Some guys will lose respect for you, others won't. The only people I would lose respect for over sending nudes, or other provocative photos, are the ones who send them to people who do not want them. And by that, I mean anyone who has not either specifically given you permission, has made it known in general that they would like receiving them, or like in this case where the people have already seen each other nude, so it is no big deal sending nudes.
Depends to who.
What’s it mean if a guy says yeah maybe after you ask wanna do something?
It means he's open to it.
He may even be enthusiastic but feels like you're going to be turned off if he seems to enthusiastic.
Don't be meek about it. If he's open to it then invite him to do something with you.
I don't think seeing women as sex objects is at all common. I think it's more of a myth.
Oh really do you think?
Well he didn't say no fuck off, so the only sensible thing to do is to get in there and try to make something happen.
I meant the sex object thing hahaha
Yes. People don't use the term objectification properly.
They usually mean it as "sexualisation" not objectification.
Objectification would entail disregarding or overruling their agency as a point of principle or habit, this is not common.
Do you think that repeated sex can develop into feelings
Yes. Spending time with people can do that, sex or no sex. Familiarity can develop feelings. It could also not. There are no guarantees, believing that anything here is uniform is wrong. You can't know anything.
With some guys, yes. Some will even point it out and/or show it within their actions... i know my guy would lose respect if i did a lot of that... I’ve been told this in one of our usual chats and I don’t really blame him; it kind of puts you in a place where it shows what you’re main focus could be or is on; remember can’t really blame the guy cause he can’t read your mind, only your behavior.
If you are already having sex... I don't see what the big deal is. At that point he either already respects you or doesn't, regardless of rather or not you send him nude photos. If you are not having sex, then likely he doesn't respect you. I wouldn't respect you. If you are already having sex though... I don't think the feeling applies.
Why would sex change it
In my opinion, if you are not in an actively sexual relationship with someone, it's kind of inappropriate to send them a bunch of sexy photos. If you are on the verge... very close to having sex then it's flirty and a signal of interest. If you just formed the relationship, it would be a red flag that you tend to hop in the bed quick.
Oh yeah for sure
Also what’s it mean if a guy says yeah maybe after you say wanna do something soon?
In my opinion, he is interested but doesn't want to come off as being too eager. If he was not interested, I would suspect he would make an excuse about being busy etc.
Hmmm very true x
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1. Nope. I think they're just being playful. And doing that is a totally normal thing according to science.
2. No I don't. I look at them as understanding companions. The closest friend in my life who understands me the best is a girl.
3. Umm... If you feel like... I don't know...
Oh really
It would not make me loose any respect for the woman. However, if she sends me nudes the first time we chat, I would assume that sex is primarily what she wants from me. If we've chatted online a few times or we've met in person, then sending nudes is just a provocative tease and doesn't determine where the relationship is going.
Okay thank you
For me at least, its the exact opposite of what you think. I prefer a girl to be open, promiscuous, forward, etc. whatever you wanna call it, and I lose respect for girls that use sex as a bargaining chip or "reward" for giving them what they want. If I hear a girl say the phrase "work for pussy" I don't really want to have anything to do with her.
SO TRUE
It is a turn on that she is inspired to send me sexy pics out of the blue as long as I'm the only one.
Viewing a woman as a sex object isn't a bad thing. It is viewing her ONLY as a sex object. Sometimes a girl wants to be a sex object.
Think of all the girls that have ganging fantasies... they aren't there for an emotional connection. The enjoy men taking what they want/need from her. But they all still respect her.
Be a sex object to the people you want to see you like that sometimes and only do it with people who see you as more than just that if that is what you need. Sometimes knowing they appreciate you more than just a sex object is what makes it ok for her to be treated like a hot passionate sex object sometimes. Sometimes that is the hottest you will ever see a girl get.
My boyfriend thinks I’m fun because he tells me “send them things” and I know he means to send them fire booty pics :) he told me that if we were both boring we wouldn’t work. And I sent him pussy pics while he was sleeping and then I asked him when we were fucking ( cause we haven’t had sex yet) and he told me that eventually and when I called him out on fucking randoms off tinder and having one night stands he told me: “yeah but you’re a respectable woman though” soooo yeah, I was called respectable right after a pussy pic. So I guess it’s just the guy and how you are with him what determines whether or not he finds you to be respectable.
So he cheated on you?
No. He has a sexual history?
Wtf why doesn’t he want sex
He told me he wanted to have in love sex. Made me his girlfriend and now we can have sex so yeah I’m gonna have sex soon.
Woot
a girl can do that and not be seen as a slut, if she has other qualities also you know, then she can be very interesting...
if her only feature is just sex and sexy pics then it is logical she will only be seen trough those googles
True
What’s it mean if a guy says yeah maybe
Depends on the guy. I personally enjoy it, especially if the woman isn't someone who you would assume is the type to send such images. I think it helps build anticipation and excitement.
What makes you view a woman as a sex object or lose respect for her?
I don't lose respect for people simply for having sex. If they used dirty tactics, lied, cheated, or anything like that to get sex, then I'd lose respect. Similarly, if she was careless and had sex with people without using protection.
But having sex is natural and normal and women have high sex drives as well. So wanting sex and having sex isn't something that would make me lose respect for a women.
What’s it mean if a guy says yeah maybe
I said wanna do something soon?
That’s true
I wouldn't really lose respect unless she seems really desperate when sending them and I would view a woman as a sex object if that was all she cared about or if they asked me to think of them like that
How do you seem desperate?
And how would they ask you to think of them like that?
They would seem desperate if they didn't care who they were sending it to but more of they just need someone to see those photos such as starting a convo with a stranger and sending it in like the first day of talking. And they could ask that by just being strait forward and just telling them how you want them to think of you.
Damn I don’t think many girls want to be thought as an object and yeah that makes sense
Yeah nor do I think that many do but some do for some reason also I guess I should preface that no one has ever asked me to think of them like that nor do u think of anyone like that I feel like i may have implied that a little
If you want to message then you can i guess.
Depends on the circumstances how I see on it.
Mostly I see people as one in the bunch no matter what they looks like , what they are wearing or for that matter how much skin are reviled, what they are doing on them.
Tends to see right through it. but I'm not like most human's in the first place.
The object thing isn't my thing. but I have been objectified a lot from females in a sexual way and couldn't care less.
If we're already having sex then what's the big deal? It's only a good thing in my opinion. I've had girlfriends who tease me while I work and it only puts me in a better mood.
What’s it mean if a guy says yeah maybe after you say wanna do something soon?
What he’s not sure? Wtf
He’s so fuckn annoying sometimes, I messaged him and he was heaps happy cause I messaged him obviously and then when I say wanna do something soon he replies with yeah maybe
I just left him on read but still like omllll why
I think he does I don't know why he said maybe though wtf
Yes sure
Oh wait really
Omg oops! I put it in the wrong place
I can’t message you your private
Tells me that she’s quite sexual, wouldn’t say slut tho
What makes you view a woman as a slut and or a sex object?
You don’t think sending provocative photos often would make you view them as an object?
Interesting...
I just view it as a woman being naked. It's our natural state.
I don't view them as sex objects. I reject the notion.
Message who?
I’m sorry I Accidentally updated the question
Well if we are really really close then I wouldn't lose respect for her , anyways I wouldn't recommend actually I would not like it coz it's not safe for her but it wouldn't let me view her less or something.
Your other question , well I don't view people as sex objects even if they're porn stars
That’s fair
Some guys do some guys use women
A woman who likes sex is confident in herself. I like that in a woman. Sending any type of picture is always welcomed since I am very visual. I have more respect for women who are open and confident.
Only if she took them. Could be she laying her room someone hacks her laptop take pictures with the web cam, or in college like that one guy who was secretly recorded have sex with another guy it was posted online he found and jumped off the George Washington Bridge.
Some can yes. It all depends on the individual and how well you know them and how well they respect you. I see people as human. So when I’ve received pics like that. I’ve always kept the utmost respect for them because they are lovely, beautiful human beings. People that lose respect for them are people who have very little respect for themselves or the people around them.
i wouldn't lose respect, its rather a matter of if she sends those photos to many other people and or luts it uo on instagram or so.
second quiestion: ALL women ade sex objects and all men are success objects, but thats just one dimension of a bigger personality. exception is when one doesn't seem any attraction in the other person.
Probably matters the context. If you guys were close together it may show signs of intense attraction to one another, if not yea you may come off like a tramp. But some men don't care because they like sex. Ofc same for women ;).
What does yeah maybe mean
I asked him wanna do something?
I never have, but I know some guys who are so idiotic that they will push for a girl to do something they want and if the girl does it they'll be convinced she's a slut/easy/lose respect, because they just can't let good things happen lol.
No!! i respect girls who are just kind to me and everyone
Sex object is really a word?
But yea we are sexually attracted visually to women. A man also dont know why men are visual. But its normal and natural what medical says! Maybe its evolution effect or adaptation i don't know...
Nope. I received quite a few pics like that. It sparks interest ;) for me, at least.
I never view another person as a sex object.
Oh and anyone can message me.
I used to be okay with it
But I realized it destroys relationships and friendships in the long run, now I avoid any kind of similar activity
I view a woman as a sex object only if she views herself as a sex object
A girl who throws her body around from guy to guy is nothing but a sex toy, no questioning it
Actions speak louder than words, I'm gonna pay attention more to what she shoves down her vagina than listen to what she "claims" to be or her motives
She might say she has self-respect, but she really doesn't
She's either lying or she just doesn't know what self respect is because she hasn't had it in so long
And I can't respect a woman if she can't respect herself 🤷
In that setting, no.
If girl goes to some "photographer" to take provocative or nude pics of her, my respect for her is out of the window.
Yeah…art. Sure. :-) I bet the guy like it as well.
No. I respect the women I have sex with, and I don't think badly of people who enjoy sex. I'm not that type of puritanical prude.
I only view a woman as a sex object if that's what she wants, if she gets off on it.
Yes, do not entertain them at all or even send naked pics, why would you do anything to make them feel good, that's how they hate you.
What why would they hate you if you make them feel good
If theyre not dating yes if they are dating then no if its a friends with benefits no complete stranger yes
It depends on guys, but for me it's their interest if they are doing privately it's good if publicly it changes the people's mind
If you're already having casual sex, that tells you what kind of girl she is. Photos wouldn't change that.
Exactly what I was thinking
Ok lol, it’s just casual to him, I’ve liked him for nearly three years
The casual sex thing means she's already lost my respect.
Why is that
"Casual sex" is a misnomer. There's no such thing.
www.chronicle.com/.../65960
I read it and didn’t understand
Hmm...
Basically, the longer a woman's list of sexual partners, the less bonding hormones are released when she has intercourse.
It also means a higher probability of long term depression, and other psych health problems.
Plus all the risks of STD's, unwanted pregnancies, heartbreak, baggage, etc.
It's the opposite of self care.
I just don't respect people putting their and their future partner's happiness at risk for the sake of fleeting pleasure and fun.
That's why I say "casual sex" loses my respect for people.
All the best.
I’ve only had sex with him
I was speaking in general terms, as your question was worded in general terms. If you want more personalized advice, I can certainly try. Just trying not to be presumptuous over here.
Can I message you
Sure.
Pls follow me
If she is sending me pics I can assume she is doing it or has done for other people as well and that would be a obvious red flag.
Me personally, I would lose respect for her, but she is welcome to earn it back
What’s it mean if a guy says yeah maybe after you ask wanna do something soon?
Hmm, it can go either way. He could mean it doesn't matter what you will do later, or he has something in mind, but is being subliminal (or he could be sarcastic in the way he said it)
If it happened to you, can you please explain how he said it, and what was his body language/facial expression when he did?
It was over text but he was happy that I messaged him before I asked
Oh okay! He's either okay with whatever you want to do, or he has an idea about what to do and would like for you to guess what he's thinking of. Hope that helped 😅
Thank you!! And yeah I’m not sure but grrr I hate when he says maybe
Lolol, I can see how that gets annoying, and you're welcome 😄😄😄
No, if we're having casual sex I lost respect for her already.
Serious?
Have you ever had casual sex?
Absolutely. Sex is never casual if you're serious about your partner. But I'm demisexual, so yeah.
What’s demisexual?
And it’s only casual from his side... I had feelings before we had sex..
Is it okay if I cut and paste?
A demisexual is a person who does not experience sexual attraction unless they form a strong emotional connection with someone. It's more commonly seen in but by no means confined to romantic relationships.
Oh yeah I’m sort of like that too
Unfortunately I have never experienced that. But I'm sure I'd find it hot in a teasing kind of way if I did lol
It's really sexy n hot.. but a little bit sad and desp.
I wouldn't lose respect, but I guess it would depend on the circumstances
What makes you view a woman as a sex object and what circumstances?
I've never viewed women as sex objects... and maybe I'd lose respect if she was posting all over the internet
Oh wow really? Very kind of you, some guys do think that way
Women are people too... nothing wrong with being flirty and sexy
True..
If it her just in her underwear it don’t bother nudes she be a one nightstand a relationship no.
Nudes are dumb in general
He'll no it's good a woman is comfortable with her looks right
sen me some an fin out ; )
It's illegal to send them to children, unlucky.
@WindowLicker damn, could've had some fun
Ok that’s gross
Shouldn’t you be at school
lol im messin around. and no im suspended
Oh no what’d you do smh
i may or may not have brought some alcohol in coffee to school and another kid may or may not have grabbed it from my hand taken ONE sip an gotten tipsy (lightweight af)
I never got one from the 1st world.
Lol the updates
Yes we do
Why’s that
Lmaooooo loose Lucy
So provocative pics are never ok?
Uh ok
Hahahahahaha
Ofcourse not.
What makes you view a woman as sex object
Could you answer my most recent question I really need help 😥
And thank you
na most guys love it
I asked this guy wanna do something soon? And he said yeah maybe, does that mean he doesn’t want to see me
Yeah ahaha we send x’s
But he still said maybe so im worried
Oh wait your 15 wtf
guys r easy asf sending an x is litrely like skipping hours of effort if he's saying maybe he's just probably not sure on how and when and is nervous on how its going. when i talk 2 girls if im like oh yh u wanns get smashed w me and my mates on Friday and she's like maybe she probsnly not sure how it will go so il be like oh yh if u come along at 4 il meet u and will walk 2 here and do this blah blah blah. going out w some1 for the first times uncomfterball so make him comfterball and confifent
No I think it's hot
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