Some guys will lose respect for you, others won't. The only people I would lose respect for over sending nudes, or other provocative photos, are the ones who send them to people who do not want them. And by that, I mean anyone who has not either specifically given you permission, has made it known in general that they would like receiving them, or like in this case where the people have already seen each other nude, so it is no big deal sending nudes.
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Depends to who.
With some guys, yes. Some will even point it out and/or show it within their actions... i know my guy would lose respect if i did a lot of that... I’ve been told this in one of our usual chats and I don’t really blame him; it kind of puts you in a place where it shows what you’re main focus could be or is on; remember can’t really blame the guy cause he can’t read your mind, only your behavior.
If you are already having sex... I don't see what the big deal is. At that point he either already respects you or doesn't, regardless of rather or not you send him nude photos. If you are not having sex, then likely he doesn't respect you. I wouldn't respect you. If you are already having sex though... I don't think the feeling applies.
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1. Nope. I think they're just being playful. And doing that is a totally normal thing according to science.
2. No I don't. I look at them as understanding companions. The closest friend in my life who understands me the best is a girl.
3. Umm... If you feel like... I don't know...It would not make me loose any respect for the woman. However, if she sends me nudes the first time we chat, I would assume that sex is primarily what she wants from me. If we've chatted online a few times or we've met in person, then sending nudes is just a provocative tease and doesn't determine where the relationship is going.
For me at least, its the exact opposite of what you think. I prefer a girl to be open, promiscuous, forward, etc. whatever you wanna call it, and I lose respect for girls that use sex as a bargaining chip or "reward" for giving them what they want. If I hear a girl say the phrase "work for pussy" I don't really want to have anything to do with her.
It is a turn on that she is inspired to send me sexy pics out of the blue as long as I'm the only one.
Viewing a woman as a sex object isn't a bad thing. It is viewing her ONLY as a sex object. Sometimes a girl wants to be a sex object.
Think of all the girls that have ganging fantasies... they aren't there for an emotional connection. The enjoy men taking what they want/need from her. But they all still respect her.
Be a sex object to the people you want to see you like that sometimes and only do it with people who see you as more than just that if that is what you need. Sometimes knowing they appreciate you more than just a sex object is what makes it ok for her to be treated like a hot passionate sex object sometimes. Sometimes that is the hottest you will ever see a girl get.My boyfriend thinks I’m fun because he tells me “send them things” and I know he means to send them fire booty pics :) he told me that if we were both boring we wouldn’t work. And I sent him pussy pics while he was sleeping and then I asked him when we were fucking ( cause we haven’t had sex yet) and he told me that eventually and when I called him out on fucking randoms off tinder and having one night stands he told me: “yeah but you’re a respectable woman though” soooo yeah, I was called respectable right after a pussy pic. So I guess it’s just the guy and how you are with him what determines whether or not he finds you to be respectable.
a girl can do that and not be seen as a slut, if she has other qualities also you know, then she can be very interesting...
if her only feature is just sex and sexy pics then it is logical she will only be seen trough those googlesDepends on the guy. I personally enjoy it, especially if the woman isn't someone who you would assume is the type to send such images. I think it helps build anticipation and excitement.
I wouldn't really lose respect unless she seems really desperate when sending them and I would view a woman as a sex object if that was all she cared about or if they asked me to think of them like that
Depends on the circumstances how I see on it.
Mostly I see people as one in the bunch no matter what they looks like , what they are wearing or for that matter how much skin are reviled, what they are doing on them.
Tends to see right through it. but I'm not like most human's in the first place.
The object thing isn't my thing. but I have been objectified a lot from females in a sexual way and couldn't care less.If we're already having sex then what's the big deal? It's only a good thing in my opinion. I've had girlfriends who tease me while I work and it only puts me in a better mood.
Tells me that she’s quite sexual, wouldn’t say slut tho
I just view it as a woman being naked. It's our natural state.
I don't view them as sex objects. I reject the notion.Well if we are really really close then I wouldn't lose respect for her , anyways I wouldn't recommend actually I would not like it coz it's not safe for her but it wouldn't let me view her less or something.
Your other question , well I don't view people as sex objects even if they're porn starsA woman who likes sex is confident in herself. I like that in a woman. Sending any type of picture is always welcomed since I am very visual. I have more respect for women who are open and confident.
Some can yes. It all depends on the individual and how well you know them and how well they respect you. I see people as human. So when I’ve received pics like that. I’ve always kept the utmost respect for them because they are lovely, beautiful human beings. People that lose respect for them are people who have very little respect for themselves or the people around them.
i wouldn't lose respect, its rather a matter of if she sends those photos to many other people and or luts it uo on instagram or so.
second quiestion: ALL women ade sex objects and all men are success objects, but thats just one dimension of a bigger personality. exception is when one doesn't seem any attraction in the other person.Only if she took them. Could be she laying her room someone hacks her laptop take pictures with the web cam, or in college like that one guy who was secretly recorded have sex with another guy it was posted online he found and jumped off the George Washington Bridge.
Probably matters the context. If you guys were close together it may show signs of intense attraction to one another, if not yea you may come off like a tramp. But some men don't care because they like sex. Ofc same for women ;).
I never have, but I know some guys who are so idiotic that they will push for a girl to do something they want and if the girl does it they'll be convinced she's a slut/easy/lose respect, because they just can't let good things happen lol.
No!! i respect girls who are just kind to me and everyone
Sex object is really a word?
But yea we are sexually attracted visually to women. A man also dont know why men are visual. But its normal and natural what medical says! Maybe its evolution effect or adaptation i don't know...
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