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most efficient way, you asked...
so I went with D... to put a full stop to it, cutting ties works the best... otherwise, there are very high chances of one becoming stuck with such toxic person, and we would be the ones wearing ourselves out for them, and then they might not even be able or just not want to appreciate any of it because well... they're toxic
whether is cutting them off right away, or after a couple of tries... I do think this is the most efficient way to deal with these things... just DON'T deal with them if you can actually afford that option, because it is also true that some times that's just not a clear option, or it is also the most difficult option to go with
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In my personal experience the only possible solution is for you to care about yourself first and foremost and leave that person out of your life, manipulative liars and when caught acts like they're the good ones? Seriously what kind of "friend" is that, that's an enemy, what's in it for you staying close to that person besides potential betrayal with you basically having to be cautious and fully aware 100% of the time
Normally "Cut them out of your life", if you can. In cases when you can't (e g family member) then I would go fight for my right (unless they can be explained with kind words, which is not normally the definition of a toxic person. Because those who are willing to actually listen and not just talk trash and exaggerate, are not toxic in the first place). I would NEVER put up with such a person and hence put myself in a lower position.
If it's family, it's a bit more tough. But if it's not family, I'd TRY to get them to see the errors of their ways. They can't change? Fuk it, i got better shi to do and people to see
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You can only put up with for a little bit of time look at everyone in the world we all have a story or something going on in life. If you look at people who always have drama. Or always judging people are talking crap about people or there opinions are the only right one. Or there ignorant about life itself
these are people who are always sticking there nose in other people business they're usually unhappy they're usually don't like themselves and they're in this world cause chaos
For me I found if I have none of the above in my life everything is better I'm happier I'm more free of stress and I can be myself I'm more free not angry or un happy
Just think where the world would be at this moment if people didn't have to deal with people like thisIt’s so simple if you want positivity in your life and be constructive you have to cut off negativity as much as possible, I was listening to an interview of a hugely successful CEO she was always laying off negative people with no other reason than for the well-being of the company, negative people are blood suckers and I’m not saying you have to cut them off for life but as long as they are negative
Cut them out of my life. No point keeping friendships that no longer serve me.
As iron sharpens iron, so one friend sharpens another. If he/she is not pushing me to be the very best version of myself, at least don’t pull me down and negatively influence me.
Most efficient way is to cut contact immediately - no bullshit and no time wasted.Girl I just cut them off. It can even be your own family members. Everyone deserve to be respected and welcome. No need to have to put up with such horrible behavior. Just cut them off.
@LazerBean The easiest way is to cut them out. The best way to deal (key word deal) with toxic people is to treat them kind. Don't try to help them, just treat them kind. You're attempt to be conditionally kind will detach you from the toxicity of the matter. And you will truly feel like a good person and it is addictive.
This is a topic near and dear to my heart. I believe what you are describing is a narcissist.
Society is full of these people now which I find abhorrent and disgusting.
These people only respect strength. If putting them in their place in a dominating way is not an option cutting them out of your life and leaving them in their own little demented world is the only effective option.- s
ignore them… silence is powerful. the more you react, the more you feed the “satisfaction” they get from their toxic behaviour. so just ignore and they’ll learn that, it won’t have an effect.
I've dealt with someone like that she lives in my neighborhood. She started out as nice so I gave her my number. But once that happened omg found out how toxic she was. I've limit conversation with her and distance myself. I dont call or text her she reached out to me. I respond with 3 text after that I go back to no contact
If it's someone you know, cut them out... If it's someone you see ignore them or you can have fun and beat them in their own game
Cut all ties. Block their number, social media etc. People like that never change and history always repeats itself
Depends on how toxic they are to me, sometimes i do B for fun and then when i’m done with them i do D
Omg my grandma has been described that’s bullshit
I think being kind with them can be helpful eventually but gosh the patience it will take
cut them out they do not change
Depending if she is a dime you put up with to get in her pants then maybe you can show her how to be hot and nice
Block them and avoid them irl
Cut. Out. Swat it away like it's a wasp.
Definitely Definitely D
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