. When it looks like a duck, it is a duck. Substitute "Ho" for "Duck".

[MissKittyz]

I don't think so. When I hated my body and had a very low self-esteem, I'd cover myself up and look like a tomboy. But then I finally started liking my body more and started wearing more revealing clothes to show off what I got. And having guys check you out does increase your self-esteem as well lol makes you feel sexy and wanted.

[Yep12345678]

Haha that's my point exactly. It's the need for male attention, because they feel other areas of their life are lacking.🤦‍♂️

[AliyahMia]

I mean you can't really tell just from their clothes because every girl is different and so every girl wears clothes for different reasons. Sure some girls wear revealing clothes out of insecurity but that doesn't mean they all do. Girls can wear "sexy" clothes for attention and validation, or to feel sexy, or simply because they don't care and are confident with their bodies.

[Alpha09]

It depends. You can usually tell more when it comes to behavior. It takes a level of confidence to wear revealing clothes, and those can be some of the most secure people. But attitude has a lot to do with how insecure or secure someone is. If they are unnecessarily loud or all over other people and just plain acting stupid that just says they are insecure and attention seeking. And they could be covered up completely. Depends on the person.

[Alpha09]

Personally if I dress a certain way it's because first and foremost I know I look good in it, a little side boob never hurt anyone. And Im going somewhere where I'm gonna meet other people, and those other people are probably guys. Do I dress solely for guys? No. But do human beings consciously groom themselves in a way that they think others might like or be attracted to? Absolutely. I won't ever deny that. So my answer would be is pay attention to thier attitude and not the clothes. It will tell you a lot more.

[chrissykerdock]

it's simple if you have great legs your going to wear a minidress... if you think about it all your showing is legs... it's definitely not a private part... I don't see it as insecure I see it as wear it because you can... or if you have it flaunt it... most of the time you dress for the mirror and forget when you go outside... and it's never been painful to get whistled out or hearing lewd sexual comments.

[R4vedave]

Nope, not necessarily. They could simply find themselves attractive on whatever they choose to wear. There are also some people who simple enjoy showing off.

Judging someone like that simply because of what they wear says more about the person making the judgement than anyone else lol.

[SirRexington]

My first instinct is to say yes but I don't know anymore. So many women dress that way now I feel like it has more to do with culture and entitlement more than anything.

a lot of women flaunt their body regardless of what they look like. And I don't see a lot of these fat blobs being insecure enough to dress that way. I feel like they would be ashamed of their gross obesity. But shame seems to have been lost on many people nowadays.

[wingattebaby16]

I feel they are needy and this is a great way to get attention from men.

it is something they have control over in their lives.

[LovingDominant]

As everyone else says. She's either expressing her confidence, or hiding insecurities behind her body. Either way it's her choice, live and let live ✌️

[DeeDeeDeVour]

It could also be the other way around... They could be oozing with self confidence.

[crazy8000]

Not gonna look up a YouTube video form some would leeding professional within psychology I will just say what one of them mentioned.

Many times.
It has to do with hierarchy amongst female's. to attracts the most partner's.
The funny thing is that they learn it very early on in life, subconscious and unconscious. take after environment without being aware of it.

[MackToday]

Yup insecure like a lot of guys that like to act tough.

[Porcelaine]

I think so. They need the attention and the comments to fill what they don't feel from inside.

[Thefinisher11]

Are you actually supporting catcalling?

[Porcelaine]

@Thefinisher11 If it's done respectfully

[Thefinisher11]

Aah lady this isn't a perfect world

[Porcelaine]

@Thefinisher11 noone said that it is. some guys manage catcalling without sounding like horny teenagers

[Thefinisher11]

That's because they found them attractive and please don't believe everything noone says

I spoke to her and she just wants to hear what she wants to her

I'm sorry

[Porcelaine]

@Thefinisher11 what?

[Thefinisher11]

I had conversations with her but she just refuses to listen anyone's opinions which disagrees with hers

[djmzes]

Simple

[hankhill89]

Nah, I think that they either want to be comfortable or enjoy feeling sexy and desired/lusted for. I dunno if that's true for them though, at least those are the reasons why I would wear more revealing clothing.

[Sensmind]

There is a possibility - As I got to know them , I would factor how they dress - After a while I would make a call as to their reasons for dressing like this - If I thought insecure I might try to understand what they feel insecure about

[Daniela1982]

No, they are show offs. Like someone below said, if you got it flaunt it. Rapists and pervs like that attitude.

[Daniela1982]

Well I can see the Ho's are down voting again because they like flaunting it but then get annoyed when guys salivate over them. You can see but not touch. Just teases is what they really are.

[likelyOK]

I would say some of them are, like former fat girls. Some are looking for validation etc, if it's a one time instance like a dress for an occasion, it's TOTALLY different from someone who dresses like that All the time.

[Usernamesrdumb]

They want attention/validation and to complain when it brings the wrong kind. I dont see guys walking around with their dick out. Just blame the patriarchy. Like to blame everything on it anyway.

[bamesjond0069]

Yes because they need male attention to feel good about themselves. Now if they can feel good about themselves dressed modestly... whoa... that is some confidence!

[heyzeuspiece]

Depends on their mannerisms, is she trying to get attention from every dude? If not, she dresses for her and only her.

[CasaNorba]

How in the world can you go out in public showing up a truckload of skin and claim you're dressing up "for yourself and only for yourself?"

[AliyahMia]

Because showing all the skin can make a person feel vulnerable and so being able to go out like that and totally rock it is a confidence booster. Being sexy isn't just a look its also a feeling, so women should be allowed to feel it without men thinking its about them.

[heyzeuspiece]

@CasaNorba because when I walk by a mirror I like what I see

[CasaNorba]

a mirror and the streets are totally different things, so I'm afraid your point is extremely irrational

[heyzeuspiece]

@CasaNorba k.

[crazy8000]

You have little to many professionals within psychology stating otherwise. hope you realize that.

[Yep12345678]

Let's get this straight. NO girl dresses for her and only her.

[heyzeuspiece]

You’d hope that was the case, when you dress don’t you wanna look good to feel good?

[CasaNorba]

obviously, they do it for attention and who else craves for this much attention besides insecure people?

[wankiam]

some may well be overcompensating but its more likely the opposite is true in most cases

[Yep12345678]

I disagree. In most cases, it screams "I seek attention because I feel the need to validate myself."

[wankiam]

disagree all you like... if we was talking about posts on farcebook and instabollox maybe i would see your point but i think you are underestimating just how confident a woman needs to be to go out in the real world dressed in such a manner... a few likes on socials are a bit different to the catcalling or attempts to grope in public

[slatyb]

Not any more than women who dress very modestly. If anything I think the sexy women are more confident.

[elijah20]

In my own experience with girls I've met it's been to ways. Some dress that way because they wanted to and didn't care how others thought about it and others did it because they thought it was the only way for people to like them. But I'm a guy so my opinion isn't as important as a girls on this topic

[heyhowsu]

The reason why a person dresses the way she does has so many and individual reasons. There are definitely girls who try to compensate something with showing a lot of skin just as there are girls who are super comfortable in their skin and just feel the most confident in 'revealing' clothes. Or maybe she just feels the most pretty in exactly those clothes? Ever thought about that?

[jgokgotit]

I would think it is the opposite. I have a lot of female friends, and all of the ones who dress revealing seem to have even more confidence than I do, which is a lot.

[Dinklex3]

Nah.
According to others I wear revealing clothing.
I'm just comfortable with my body and the human body in general.

[32DD_yeye]

That make NO sense! If they were insecure they would wear MORE clothes not less!

[32DD_yeye]

@Silent_Eyes
Does this make sense to you?

[Yep12345678]

Again, since you people can't read, the insecurities can stem from somewhere else besides their looks. God it's like I'm talking to a bunch of 5 yr olds.

[32DD_yeye]

Well asshole all you put was "Are girls who dress super revealing insecure?" not anything else. But uh usually girls or GUYS (bc guys do it too) dress in revealing clothes bc they are COMFORTABLE in their own body.

[Yep12345678]

I can see most people on here have an IQ of about 60.

[32DD_yeye]

LMFAO you funny

[Yep12345678]

Well I see a little differently. I think more often than not, they're trying to fill some kind of void with attention from the opposite sex. According to your logic, dudes that act tough are the baddest dudes alive. Everyone with a sliver of intelligence knows a real tough guy wouldn't feel the need to put on a display for other people.

[Silent_Eyes]

@32DD_yeye yeye it does.

@Yep12345678 wearing super revealing clothes doesn't indicate their insecurity about their body, they are rather willing to flaunt it so it is the other way around. The void you are talking about, need for attention, that's a different thing.

[miley19]

Why would somebody show what they are insecure about? :/

[Yep12345678]

OMG. It's hiding behind insecurities with their body. 🤦‍♂️ Are you people seriously that inept?

[miley19]

Umm, sorry but how can you speak so surely on behalf of others? I dress up revealingly and not insecure for sure right now. When i was bigger, i was insecure and constantly seeking validation from others but now i like the way i look and dress up for myself.

[Yep12345678]

I just know. Truthfully, every person has insecurities, they just manifest in different ways.

[miley19]

Yeah everyone does but about diffrent things. For instance i think somebody who is insecure about about their body would prefer covering up

[JimmyQ]

It's just the opposite. They are dangling the carrot and playing boys like an orchestra full of nothing but fiddles.

[Anonymous]

No I think they just want to flaunt that body. Just because they have a great body. It takes great care to get there. I know cause I am still struggling to get that kind of body and just once wear something sexy and it won't look awkward.

[DWornock]

If my observations are interpreted correctly, mostly only pretty young women and girls dress in revealing clothes. Such girls usually get a lot of attention. Therefore, instead of being insecure, they should have a lot of confidence.

[SexyAshh]

It shows body confidence.

If you got it, flaunt it.

[coolhandroo]

Good question. They are certainly glutens for attention so the question is can that come from a different emotional place. I'm going to say no to the insecure question but don't have a strong argument yet

[Clary4]

if they choose to wear it (no one force them) then is not

[Porcelaine]

yes it is, they choose to wear it for themselves to get attention and comments from people because if they don't get any compliments they are insecure and dont feel beautiful.

[Thefinisher11]

@Porcelaine and then they complain about catcalling

Seriously why do you even wear revealing clothes , it's just weird

[Porcelaine]

@Thefinisher11 catcalling doesn't always happen in revealing clothes. I wear simple jeans and a tshirt and get catcalled. a compliment from the heart is always nice, catcalling is rarely welcome

[BrexitAteMyLobster]

Not necessarily. It can be the case for some, but you cannot assume that it's the case for all.

[archiz]

I just love it when people over simplify stuff.
It can be sometimes, but that isn't usually the case or reason.
There are a lot of variables.

[MannySimms]

Yeah, God bless 'em!

[Pamina]

No, usually not. Usually it's actually because they're confident.

[Thefinisher11]

But what is the actual need to wear such clothes?

Climate? Because it's too hot? Men wear non revealing clothes or at least wear sleeveless cloths

I'm in noway saying it's one of the reasons for rape , rape is completely on the perpetrators

But it's just weird to see them in revealing clothes

Wouldn't a shirt and jeans be sufficient?

[Pamina]

@Thefinisher11 What is the need to wear anything that isn't purely functional? It's called fashion.

[Thefinisher11]

That's why jeans , pants and shirts exists

[Pamina]

@Thefinisher11 Yes. And?

[Thefinisher11]

Isn't that enough why wear such very short shorts ( which makes you look like your wearing underwear )

A nice pants and shirt is enough to make them look attractive why wear soo much revealing clothes

[Pamina]

@Thefinisher11 Again - because people (yes, men too) not only wear clothes for functionality but for fashion as well. I'm sure you too choose your clothes not only on functionality but also on how you think it looks.

Your choice of clothes is always based on both functionality and fashion. Sometimes it's a trade-off between the two and sometimes the two are complementary.

[Pamina]

It seems like your reaction is based only on your personal taste. Obviously other people find other clothes attractive than you do. Is that really so baffling to you?

[Thefinisher11]

Haha funny you should say that but no clothes can make me attractive , I'm just physically unattractive

So my attire is purely functional

[Pamina]

@Thefinisher11 That's okay. But I'm sure I don't need to explain to you that 99% of all people do at least to some extent choose their clothes based on looks as well.

[Thefinisher11]

Well some of them don't realise that they are ugly like me but yea I agree with you

[Pamina]

@Thefinisher11 And you're entitled to your opinion on their looks. But you'll have to accept that everyone has a different opinion and everyone finds different things good looking.

My clothes during summer tend to be quite revealing as well, and that's both because of the heat and because I like how it looks on me.

[Thefinisher11]

But why are men's fashion more about covering and women's more revealing?

[Pamina]

@Thefinisher11 It wasn't always like that. For centuries it was expected from women to cover up everything. It's been only less than a century that women finally started to break those rules and dress as they please.

But the difference between men and women isn't even that big anymore when it comes to revealing clothes. In the summer men walk around in shorts and muscle shirts. I don't see much of a difference.

[Thefinisher11]

Oh humans are weird creatures fine I'll just let it be

[Pamina]

@Thefinisher11 Everything you said so far in this whole thread, including your responses to other comments, is extremely weird to me. So yeah.

[Pamina]

Would you consider yourself socially awkward?

[Thefinisher11]

Honestly no but I am the group clown who keeps his views such as what we have discussed so far a secret

I can talk to a woman so normally that they would be surprised to know that the sweet , funny , innocent guy is a total weirdo

[Pamina]

@Thefinisher11 And you don't like seeing women in revealing clothes. Are you straight?

[Thefinisher11]

I am straight I never said I hate but seeing women in revealing clothes makes me stare at them

And when I stare at them I feel like a creep , and if they found out then my life is over

[Thefinisher11]

by the way I can't be gay if I'm straight and anti homosexual

[Pamina]

@Thefinisher11 So this whole thing is actually not about their behavior but about you.

And does that mean you're not capable of discretely looking instead of staring?

[Pamina]

Ah, so you're also a homophobe on top of all that. What a catch you are. :D

[Thefinisher11]

Before you block me

[Thefinisher11]

Let me explain I have trained my self to ignore them but I also have to keep watch in case of sexual harassment

Seeing a woman get harassed is shameful and boils my blood so I'm sorta worried about them

It's not their fault but you know there are creeps out there

[Thefinisher11]

No I'm anti gay not homophobe

Homophobia is the fear of being gay

I just disgusted by gay people especially gay men

But as one human being to another I have to respect them and just let them exist

[Pamina]

@Thefinisher11 No, you bigoted moron. Just because the suffix -phobia means fear, doesn't mean that that's what the definition of that specific name. The definition of homophobia is any aversion towards homosexuals. That's simply the name we have created for you pathetic hateful fuckers.

You're such a loser. You walk around incapable of not being a creep (as according to yourself), then blame women for that, you are incapable of accepting the fact that everyone is different and even hate them for being different than you. You know, if the world was full of people who are like you, it would be hell. Thank goodness most people are not as hateful and bitter as you are.

Go fuck yourself, you pathetic incel loser.

[Pamina]

P. S.: What's disgusting is not two people who love each other and have sex with each other who happen to be of the same sex. What's disgusting is you having a problem with different forms of love.

And on top of that you've exposed yourself (more than once) to be a complete hypocrite. You especially dislike gay MEN. That's 100% pure projection. Fucking loser.

[Factualman125]

@Thefinisher11 bro the fuck did you just say you don't like women wearing revealing clothes because you stare at them

Your blaming them for your lack of self control

[Pamina]

@Factualman125 Exactly.

[Factualman125]

Although yea there is one thing pamina said like

"You don't like women in revealing clothes? Are you gay " ?

That's a bit of a double edge sword there pamina
Are you suggesting that men who like women in revealing clothes are creeps and men who don't like it are gay?

I hope not

Either way you don't need to worry about that guy he is not active now

[Pamina]

@Factualman125 No, I was playing dumb. I knew he's a bigot and I just wanted him to show his true colors.

[NearlyNapping]

Maybe. Or just the opposite and are very confident.

[savitar655]

No it means the feel comfortable in there body image

[AlongCameCindy]

To be honest could be the total opposite actually.. people assume that but couldn't it also mean they're extremely confident in their body?

[david4urfun]

No they are either very hott or if they weigh more than they're IQ then they are gross

[Yep12345678]

What does being hot have to do with anything? A hot girl can't have a shit load of insecurities other than her looks? Use your brain please.

[sdgtgjdeydd]

they just show off and want attention
I dont like girls who show off I like humble ones

[YHL6965]

I think it's more a matter of compensating and seeking attention. That said, compensation and attention seeking usually hide insecurities so I guess you're right.

[Anonymous]

I guess it depends. I know at least a few who were VERY secure in their ability to stiffen a dick!

[Yep12345678]

Lmao 😂

[Laozi]

Nope. That means they're confident enough to not give a fuck about what others think.

[Meropatrick]

I guess she want to look sexy and enjoy being young and attractive as it won't last

[Trooper205]

Well... A Girl who dresses revealingly makes ME insecure... (Unless it's MY Girl)

[JamesBlackDragon]

I don't think so I think they dress the way they want to dress some maybe so might not be people do things for many different reasons

[DashboardLight]

Nah, they're probably really secure about their body. It doesn't really say anything about how insecure they are as a person.

[gta_fan]

No, either they crave attention from the opposite sex or that they are comfortable in their body or they work out and are proud of the results and want to show it off

[SuccessfulHornDog]

If by insecure you actually mean super hot, then yes.

[theCobbler]

Hardly... They're Trapping, .. putting out bait and scent to catch you...

[LEADFOOTboi]

TOTAL FUGGIN, RED FLAG LOOKIN SHIT RIGHT THERE, BUDDY

[DiscomfortZone]

Ofc. All attention whores are insecure, that's why they crave the attention.

[Bikerdude38]

Probably not. Most of the ones I know are very secure in how they look and just like showing off their body.

[EnglundUberAlles]

That's an urban myth. Insecure girls are actually more likely to cover up.

[Anonymous]

Depends on what they’re insecure about. It could go either way.

[codydanielphillips]

No its quite the opposite they feel comfortable in their own skin