The second woman I was attracted too was 7 years older. I was 14, she was 21. Though I realized I couldn't realistically be with her, it did not change the pheromones nor my feelings towards her. The body doesn't consider everything the mind or soul does. Biological attraction is keyed up to reproductive ability and pheromonal
compatibility. At some point age becomes a percentage, but that point differs for people. I only seek a woman within my age group + or - 3 years. Statistically marriages with a greater than 5 year age gap have a 5% increase in divorce rate for every year past 5. Biologically its perfectly healthy, but societally less accepted. If both of you are comfortable in spite of the gap, what difference does it make what others think?
I think it is ok, but he is only 18, how reliable would he be? Also things change daily for 18 year old. You don't know if he is trustworthy. Plus parents are involved.
Nope. Lol although you would have to be able to live with the cougar jokes 😂.
Honestly though when he is 40 and you are 47 no one will bat an eye. It's not that big of a difference anyways. I have seen way worse work out just fine.
It's bizarre and might show you have low self esteem but it doesn't make you a pedophile or rapist
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Both are of legal age, and in a similar point in life. I don't think it matters, or is creepy.
Nope. Totally normal. Lots of women would do the same exact thing.
Well he's legally of age so you're fine I've seen couples that have 20 years between them or more
No, you are not a creep. He's an adult. A 7 year age difference isn't bad at all. My girlfriend and I have a 7 year age difference.
You're both legal, it's fine, you're not a creep.
No, you’re not...
Naw. Women never get blamed. Just boink.
No he's legal
It's fine
nope he's legal
No... it's all ok
I don't think so
He's an adult.
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