Do you guys lose respect for girls who post pics like this?

Question

Or do you think this is perfectly okay?  Is it too revealing?

Regmorus · Accepted Answer

Funny, but to me it depends on the personality. Posting such photos is not posting such photos. Though earlier I was a lot more conservative about it.

here for example https://www.instagram.com/ri.www/ one finds a perfect example of someone who post such photos but are still very much respectable for what they think, how they live, how they are toward people around them, what values they hold when they are talking serious etc. And hence the photos don't make an impression of a show off, but a different one even completely positive for how confident they are and how much they are not afraid to be themselves.

So like by many other things it depends on the person. F. e. someone who show much of their body and then wonder why they are sexualized by some folks and hate these folks aren't respectable, it's ignorance of human nature or wishful thinking or lack of common sense, or wish to reach coals in fire with bare hands and to not get burned - though I am not talking these folks were right, course I am not, but you don't go in African woods by yourself without clothes or weapon because you assume wild animals should respect human right to live (exaggeration of course, but the meaning is the same)

For example this one in the photos doesn't look respectable to me - if I am honest - but I don't know much about them. Just impression from the photos alone.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Absolutely. All i see is a warm hole to fuck devoid of any hopes dreams and personalities. You display your body as a sex object and it will be treated as a sex object with no other inherent value. Maybe if women wouldn't think about their sexual appeal so much they could actually compete with men in the marketplace of ideas and culture. But women like this will only serve as jack off material then tossed aside.

CuteNerd9 · Accepted Answer

I think this depends on what you're looking for in posting these pictures. You will attract a lot more men looking for sex and those who would take advantage of you with pictures like this, but those men most likely wouldn't respect you regardless of how revealing your photos are. If you want to attract more modest and respectful men, I don't think your pictures would make them lose respect for you, but they may intimidate them.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

The question really is why post them? What is the motive? What does she want to achieve? It certainly does not enhance the level of respect.

EmbraceThePain · Answer

Well, it’s somewhat complicated to say. What does a picture like this showcase? Especially when it comes to a woman posting this on social media? Well, she wants attention, but a specific type of attention. Attention that is primarily lustful in nature than anything else. Now, this might be perhaps to obtain some ego boosting, self security, or other similar feelings which is natural and fine but I think there’s a limit where it becomes too much. Is the woman doing this a lot? Is she doing this once I tell her I’m uncomfortable with it and to please stop? Is she posting more revealing photos? Videos? Is she also flirting with men outside of photos, such as via messaging? It’s clear that these women know what men will like to see and react positively to. I don’t think it’s clear to these women that these men see them as objects and feel primarily lust when viewing them. Again, it’s okay to do within reasonable limits but there’s a point when it might be too much and possibly lead to negative consequences.

WadeDanielSmith2 · Answer

It's not too revealing. People used to go to public bath houses and bathe nude in front of both males and females, even christians and jews used to bathe nude together in public bath houses.

The anti-nudity crap in modern western civilization is relatively recent, as in mostly arises in the past 200 years. Even the Bible doesn't actually command you to never be nude, as it says you were created nude. It just has a commandment against worshiping nude at a high place, but it doesn't have a commandment against a woman posing in lingerie or even totally nude, because we were created nude.

The civilizations that haven't even invented clothing yet actually have the lowest rate of rape and murder of any human civilization, because they also tend to the have the death penalty for rape and murder, so they never have to worry about rape and murder, because criminals know they will die if the so much as touch a woman the wrong way.

So no, there is nothing wrong with the photos. The woman is beautiful and God made her beautiful and she may as well show how God made her.

TonyV · Answer

I think it's totally fine, she worked hard to make her body exactly how she wants it and now she's proud and wants to show it. It's not likenits nudes or nothing but even then idc. she's letting me look at her so how mad could I be?
The only thing is when they complain about negative attention they get for the pics, I know that sounds like victim blaming and it kind of is but if you can't handle what the pervs and tightwods have to say dont post them. We all know disrespectful people will talk shit.

Jamie1865 · Answer

It's fine? IMHO it's sexy. Sometimes suggestion can be sexier than wearing nothing. If you've got the body to rock it, why not? It's the same (to me) as a bikini? If you're offended by women wearing bikinis, don't go to the beach. If you don't like seeing these sort of pics, don't follow them. You don't get to decide to ban it just because you don't like it.

BeenThereLovedIt · Answer

I dislike those kinds of photos unless they were takes explicitly for me and sent only to me as a form of foreplay..

Other than that, it just screams "attention seeking" and really pisses off most people because it's like - hey, you are beautiful, don't you get enough fucking attention already? Do you not realize that you get more attention in a day than some of us see in a decade, and how appalling it is to the rest of us that it's not good enough for you?

Red_Arrow · Answer

No. I do not know her, so have no expectations of her. She is not hurting anyone, so no reason to lose respect. She seems to enjoy guys liking her body, which most girls seem to do. She is just more willing to expose more of it to get that like. If it makes her happy, then I am fine with that.

TruthBringer · Answer

If a girl advertises herself like a sexual object, then she should be ready to be seen nothing more than a sexual object. Respect in a sense of integrity and morality? No, I don't respect them. I perceive such women as low value, since they lack any confidence within themselves, and therefore have the need to seek sexual approval/validation from outside. On a visual level, they are attractive, but as a person, they are a turn off.

ShadezMcgee · Answer

Only if she is a model and is being paid for it. Otherwise if she is just doing this because she can and wants validation, then no. Otherwise I see it as a woman that looks attractive and inviting for further fun.

There's more than enough thirst traps on IG, OnlyFans, etc.

SirBearon · Answer

Hell no. If you feel sexy and want to show it, go head. Insecure men will say "yes, I'll lose respect". Men who are confident know that she is only fucking him at night. Let her do her thing. Shit, I'll even take pictures of her and us and post those as well.

Anonymous · Answer

I think for me it depends on who the intended audience is and other factors. If you're sending it to one guy to get him to like you then fine. If you're posting it to boost confidence about your body then its walking a fine line. But if you're posting it to cast your net out and see what male attention you get back then I wouldn't agree with it.

wankiam · Answer

i dont lose respect for her just because she wants to show off a bit. its ok if she is doing it for her own pleasure as much as anyone elses and no its not too revealing if she is happy knowing men might get off to her pics.

JesusIsNotTheName · Answer

I don't care if girls do. I don't normally say anything. The only time I have an issue about it is that some will complain about people flirting, or even get pissed off. If you're gonna post them, do so but don't be surprised and mad when some guy starts flirting, or saying shit. Kinda brought it upon yourself m8

ColHathi · Answer

Uhh... Not as such. People that are able to put themselves out there just because they feel like it, is admirable, in my opinion. Even naked. So pictures like the ones you've shown don't make me lose respect.
I might question your motives though, because if your primary reason for sharing pictures like that is to manipulate or make money, then it loses its... whatever it is that it might've had otherwise.

PandaSon · Answer

in my opinion i wouldn't go and try to date a girl who posts pictures like this!

Lyndsielee666 · Answer

Luckily we aren’t here to please guys. If you like posting them then post away

888theGreat · Answer

1) She thinks she is the best looking woman in the world.
2) She is seeking attention.

So, yes , she would not be my type, because a person like this will never be happy and always be looking for better, so these women are not marriage material.

djmzes · Answer

Simple

Chiefbenttwig · Answer

As for me... I really would perfer a photo that is G rated. To me women that do that have low self esteem & seem desperate in finding & trying to keep a man.

SjE78 · Answer

some guys do but I personally like a good many guys out there dont

i dont mind it personally and how it is perceived depends on the individual... some may see it as smut, some may see it as too erotic or sexual and other's may see it as art

Thatsamazing · Answer

"Lose?" We never had respect for most girls who do this. We want to fuck them because they're hot, but it's not a matter of respect.

Yuushiro · Answer

No respect lost, but I wouldn't seriously date someone who posted pictures like that online. I'm not a super jealous person, but I am protective of "what's mine" if that makes any sense.

MzAsh · Answer

No. I respect a woman who knows she looks good and is confident enough to show it off. Do your thing and don’t care who likes it. She’s not hurting anyone besides fragile egos.

AmeerX · Answer

They are revealing but if she is a humble person in real life I don't have a problem.
The problem starts when girls try to a to act trashy by sleeping around and still think they are doing right.

There is a girl on here who is from my country she live abroad and wears a conservative type of dress and justified that Gold digging as great and people are just really jealous of them.
Pathetic excuse of a person😂

ShortCircuit · Answer

I wouldn't say I'd lose respect for her, but if I knew her and at one point had any interest in dating her, I would no longer have that interest.

Fleur62 · Answer

Any guy who see's this will view the person who posted it as lacking in self respect and desperate for attention. They'll view her as a sexual object and not a human, because that's how she's decided to portray herself.

scarlett774 · Answer

Girls can post whatever they want, it’s not to please guys. A lot of girls get paid for posting things like that so while guys are Losing “respect” their getting money.

Bandit74 · Answer

Kind of. I don't care enough to publicly criticize or insult them for it, but I wouldn't consider them for a relationship. Although they probably wouldn't be interested in me either so I suppose it nets out in the end.

Madhatter920 · Answer

It's sexy and provocative, but tasteful. I don't see a problem with it. You won't be young forever. If you're confident, flaunt that body while you still have it.

GR00VY · Answer

No... I wouldn't respect it. I'd just think she's being an exhibitionist...😒

LoveForSmall · Answer

obviously, she is shameless and very cheap in my opinion, I can only have one night stand with her. nothing more

JackSmy · Answer

I would rather see that, than someone posting a lot of lies and BS about the virus, or talking sht about a boyfriend/girlfriend and asking why?

NightFalcon333 · Answer

Nah, it’s okay, posting those kind of pics means that you’re proud with your body and that’s a good thing.

_SOARER · Answer

She is an attention whore. 100%  All the photos are meant to do is to steal the attention and adoration of men.

abutaher · Answer

Yeah, I do.
I like to keep my private things secret.
You know showing your private property means you are inviting others to have it. If you think, you are here to entertain people or get entertained by them than ok.

simplelikeme · Answer

I would never date a woman who took pictures like this and put them online. It's disrespectful degrading and the list goes on.

Dtegesd123 · Answer

I do, it's just another instagram girl. The worst is when a girl posts pictures like this and caption something stupid. E. g. thinking about dinner, or it was such a good day

RHK36 · Answer

Depends on the reason for posting those photos. If it's work related then not an issue. If it's for attention I'd probably stay away. I wouldn't lose respect just maybe lose interest.

art84 · Answer

I think a girl who post pics like that is looking attention.

normalice · Answer

I don't lose respect but I also know every guy will want to bang and my tolerance for that sort of competition is low.

tUCK_Frump · Answer

It's ok for you, but who sees it would be the problem. Some people share personal things, like this picture, when it wasn't meant to be shared.

Ask yourself before sharing "How would I feel if this was made public?"

FýrdracaDócincel · Answer

Not inherently, no. But if there's literally nothing else to her personality other than that.. yeah, I won't respect her too much.

Anonymous · Answer

Nah we appreciate you for posting such pics would love to see more.

ThatGuy133 · Answer

I’d only lose respect for them if they are a big thirst trap. You can be doing it for work or as some body positive message. But I pass on it when it screams “look at me”

Reaperbot666 · Answer

to an onlyfans account or other paywall site - no. to social media platforms - yes.

Amraam · Answer

I respect her even more as she is confident and in peace with her body

Dragonstarterplus · Answer

I think think that she desperately needs male attention to validate her existence

Arjunaguy · Answer

Yeah I lose respect for them it's like that's the only means they have to grab attention it's quite sad

hellacray · Answer

Kinda... Like we all know what you're doing.  You can post whatever you want just don't expect me to respect it.

Truthatanycost · Answer

Such pics are excellent. The girls posting them are telling the world who they are.

Anonymous · Answer

i lose respect when they post pics like that and then get mad when guys say objectifying things to them.

MrHopper · Answer

I think its fine but i do wonder some times and look to the eyes for an idea if its really want they want to be doing or are feeling they have too

SilverRain92 · Answer

It depends on what you mean by loosing respect. Guys would probably jerk off on your pictures and think about you in a sexual way. If you are OK with it, it's fine

rudramishra · Answer

No according to me it's okay as she looks like a model but as for my girlfriend I would prefer to wear at least little as in India it won't get tolerated by parents

MrCanada · Answer

Absolutely. But also I think that the posts like that on this site are actually guys. There are a lot of fake pink accounts on here. a lot of losers on here. 40 year old weirdo pervs living in their parents basement.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

They're ok. Who wears a thong in the shower? Bit odd

lanadelrey25 · Answer

Here thigh is really creepy looking, like extra long, the one on the left (her right)

CikaZivan · Answer

I've literally unfriended every single female friend that posted pics of cleavage and butt, so you tell me.

Anonymous · Answer

No I don't. If she wants to show her body, all the power to her. The human body isn't something to be ashamed of or judged.

RyanK9 · Answer

No. Only if they do this on daily basis to everyone

JosyJosy · Answer

For me it all depends on why they do it. If they're insecure and they do it for constant confirmation, yes I'd find that pretty sad and pathetic

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