So we had a argument and she blocked me on Instagram she searched me up and blocked me on Snapchat, Facebook and Tictik but she didint block me on Twitter and tumblr or my Phone number... and dec 23 she stopped relying and then messaged me again 3 week later we’ve never went this long without talking she dumped me in 2019 dec and all of 2020 we we’re like on and off cuz of her i Dont understand what she wants
My ex messaged me 3 weeks later after saying bye.. why?
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So after reading your question and replies to other opinions, assuming what you’re saying is true and the whole story, then the short answer is: It doesn’t matter what she wants. Move on. There is nothing good for you to get fromt he relationship with her. She’s cheating, lying and being toxic in general. And as I understand it you where going to marry this woman? Like why? Why would you even consider it? Your relationship is chaotic and marrying her would leave you in ruins every way possible (emotionally, financially and so on). Men complain that women divorce rape them or whatever and yet they go for women like this, not only for a relationship but for proposal and marriage. I mean come on, what did you expect? You know what she is like and you know what your relationship has been like, it’s not going to change. And again, it doesn’t matter what she wants because you shouldn’t want anything from her. Don’t waste any more of your time on her or thinking about her or her actions. Move. On.
You said in another comment that she had depression and suicidal thoughts. I really don't think this is her pushing you away. This is her seeking for attention and help from you. She is trying to manipulate you into thinking you were insensitive to her so that you will regret it and will come back to her. I am not saying she's evil. I think she just had a breakdown because when she blocked you, you didn't try to fight for her. I don't know why you guys argued but you going around liking other girls pics added to her anger towards you. It's obvious she's miserable and trying to hold a wall up acting all strong and alone. She is just pretending to hurt you so that you will feel bad for being a bad boyfriend to her. Again not saying she's evil. She clearly needs your comfort and care rn.
The argument started cuz I saw she was liking guys pictures so I sent them to her and she was liking her ex boyfriend pics over the summer. He reached out to her And they texted a little but the conversations led to sexual on his part and she entertained it she didn’t see him but we all ran into each other at club and I saw her talking to him and I talked to him pretending to one of her friends to find the story, she eventually blocked him on everything so we argued about that So when I saw she was doing all that stuff I started liking my females friends pictures as well we aren’t dating but I spent 13 months trying to get back with her and there’s other stuff like posting booty pictures but she ended up deleting those after I addressed it and I didn’t ask her to delete them, I just don’t understand what she wants from me like the ring she wanted to marry me when she comes back from deployment she left 2 weeks ago but she was doing all that stuff over the summer and when I questioned her about it just led to arguments, she said she didn’t have a chance to Mail it cuz she wasn’t left alone I don’t understand that part like how did her friends stop her from mailing it? One of her friends doesn’t like me dating her and tried to ruin our relationship
I’ve been a great boyfriend to her she broke up with me and then asked me to take her back and I’m nov 2019 and then broke up with me again and then still had me around till March 2020 she ghosted me claiming thay she wasn’t going to be around anymore (suicide) but had a wild summer partying with friends At club only twice but entertained guys there’s one being the other ex and all that stuff is in the texts above we argued about
Well i am sorry because from the convo i assumed you were the bad guy here. Damn she's a good manipulator. You know from your experience that neither was she loyal nor was she genuine. She is just playing with you and gaslighting you to make you feel you were the bad guy and it's because of your treatment she is suffering all alone rn. This is all just a big mind game she's playing to get you back. She probably misses having someone around. She just wants to take her frustration out on someone and she found you. She is completely toxic. From what you have said, her suicide warning is probably not serious and just a trick to get your sympathy. She reached out to you now because she saw a chance to get it all out and cause she's mad that you didn't go after her when she broke up or ghosted you. It's better to just block her completely and not give her what she wants. She is trying to play the victim here
Like what does she want i Dont see the point of tell me I’m what she wanted and made no effort with it I was the one trying to be with her alwYs checkinf up on her and her ignoring me.. I don't know why she wants to apologize now and tell me she was to let me go like she did that alrdy 3 weeks ago, she even reposting stuff on tumblr like “The years pass by and my love for him only grows. But since he doesn’t want it, all it does is suffocate me. It’s like slow poison. Eating away at my heart, soul and mind piece by piece” her reply is 😔 which I’m sure she’s trying to bait for my attention and stuff I jjst don’t understand what exactly she wants from me there’s plenty giys thay obviously want her and her actions as she said seemed like she didn’t want me I’m like DUH
I told you already. She wants a doormat as a boyfriend to take her anger and madness out. And since you know how she is and suffered her so much and never left her, she wants you back. That doesn't mean she wants you for loving. This is what toxic people do. They try to manipulate and gaslight you into thinking it's all your fault and guilt trip you. With that post, she is showing others she is heartbroken acting all innocent and making people feel as if it's your fault. She is trying to disrupt your life and don't want you to move on. Do not feed into her manipulation. You will go through the same shit again
I think u should move on with your life continue working on your self jus forget about her she's trying to manipulate u she's toxic very toxic. The thing is she dumped u thinking she was better off bcz she didn't value your love for her and it's not working out they she wanted so she's now trying to run back to you. Forget about her move on with your life 🇬🇾
🤔🤔🤔 your ex is toxic, she shouldn't have played you like that it's like she never wants to see again now but then she keeps changing her mind🤦♀️🤦♀️ i dont think your the badguy since I've read all your replies (if all what you said is 100% true) and it seems like she is cheating, playing with your emotions and manipulating you but dont get me wrong you were also mistaken when you liked girls pics just to get back at her (should have directly solved it and closed the topic right when you found out) but it shouldn't matter anymore you better move on and let her cheating ass be
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Anonymous
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You have self esteem issues that’s why you are still thinking of this woman (and subconsciously still wanting her back) who has let you down already. Be emotionally strong and move on. Block her completely forever. Find someone who is worthy of you. How you will tell if she is the right one? It will be easy with her, simple. Good luck!
You’ve already asked this question before. She just wants to have closure from you because she feels she didn’t relieve it from you or just have the last fucking word. Ignore the shit out of her and stop replying.
I mean I have since our last argument when she stopped replying and I texted her on Christmas no reply so I left it in 2020 on New Years I didn’t text her and all this year I been working on myself going gym and stuff and 3 weeks later she texts me, she suffers from depression and sucidal thoughts and right now she’s on deployment in airforce to Kuwait I don’t text her anymore but I didn’t get the point of her texting me I said something about the ring on my Twitter and then shortly after she texted me so she’s stalking my social media
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