Can a toxic woman become untoxic? If not how to cut her off if you work side by side with her daily?

[Anonymous]

Can a toxic woman become untoxic? If not how to cut off a woman who has become toxic in the past 4/5 years?

[ArchersArrow]

Well apparently you’re not into her. If I were you and I accepted her as a friend but not as a fiancée I would tell her the truth that I’m not into her and we’re just friends. If she keeps on acting as my lover I would leave the relationship to dry out.

[Asker]

She's cool and all but she just immature on somethings.

[ArchersArrow]

It’s either you’re interested in her or not

[Asker]

In dating right now no I'm not

[Anonymous]

What are some things she does? Everything people do isn’t toxic but you can cut them off if you like. Everyone have their own free will.

[Asker]

Try to control the women in my life, don't want me talking tk any woman but her, always accusing me of replcing her woth whom ever i'm talking too at the time, she always complain about how i don't text her or call her but she never initiates texting or calling, she's always bring whatever happens outside of work to work and creates this negative work enviroment. That our manager tell me to fix it. I never notice a difference until manager tell me. She tries to become clingy and even cockblock women i'm interested in. She think she should be number 1 woman i talk to, laugh and joke with even if we spoke before work and night before. She is doing that while dating/being in a relarionship with someone.

[Asker]

She started acting like this 6 months ago when i started getting close with another woman. Now she notices and watches every single thing i do.

[Opinion Owner]

Sighs you asked this question many many times lol I’m starting to wonder does she actually have someone else besides you. Maybe she want you and don’t want nobody else to have you. it could be issues from her past experiences in relationships that’s resulting in her behavior.

[Opinion Owner]

Lol close with another woman? Oh my

[Opinion Owner]

She trying to make sure her space isn’t filled lol

[Opinion Owner]

Ask and communicate with her if it’s just starting this year

[Opinion Owner]

So what’s the plan?

[Anonymous]

You can’t make her be untoxic

[Asker]

I was thinking that. Silence only brings on anger and even if i spoke and told her. She would just make it weird at work. Like there is no way around it

[Asker]

Other than finding a new job. I make decent amount of money than what i made in my past. She helped me get the job 3 years ago. I worked with her 2 years now. This year only became toxic

[Anonymous]

women wouldn't have any problem reporting a coworker to HR. Why not do that

[Opinion Owner]

The only way to get rid of toxicity is to burn it away like they used to do with witches