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She says she isn't flirting but she doesn't treat me like a friend at all?

So, my crush and I talked about our relationship a few days ago.
We met back in April 2019, she was the one who approached me, and after hours of talking,
I asked for her phone number and here we are. We have chemestry, we have a connection, a lot in common, we like each other, she's been telling me that for months.
But, everytime we try to "tag" or "give" a name to our relationship, she pulls away.
We both agreed, we aren't friends, we don't feel like friends, but there's something more between us. That's undeniable.

But, after all this months she is denying stuff and changing it to fit her "version" of the story.
She is the one who proposes dates, she even calls them DATES! She asks me for help, she keeps coming back to me. She's blaming me for stuff that she starts, she said that she isn't flirting, that she is really friendly. She told me that she doesn't trust me enough. That hurt me. She shows sings she's into me. Holding hands, eye contact, I know when it's her period, etc.
She also mentioned to me that she's been hurt before, she doesn't want that again and that she's a little paranoid, that boyfriends come and go and that she prefers friends, really good friends.

That day, she said she isn't looking for something more than a friendship.
If something else happens between us, great, if it doesn't, that's great too.
She doesn't want me to push or rush her into trying it. She wants to let things flow.
Yes, we laughed, we had a Good time, but it felt awkward at the end.
Next day she called and texted me to cancel our plans.

I haven't heard from her in days. It's the second time she pulls away from me. Why?
I'm not gonna call her or text her. I'm going No Contact for a month or so. But I do miss her a lot.
I'm really confused, disapointed and sad. Why say one thing and then do another?
Even if she doesn't feel the same way, why not let me know?

Anyway, Thanks for Your time and for reading!
Peace!
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Why did she say something like:

"She isn't looking for something more than a friendship.
If something else happens between us, great, if it doesn't, that's great too.
She doesn't want me to push or rush her into trying it. She wants to let things flow.
She's open to try it…"

Why say that and then cancel on our plans?
She says she isn't flirting but she doesn't treat me like a friend at all?
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