Girlfriend going to birthday party?

[livelovesex]

It's a bit complex to explain in English, so girlfriend have (women) friend and they go out etc. I could say they are quite "good" friends but she doesn't have birthday, his boyfriend have and she invited my girlfriend over.

I really hate it because we haven't met with my girlfriend for quite some time and she was arguing a bit how we won't see (before she was invited ) and now we'll see each other for like a day or so, because yesterday she was invited to that birthday party.

and the next reason is that I wasn't invited like I don't fucking exist. I don't care, it's true I don't know him or her much. But it's a bit weird isn't it?

I'm not envy at all or anything, but I just feel like that's wrong. Maybe it's just me, let's say I would have birthday party and i would invite some girls over just because my good friend knows some girls.

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Oh and I'm not 30 years old. 25 from England!

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anyone here :O

[lovedejj_xo]

I’m going to my best friends party an hour away no my boyfriend was not invited as it’s a girls brunch party but he’s fine with that, I guess communicate then. I can’t tell if you’re jealous in general or hurt that you weren’t invited... all my friends are good looking as well and were dressing up I’m sure he’ll be happy when I’m back home 🥂

[livelovesex]

girls brunch party, but she was invited by guy (she's friend with boyfriends girl my girlfriend) and bothers me that he have idiot friends. That's the thing. I wouldn't care at all if there would be girls party or what ever, but this... it's different i think.

[yucychan]

For a man, you are being very wishy washy and childish. You were angry that your girlfriend's friend never invited you. But if your girlfriend asked if you can come along on your behalf, you will not be happy as well. You feel that her friend should have took the initiative and invited you from the start, without your girlfriend having to bring it up.

What the hell is your problem? Then what do you want? Her friend is closer to your girlfriend, not you. Of course she's only gonna invite your girlfriend first. If you want to make a mountain out of a molehill and feel everything's a personal attack, then the problem is you, not her friends.

[livelovesex]

Interesting and I am not childish in any way. More or less serious person. I just don't want her to go to this shitty party especially because of I know that he have some idiot friends.

[yucychan]

If you do not want her to go, then just tell her. What's the use of ranting here?
You do realize your girlfriend has the freedom and right to go to any party she wants, right?

[livelovesex]

I'm not upset, I just as well know what kind of idiot friend he have too.

[livelovesex]

that guy have friends who are jerks and some of them was picking up my girl she said that like she started kissing her. I didn't do anything because she told me late. That was like years ago! I think i should back then found this guy...

[TheFlak38]

We are surrounded by sluts. If you only knew how cucked you are.

[ZiZi_Bell]

Have her ask her friend if she can bring you as her date.

[livelovesex]

I don't want to do that and be on birthday I wasn't invited. They know me already a bit, but it's unplesant from me in one way. and... NO I don't want to ask her, her friend if my girlfriend can bring me, because that's even more awkward.

[Avicenna]

Have you told her how you feel?

[livelovesex]

No actually I didn't we just talked over cellphone as we haven't seen for that one day, next day she goes to that birthday party. I don't giveaway my feeling I just stop talking or say that I must go and when she told me that I just said I need to go back to work as I don't want to feel "hurt."

[Cryptic-Game]

Let her go if you trust her and don't question it.

[livelovesex]

ofc. I will it's just weird and his friends are stupid idiots

[In_Trance]

it's just you

[livelovesex]

Why do you think?

[In_Trance]

Because it seems like nothing to me. I can't imagine a lot of guys getting upset of this

[livelovesex]

I'm not upset, I just as well know what kind of idiot friend he have too.