Girls, do you shit test guys?

[geonator]

Yes, on purpose

Yes, subconsciously

No

[btbc92]

Of course! Everybody does it. Men do it too. There is nothing wrong with it as long as you doing so for the right reasons and that other person knows. The moment a person sees your being judged and tested. That's how you find suitable partners. Just stay away from immature people who take advantage of it by shaming you for not meeting their unrealistic standards.

[geonator]

"as long as the other person knows" how is a person gonna know? Isn't the nature of a test that they don't know the test is happening?

[btbc92]

No, because common sense should tell you that everybody judges you for everything in public of other people. That's why we're taught how to behave and act around people. The person should be able to know because 'first impressions' say a lot right? They don't say that for anything. The test is not about not knowing. It's being aware that anything can turn off or turn on a potential partner. This how people weed out partners in less than a few hours by rejecting the said person. That's why you don't present yourself in a way that has unrealistic expectations. Because people again, will judge you for everything.