If a girl says she doesn’t trust anyone, is that a red flag?

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Answer 1

ettubrutus

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Not really, she's probably just cautious. Anybody could be a psycho and you wouldn't know.

Answer 2

Anonymous

Nope!

Asker

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I disagree
Opinion Owner

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Why?
Asker

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If she doesn’t trust anyone that mean she probably thinks everyone wronged her which is victim mentality. Where is her accountability in situations going wrong?
Also if she doesn’t trust anyone she is bringing baggage from past relationships into new ones and that is a recipe for disaster.
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Opinion Owner

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She’s prob so fed up from everyone who did wrong her that she just needs a break from everyone else so she can reflect about her past hurts and not bring them into new relationships.
Opinion Owner

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Don’t assume. She’ll come around if she doesn’t detect any bad toxic vibes from you in the meantime
Asker

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Again where is her accountability? So everyone is wronging her and she is doing nothing wrong? I have a hard time believing that.
Opinion Owner

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(Speaking from a very guarded girl with trust issues)
Opinion Owner

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Where are “you” in her life? What do you want from her? Maybe I’ll be able to answer that much if you provide that type of information.. or are you just observing her with others?
Opinion Owner

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If she’s really fed up,, on a scale from 1-10 of what you actually think about her is -0. If she’s not saying anything for proof and causing drama, then don’t assume.
Opinion Owner

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Maybe she’s just confusing you with her silence. I don’t know, you’re not providing much about her.
Asker

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I honestly i have no standing in her life. I’m just some guy. I suppose to be a friend. I like her but I want something solid otherwise I wouldn’t have stay in contact with her for 3 years. the vibe I get is you stay way over there and I’ll deal with you when I’m bored or it is convenient for me.
Opinion Owner

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You’re still a stranger in her eyes. I’m like that too if the guy I’m talking to wants more than friendship.
Asker

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This isn’t friendship
Opinion Owner

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I don't know what your reputation is with other girls, but she prob knows more about you than you let on.
Opinion Owner

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Yeah, because she placed in you in a different category. You failed the friendship test, not you’re just some other guy..
Opinion Owner

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Now*
Opinion Owner

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Her messaging you, she’s just being polite.
Asker

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Not at all. We don’t know the same people and we don’t hang around each other which is why this makes no sense.
Opinion Owner

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And she’s keeping the door open ajar, because she might like you but not enough.
Asker

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She is being polite but she initiates some of the chats
Opinion Owner

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You haven’t wronged her.. sometimes persistence helps, but. It be too pushy. Like mirror her effort in w/e this is
Opinion Owner

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Don’t be pushy* don’t make accusations!
Asker

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I did wronged her because I said some words and was pushy but that wasn’t my intention. I regret some of the stuff I said
Opinion Owner

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Exactly.
Asker

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You agree with the pushy part?
Opinion Owner

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What are your true intentions? What do you want from her?
Asker

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Something real. Friendship and if that develops into romance then I’m happy with that
Opinion Owner

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Anyway, she’s prolly ol’ fashioned too. She won’t make this easy for you if that’s what you’re looking for... “someone easy”
Opinion Owner

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Best to just move on.
Opinion Owner

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You have to be her friend first. She’s a “one guy” girl. She has to be in a relationship with you if she’s going to give you anymore than friendship. And don’t be that guy who gets in a 6 months or less relationship with someone just so she spreads her legs.

Or be that guy, but NOT with this type of girl.
Opinion Owner

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I’m guessing she’s learning the difference between list and love. That’s when I started to take a step back, and now you could say I’m looking for accountability. That’s all in your head.
Opinion Owner

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Lust and love*
Opinion Owner

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I have a very strong intuition about people. I listen to my gut and you pushing her confirmed with her your true motive.

Answer 3

Asker

I disagree

Answer 4

Opinion Owner

Why?

Answer 5

Asker

If she doesn’t trust anyone that mean she probably thinks everyone wronged her which is victim mentality. Where is her accountability in situations going wrong?
Also if she doesn’t trust anyone she is bringing baggage from past relationships into new ones and that is a recipe for disaster.

Answer 6

Opinion Owner

She’s prob so fed up from everyone who did wrong her that she just needs a break from everyone else so she can reflect about her past hurts and not bring them into new relationships.

Answer 7

Opinion Owner

Don’t assume. She’ll come around if she doesn’t detect any bad toxic vibes from you in the meantime

Answer 8

Asker

Again where is her accountability? So everyone is wronging her and she is doing nothing wrong? I have a hard time believing that.

Answer 9

Opinion Owner

(Speaking from a very guarded girl with trust issues)

Answer 10

Opinion Owner

Where are “you” in her life? What do you want from her? Maybe I’ll be able to answer that much if you provide that type of information.. or are you just observing her with others?

Answer 11

Opinion Owner

If she’s really fed up,, on a scale from 1-10 of what you actually think about her is -0. If she’s not saying anything for proof and causing drama, then don’t assume.

Answer 12

Opinion Owner

Maybe she’s just confusing you with her silence. I don’t know, you’re not providing much about her.

Answer 13

Asker

I honestly i have no standing in her life. I’m just some guy. I suppose to be a friend. I like her but I want something solid otherwise I wouldn’t have stay in contact with her for 3 years. the vibe I get is you stay way over there and I’ll deal with you when I’m bored or it is convenient for me.

Answer 14

Opinion Owner

You’re still a stranger in her eyes. I’m like that too if the guy I’m talking to wants more than friendship.

Answer 15

Asker

This isn’t friendship

Answer 16

Opinion Owner

I don't know what your reputation is with other girls, but she prob knows more about you than you let on.

Answer 17

Opinion Owner

Yeah, because she placed in you in a different category. You failed the friendship test, not you’re just some other guy..

Answer 18

Opinion Owner

Now*

Answer 19

Opinion Owner

Her messaging you, she’s just being polite.

Answer 20

Asker

Not at all. We don’t know the same people and we don’t hang around each other which is why this makes no sense.

Answer 21

Opinion Owner

And she’s keeping the door open ajar, because she might like you but not enough.

Answer 22

Asker

She is being polite but she initiates some of the chats

Answer 23

Opinion Owner

You haven’t wronged her.. sometimes persistence helps, but. It be too pushy. Like mirror her effort in w/e this is

Answer 24

Opinion Owner

Don’t be pushy* don’t make accusations!

Answer 25

Asker

I did wronged her because I said some words and was pushy but that wasn’t my intention. I regret some of the stuff I said

Answer 26

Opinion Owner

Exactly.

Answer 27

Asker

You agree with the pushy part?

Answer 28

Opinion Owner

What are your true intentions? What do you want from her?

Answer 29

Asker

Something real. Friendship and if that develops into romance then I’m happy with that

Answer 30

Opinion Owner

Anyway, she’s prolly ol’ fashioned too. She won’t make this easy for you if that’s what you’re looking for... “someone easy”

Answer 31

Opinion Owner

Best to just move on.

Answer 32

Opinion Owner

You have to be her friend first. She’s a “one guy” girl. She has to be in a relationship with you if she’s going to give you anymore than friendship. And don’t be that guy who gets in a 6 months or less relationship with someone just so she spreads her legs.

Or be that guy, but NOT with this type of girl.

Answer 33

Opinion Owner

I’m guessing she’s learning the difference between list and love. That’s when I started to take a step back, and now you could say I’m looking for accountability. That’s all in your head.

Answer 34

Opinion Owner

Lust and love*

Answer 35

Opinion Owner

I have a very strong intuition about people. I listen to my gut and you pushing her confirmed with her your true motive.

Answer 36

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