Yeah that's definitely being done on purpose and overly obviously done with the things she said. I would definitely either tell her she needs to cool it... Or tell your wife what's going on... By saying or doing nothing, sister-in-law might get the impression you like it, enjoy it And things could escalate. Sometimes it's not even about the guy. Some sisters or females get too caught up in rivalry or get jealous of what the other has that they don't, so they try to come between it... Personally I'd talk to the sister in law first, and let her know if it continues, you'll let the wife know..
But then, your wife may wonder why you haven't said anything in 10 years, till now...
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Your sister-in-law knows exactly what she's doing--I don't know nor have I ever known a woman to "accidentally" brush her boobs against a man THAT many times..."poor spatial awareness"... c'mon.
You DEFINITELY need to tell your wife everything that's going on so she can have a conversation with her sister. If you don't say anything, she's just going to keep pushing the boundaries, so you and your wife need to push back.
Man, after reading your description, I was getting mad for your wife; her sister is just sick and disrespectful--to put it way too nicely😒🤬.
Good luck.
This is a little weird especially this far into the relationship. I've had similar things with my partner's twin but not as extreme and not as long into the relationship.
I think you need to address it, I know its tough as you dont want to lose your friend but at the same time you dont want to lose your wife and you certainly dont want your wife getting the wrong impression. If you dont address it your wife may feel that you're. comfortable or into it all.
If during the past 10 years nothing 'wrong' happened - I consider you to be safe.
I'm pretty certain that your wife had noticed it anyway.
So by keeping your hands where they ought to be, I see no conflicts coming up.
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Just consider it flattering. You dont like her flirtatitous vibes obviously and haven't told her to stop, so just tell her to stop and then act normal with her. She'll stop.
Sounds like it’s a game to her. Let your wife know.
If a chick was to brush her boobs against a man like that, she probably wants the D.
None of what she did was an accident and she was being very obvious about it. And it sounds like you must like it or you would put a stop to it.
You should tell your wife about her sisters advantages on you.
It would seem she is teasing you. Seeing if you react.
I thank you. I have a feeling... I feel feel. It’s like A - ROW or A - OW.
Does she still do this and do u live with her
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