A girl has a reputation of leading guys on then blowing them off, and also has a reputation of being really guarded?

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She doesn't seem socially gifted or anything, and is obviously pretty guarded and closed off. She has a reputation of leading guys on then blowing them off, and also has a reputation of being really guarded. Whatever the reason, it's pretty insecure behavior.

Would you assume the reputation of leading guys on stems from her being guarded and cautious about letting people in?

Or would you assume she's guarded as a result of the backlash she faces from leading guys on (guys don't handle being led on very well, and she's guarded because she plays with fire and it's an attempt at self-preservation after starting fires)?

Or is she probably just high up there on the narcissism scale, and just doesn't give a shit about anyone else's feelings? She hardly talks to anyone or have many friends, any many other women don't like her, so she could just be a narcissist.
A girl has a reputation of leading guys on then blowing them off, and also has a reputation of being really guarded?
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