To me it seems the other way around in my opinion.
I’ve seen boys just fulls on rage just because of being rejected or me saying they did something even the slightest bit wrong.
Where I don’t really see girls getting that mad about small things like that, and I also don’t know how biologically that argument stands as there have been many studies disproving that women are more emotional.
Males are just as emotional as females. Unlike females, who are free to show their emotions to males, this is denied. This is denied since childhood. Females on the other hand are allowed to be emotional, indeed they are almost promoted to show their emotions to others, and this is an immeasurable privilege. The male condition itself is oriented towards alexithymia, that is, a condition of reduced emotional awareness, which involves the inability to both recognize and verbally describe one's own emotional states and those of others. This condition was identified and described for the first time in the 1950s in patients suffering from pathologies classically defined as psychosomatic (gastroduodenal ulcer, eczema, irritable bowel syndrome, gastroesophageal reflux, asthma, etc...). Patients were led to express emotional suffering (otherwise inexpressible) through physical suffering. Levant et al. (2006; 2009) show how alexithymia, which for women is considered a pathology for men, is considered normal. This despite the man feeling emotions, he does not know how to give them a name and therefore does not recognize them as such. It all starts with the education of male children to the stereotype of male role. It is often characterized by a cold and detached virility, and therefore by a restriction of emotional expression. Boys are taught a set of explicit, but more often unspoken rules according to which emotions related to vulnerability, fear and sadness, may make them appear weak, and emotions related to attachment as needy, not self-sufficient as can be read in Pollack (1998).
References
Levant, R. F., Good, G. E., Cook, S. W., O’Neil, J. M., Smalley, K. B., Owen, K., & Richmond, K. (2006). The normative Male Alexithymia Scale: Measurement of a gender-linked syndrome. Psychology of Men & Masculinity, 7(4), 212. Levant, R. F., Hall, R. J., Williams, C. M., & Hasan, N. T. (2009). Gender differences in alexithymia. Psychology of Men & Masculinity, 10(3), 190. Pollack, W. (1998). Real boys. New York: Random House.
You're mixing up things, grabbing from nowhere, study books of psychology from 1940s till 1970s where REAL psychology relays great information.
Just because one study from determined time says something it doesn't mean it holds true, while all modern books of psychology are still based in these books I mention early time, in a congruent strong manner. Only today we mix neuroscience, quantic and science to psychology, but that doesn't study behavior.
Just to mention a lots of people have to die to transform and created all that we know about psychology, science and medicine. If no one believes search for "[scientific/psychological] experiment with humans beings in WWII".
You'll be horrified, but that was necessary for understanding... while today we cannot do the same stuff that was authorized in that time. This is why I reinforce the all studies form last century are stronger in concepts than modern times.
But just to add, neuroscience/physics/quantics are pretty new and very accurate in many areas that probably will substitute psychology and science in the future
Woman are "emotional beings" there's this phrase for a reason. All books of physiology will tell the same, the problem relays in ignorance, THERE IS ALREADY a whole study about woman emotions, written by (scientific) woman, and by (scientific) man, hoewever society still love to think that 1. That mind cannot be studied 2. That humans cannot be studied 3. That psychology cannot reveal answers about us. Well you're all wrong! Go study, open a physiology book from university, go into chapter, "how women's work", study how women's endorphins work compared to man. And take the damn relief to thinking that humans cannot be studied, YES THERE'S IS PLENTY OF RESEARCH ABOUT IT.
Human uses 100% of the brain HOWEVER man operates first from the logical side and it takes too long to reach the emotional while woman reaches the emotional first and takes too long to reach the logical, this is why woman have less cognitive image perception *imagination*. I DID THE TEST, woman are very poor creatures to imagine things, if you don't give details they can barely imagine and hold for too long.
While we as a man, we have lots of imagination because we can imagine without feeling, while woman has to perceive (feel) to imagine, for being able, however woman's feelings are much more stronger than man, this explains why a guy (or guys plays) when he says disgusting things to woman, just experiment the simple one "let's have fun", or tell a murderer story, why do your think woman react extremely bad as opposed to guys when you say "this person have been stripped out from his legs in a car accident", just look her face, a picasso's face, woman can see whatever you say, it's funny but interesting. *not talking about sub communication here*
To know more details about if you're interesting, you need someone expert because even if I can explain something, you will need Jordan Peterson in youtube
And besides I got more than one decade studying and asking *doing experiments with woman*, so I know well, however there's plenty of misinterpretations from both sex.
Both men and women have the ability to experience the same range of emotions. Women can openly express any emotion, which helps to process and deal with said emotion. It leaves them open and vulnerable to the next. Most men internalize emotions, processing and dealing with them on their own. It tends to make the other less insignificant emotions to not have a chance to effect them like they do women. That's why women are seen as over emotional. Men distant themselves and have many outlets for their emotions. But It's more of a distraction, to dissociate from what they are feeling. Internalizing every damn emotion is not easy and frustrating so avoidance is key. Is it healthy? Probably not but they have a lot of expectations they have to deal with and usually on their own. And all the built up emotions will come out in anger and can be triggered very easily. I honestly think that it's actually most women who don't understand the complexity of men's emotions and not the other way around. But that's just my opinion.
Thank you! 👏👏 society deemed our emotions to have negative value, so we pretend they don't exist so we can keep our societal value as high as possible.
Yes exactly. And sadly, tbh it took me having no other option but to internalize and deal with my emotions on my own to even understand. My perspective before being this way was completely skewed by the fact that I could openly express my emotions. I can say I 100% took that for granted. I completely understand why it's hard to even express yourself to a SO. I'd rather just go on long drives blaring my music than express them. Being shamed for having emotions based on other's expectations definitely changes a person in an ingrained, unchangeable way. I have much more respect and admiration for men in general nowadays.
I am glad you understand and can relate, but also I am kind of saddened by it. It's like when you want revenge but then when you get it you just feel guilty because you know you should be better than this. I admit that I want women to understand why men struggle with expressing emotions, but at the same time I don't want anyone to suffer, I just wish the world would come together so we could find a way to lift everybody up equally. I hope you can find people you trust and start to open up again. I'd like to tell you to just get over what others think, be yourself and express how you feel regardless of what others say, but I think it's wrong to give advice that you yourself can't follow.
I know exactly what you mean. Like you want to be like "See? Not so great is it, how do you like it?" In all honesty it utterly breaks my heart that men suffer this way for all their lives especially with expectations from every direction. I've only been dealing with it all of 2 years and I feel like screaming and punching through a wall. And since I'm a single mom I have 2 tiny humans that solely depend on me, so I even have the family responsibility and better job/more money expectations weighing on me as well. It's even more of a reason not to open up though. I can't depend on anyone else, it's just too risky and unacceptable. It definitely is more of a struggle than I ever realized and sorry doesn't even feel adequate enough. Men are without a doubt physically, emotionally, and mentally way stronger than women. They didn't have a choice. And I wholeheartedly agree with you that women need to understand. But sadly in order for that to truly happen, they would have to suffer and I just can't wish this on anyone else. Plus I can't be the only female who had to man up (Damn! If that isn't just completely accurate) from no other choice.
I wish the world was like that as well. I really do. I hate all this hatred and finger pointing. It's just sad. Thank you by the way, I appreciate that. When it's your own family or anyone you've ever thought cared, it makes trusting not even a possibility. I'm still in the process of trying to find my true self. But I'm honestly ok. I keep my head down and do what I have to. Try to help others... I thought it was shocking how men could be so kind and considerate of women after all they've suffered... but it's very humbling isn't it? You're a very kind and caring human being. The world needs more people like you hun.
It depends on how you define "emotional." Women are often more emotional when expressing colder and softer emotions such as sadness, compassion, and being able to cry in public. Men tend to be more emotional when expressing hotter and harder emotions such as anger and tend to make more drastic and irrational decisions based on their anger. The reason is because it's more socially acceptable for women to express their feelings and cry and for men to be tough. Overall, it's safe to say that men and women are probably equally emotional as us humans are emotional creatures, but both genders just express it in different ways.
I don't nesecerilly think girls are more emotional some are definitely. But I do think girls are more open and show their emotions more than girls
From my personal experience guys show rage and negative emotions more transforming those emotions into physical actions. Men are known for bottling but there feelings.
Whereas as a generalisation girls often calmer. As talk about there feelings with their friends.
Also in terms of emotional comparasion with break ups... Women generally find it easier to get over break ups as many have close friendship groups. Whereas men generally don't have that as much.
So to sum up I think men and women are roughly equally emotionally. Maybe from personal experience women slightly more because of their period and getting pregnant as they get maternal feelings and emotions. Men would get maternal emotions for being a parents but I guess women may slightly more as the baby grows inside them and they give birth to them. This is just my opinion.
Well your question brought me to do a fair bit of research before coming to an actual conclusion. I myself always thought of girls as more emotional and men as more logical.
But in every scientific article I read, they deem that to be a myth. Amygdala (the part of the brain responsible for emotions) responses in both males and females show inconsistent differences, meaning it varies based on the individual. They did notice that men have a larger response to positive stimuli and women have a larger response to negative stimuli. Men also seem to have a larger positive effect from erotica (porn) as opposed to their female counterparts. Makes sense haha. We are the hornier sex for sure.
All in all, I'm going to have to change my thinking on that. However, this subject caused me to do a little more research. Are males actually more logical than females? And apparently that's not the case either. It seems that females are actually generally better in that regard, whereas males are better in physical coordination/motor skills and spatial sense generally.
It’s a myth. What happens is guys usually pull some nasty tricks like word salading the girl (this is where they suddenly make a bunch of statements that do not go together to deliberately confuse the girl to gain power in the argument, a common tactic by narcissists), to provoke her. When the girl reacts by yelling etc because he has pushed her to her limit (this occurs over many months gradually so when people see the girl finally lose it they believe she’s the emotional one/abuser) once the girl is at her limit the guy plays victim and does what’s called a smear campaign on her where he tells people how hard his last relationship was, how much of a bitch she was, etc. my first ex probably constantly does this about me. 😂😂
The average woman is more emotionally volatile than the average guy.
How often do you hear a girl talk about something they did that was negative, by defending it after by saying "but I was mad"?
How often do you hear guys do that?
How many times have you seen a girl radically change how she treats a man solely on the basis of "how he makes me feel"?
You hear girls commonly talk about breakups on the basis of just not being happy anymore (feelings). More often than not for a guy he's usually talking about something that happened that ended the relationship.
Sure, guys have emotion and yes it sometimes manifests differently. But on average women are far more emotional at a baseline and everyone honest with themselves knows that.
Love women as they are, not for what you want them to be. If you can't do that, then you don't really like women. You hate women because you can't accept them as they are.
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Everyone differs. Also, just because someone handles their emotions differently, doesn’t mean the are more or less “emotional”. Findings in studies:
Men with high testosterone have been found to show more aggression and less emotional regulation.
Women tend to have access to more emotional regulation strategies than men.
Women tend to blame themselves more for uncontrollable situations, and send to use social support more than men.
Men tend to use suppression and denial more often then women. Men use more avoidant and withdrawal strategies in situations they potentially view as less controllable.
Men and women both feel emotions, however men usually have to overcome letting emotions have the best of them and women take tend to act on their emotions more freely, and because of women's natural fluctuations in hormones how we feel emotions and react to them can also change throughout the cycle. None of them are inherently bad things on their own as both of them have their own importance in a functional society.
The boys that you speak of have been raised poorly to have certain expectations of how women would respond to their advances and they don't know how to react when things don't go the way that they wanted.
I honestly think men's emotional volatility is because of societal pressure on them to be emotionless, tough and strong to the point that they literally just snap. Like all the time.
Women however aren't afraid to just be upset when something upsets them, most of the time. We understand our feelings and try to process them healthily where men might feel trapped that they can't or they'll be weak.
What I see more than anything is that although women might "cry" at everything men constantly lock up and become very short and grumpy when you can clearly see them in some sort of emotional discomfort. E. g. my friend's boyfriend always saying "it's fine, mhm, K then" when they're having an argument.
You probably haven't seen many women getting rejected so it's hard to compare that between men and women. Personally, I think boys are more emotional, women initiate the majority of breakups/divorces, the average man is almost 4 times more likely to kill himself than the average woman, a divorced man is significantly more likely to kill himself than the average man. Divorced men twice as likely to commit suicide when compared to married men, with women there is no significant difference between married and divorced, when it comes to suicide statistics. This could just prove men don't get the emotional support they need, but regardless I think it shows that men are more emotional than we (society) give them credit for.
I think you've misinterpreted the suicide stats for men, men are 4 times more likely to be successful with suicide as they choose more lethal methods than women do (natural predisposition towards violence on average)
That's what I said, men are nearly 4 times more likely to COMMIT suicide. Women are more likely to attempt suicide. According to BMC psychiatry's 2017 study, women make less serious suicide attempts than men. Now to be fair I'm not making light of female suicide, nor am I saying this makes up the difference in suicide attempts (there are probably more factors playing into this), I'm just pointing out the facts.
Your literal entire take is that men are move violent and that's why we're successful at suicide? Nice, sweep the problem under the rug and then victim blame men for being violent! *sarcasm*
If men are more successful at suicide due to violence then does that mean women are to gentle/weak for suicide? (This is the dumbest point I've made in a long time, I'm just trying to show you the reverse of the "men are just more violent" argument. If men are better at suicide because of violence then women are bad at it due to lack of violence, aka gentleness and weakness.)
Look bitch do you really need to start a fight over male suicide? I want so badly to get along with people like you but you hate men so much that it's impossible. I don't get why the same people fighting for equality, protections, and rights for women are also fighting against equality, protections, and rights for men. How can you not see the hypocrisy? Why can't we be friends and work together to make the world a better place for both genders? You just attack and attack because I dare to speak up about male suicide. You think men should be oppressed into silence, you are a part of the reason why men are afraid to share their feelings, you are part of the problem.
On average globally, 1 man dies every minute from suicide. Men make up about 78% of suicide deaths globally. I just don't get why equality for men is a hot take.
Holy shit you're a bit touchy. I'm not even a modern day feminist, I just pointed out that men make suicide based on their natural predisposition to be physically aggressive rather than emotionally aggressive like women. ON AGGREGATE. Maybe if you learnt to read between the lines you'd see I said on average which means roughly men are more violent than women. The fact that you interpreted it as "All men are violent rapists" is your own problem. And yes I agree women are on average weaker than men. It's called evolutionary biology and it doesn't make me go on a pissy rage like it does to you.
Yeah, I get a bit touchy when women get all nit picky about suicide statistics because they just want to label women as the victims. I'm tired of bringing up the suicide statistics and being told, "but women attempt it more so that doesn't matter". Men being victims doesn't make you any less of a victim, men can be victims too and we can focus on men's problems sometimes. I'm not saying we always should, but I'm tired of being told that men's problems aren't important enough. How'd you like it if you were quoting some rape statistics and I walked in like "ackchyually, one in four girls will be sexually abused before they turn 18 and it's because of their natural predisposition to moodswings.", the statistic is a real one, but it is clear that I am trying to pick a fight because why else would the predisposition nonsense be important? Just to generalize an entire gender, downplay their struggles, and victim blame them for committing suicide.
Yeah and on AGGREGATE, women have a natural predisposition to be weak, angry, and hormonal, which makes them more likely to become housewives. Maybe if you read between the lines you'll see how this isn't offensive.
So you don't think men and women are equal, yet you want equality... why?
I don't get why you'd even respond with something like that tbh, why are women offended and/or scared by men potentially being victims too? It doesn't make you any less of a victim if I am also a victim.
When tf did I say men can't be victims? Of course men and women can both be victims, what a stupid supposition to even make. I was just relating it back to the question that it is not suppressed emotions that make men have successful suicides rather their all or nothing approach to it whereas women don't fully commit to it and are afraid of pain more. This is a biological matter, not a sociological question.
Ah, good to know that we don't have emotional problems of any kind. I'm glad you understand male emotions so well!
If you really want to go down this road then fine, let's go for a stroll. I don't mind being told again how little my feeling matter, I think I'm moving past the part in my life where I give a fuck how people like you feel about my feelings. So why don't I start by asking you a couple of questions, how have I misinterpreted suicide statistics for men? The statistic you read off is literally the same as the one I mentioned. Men are 4x more likely to commit suicide, what's wrong with that? Or are you merely debating that the only reason why they do it is because they're violent? What's your point here? Cause I really don't understand if you are generalizing or victim blaming (you're saying it's the man's fault he died because he is violent).
You didn't say men can't be victims, other women did, I'm just annoyed to even go through this conversation again. Women always confront me when I try to say bring up statistics that make men look like victims or make men look like we suffer too. You wanna guess at the percentage of men vs women who die in workplace accidents every year? You gunna blame that on violence too? Women seem to want to blame everything on toxic masculinity these days.
So do you think that men don't have suppressed or emotions? Or do you think suppressed emotions don't play a part in suicide attempts?
Women don't commit to it? What do you mean? Like they only give it a half assed attempt because they don't actuslly want to die, yet we are supposed to value this equally with a man's corpse being buried?
How do you know the difference is biological rather than sociological?
Yawn, someone is desperate to be a victim here. I don't even think there's a point debating this matter with you since you're pulling the "so you're saying" card at every opportunity. And as a matter of fact I do think men have it harder than women in our current society.
Of course there are biological differences between male and female. It's scientifically proven that women don't handle stress as much and get stressed out easier. So a woman doing the same job as man is likely to be way more stressed than him, for example. There's a reason why for eons men went out to hunt big scary animals while women stayed back near the village, singing cumbya, picking berries and less stressful stuff like that.
"Where I don’t really see girls getting that mad about small things like that" -- When's the last time a boy or man punched your nose inside out and sent you to the hospital? Because that's the kind of power a male can deliver without even trying. The only reason you can even walk down the street is because 99.999% of males allow you to and are in control of what you call rage.
I think girl are more visibly emotional we will cry and vent which is a are way of getting it all out of are system but with men they often bottle it up and rather be alone to deal with their issues and the more sensitive the man is sometimes this kind of coping mechanism can lead to tragic events because they feel they can't talk about there issues because that's not what men do in society mind but things are starting to change and men are slowly becoming more comfortable being emotional and talking about there problems
So basically you're saying men are more emotional but women's emotions are more socially acceptable?
You say we bottle it up, and you're not wrong, but you seem to totally skip over the "why?". Society isn't as accepting of emotional men, when we try to vent, we get told to suck it up and toughen up. It's easy to ignore this because society assumes men can't be oppressed in anyway, but we get emotionally oppressed. When women get offended, it's a real problem that people have to pay attention to, when men get offended, we brush it off and laugh, either assuming it was a joke, or else we make jokes about how that makes them less masculine. When women get hit in public by men (look up the social experiments on this matter) people rush in to help, when it's reversed and women hit men in public, people will assume he fucked up and deserves it, they pretend they saw nothing, and some will even cheer it on, as if beating up men empowers women.
I'd say women and men are about equal when compared emotionally. Women are just "'portrayed" as more emotional because women and men often have different emotional reactions to things. Women are more prone to crying while men are more prone to anger and rage. However for some reason, anger is always set on the back burner of an emotional scale. Even in fictional realms like movies or books when someone storms off in a rage you hear "oh they just need time to cool off" but if someone runs away in tears it's "I better go talk to them"
There isn't any less emotion. It's just being experienced in a different way.
Part of that is imputable to the natural production of estrogens, which is also one of the reasons why during periods of instability, such as menstruations, some of you tend to be lunatic for a period of time. Testosterone is a stabilizer, under that aspect, and you don't generate nearly enough to keep that kind of emotional event under stricter control. Thinking that men don't cry or aren't moved by certain events or depictions is stupid and rather stereotipical. Producing testosterone doesn't make us immune to sadness nor unable to cry. It only makes us more capable of handling our emotional loads.
Boys and girls have the same range of emotions the difference is how we are taught to deal with them. Social norms say that girls are allowed to express their feelings. Whereas boy are considered weak if they show their emotions. Hopefully this will change. The more people educate themselves the more they will be open to questioning social norms and empathizing with those who don’t fit into those outdated norms.
Both men and women are equally emotional. The only thing is that men are hiding their feelings, because men are afraid to comes across as weak. If we are emotional, it can be too much for a girl to handle. Some girls want men to be vulnerable, but if we get vulnerable with a girl, there is a chance it's too much for her and lwill eave you. Some men have experienced this.
Not only are men hiding their feelings, we are also cautious to who we show our feelings to, because our feelings can be a turn off for some girls.
Girls want sensitive men, but not too sensitive. Every men can be too sensitive in a certain situation, just deal with that girls. We are not robots, we have feelings too. Girls, if you can't deal with that, chances are it will be hard for you to find love.
No man is just like Hercules, being fearless in any situation anytime, confident, brave, doesn't cry. Girls, if you want someone like that, good luck finding him.
I would rather make her pissed off than have her loose respect for me. Once she looses respect your relationship is doomed or you better have some grade A seduction techniques to flip the scale
Well I've seen TV shows where a girl cries jus because she's fat and the scale said she's "1stone" higher than what she thought she was... I've seen TV shows where girls cry off winning an X factor audition... I've seen girls cry over anything and everything... I can't speak for all guys, but as myself, I can say I rarely ever feel anything or care about anything, I wouldn't even care if my mum died, I'd jus be like oh... N continue my life, I wouldn't even shed a single tear... Nothing really bothers me at all and nothing that happens in life matters to me... Maybe it's jus depression but I've felt like an emotionless robot all my life, I'm more of a analytical thinker than a feeler... I jus see things for what they are rather than feel a certain way about them.. The only emotions I really have is fear if I'm danger... Or anger if someone pisses me off... But I can say with certainty that I've never felt sad or lonely, and Im not even sure I know what love or happiness feels like
There have been times tho where iv "pretended" to be sad or jealous about a girl rejecting me... But that was more of acting than actual feeling... It was just an act to try n make her feel bad n get with me, I don't really care she rejected me.. I mean it does make me feel unworthy and sad... But not like that, jus a slight thought at the back of my mind that I must not be good enough, but not enough to trigger an emotional reaction where I feel like crying or shelling out in rage... I only do that as an act cos I force myself to... I'd jus be like "oh... Ok" and walk away, and that be it if I could, but I don't want a bitch to be let off being a bitch so easy.. if she is rejecting me I want her to had a. hard time at least... Fucking bitch
Maybe girls are the same with me and my "acting more sad than I really am" about getting rejected... Maybe they aren't as emotional as they display in the outside... But are jus drama queens and like to pretend that they're more effected by something than they really are.. would u say that's true? Y'all jus drama queens? Maybe you aren't as emotional as y'all portray to be
I could be, or possibly even a psychopath, I've seen real online murder videos on the internet where other people reacting to these vids are emotionally scarred by it or say they felt a certain way after watching it... Me... I feel completely blank after watching it and it doesn't effect my mood, sure I felt a little bad for the victim being murdered... But not a lot, only slightly
Not bragging either, literally jus describing that that's the way I am... Almost completely emotionless... I thought that was jus part of being a man and that most men are unemotional like me... But maybe I'm wrong
Girls in my learning disabilities college and high school were more emotional and some guys just leave the class. It depends on what you seen or experience. My high school was a learning disabilities and one my female teacher said you should stop ceyin your a young women and women don't cry. This why I always did go in the girls Toliet. The male teacher just let me cry. It was just the female teacher. When I was in college I got the must attention of guys and lot girls always picked on me and did target me.
No it's not true that women are more emotional than men myself I I cry at movies with doggie die and everything else I can't help it I emotional sometimes but there's nothing wrong with it doesn't mean you're a f***** or any night that or anything any less of what you are it means you are a passionate caring human being that's all that means
Have you ever cried at a movie? I haven't. Most men haven't. We experience and express emotions differently.
We're probably more likely to become angry, after all testosterone increases aggression. But in particular a mixture of cortisol (the stress hormone) with testosterone will cause an outburst.
I'm not a biologist so I'm obviously no expert, but this is the common "nature vs. nurture" debare. In my view, and I think most rational people will agree, is that it's a combination of both. Your hormones are what creates your emotions so obviously, different hormones are going to affect how we act, but there are still a lot we don't understand about the ways different chemicals affect us. My experience is that both men and women are emotional but they show it in different ways. How much of that is down to biology and how much is cultural is something we still don't really know.
It's nature mate, Even if I was a girl I wouldn't cry if I gained a lb of fat, but yet the girls on TV cry about it... I don't understand why so many people think men don't cry cos they're scared to show weakness... I don't know what kind of a coward man would hold back tears to look more manly, that's cowardly... I'm brave and if I felt like crying. I would do it right Infront of my whole class... I don't give a fuck what people think
It's just I never feel like crying cos I don't care about anything and nothing bothers me, I didn't even care when my mom died.
Were jus less emotional by nature... Nothing to do with how we was brought up... But if you generally are a more emotional guys and want to cry as much as a girl does... Jus do it.. no one's judging you... No one cares.. not every guy can be a true alpha male with 0 emotions
I was lost once in a train station when I was like 19 trying to meet someone online n didn't know how to get back home
I was scared so I cried right there and then, I didn't give a fuck that I looked like a little boy or baby... jus let em out... That was probably the only time in my life I ever felt like crying
What women dont understand is that all those emotions they are feeling... guys feel them also.. they are just raised in society to handle it differently. we keep it inside. deep down. thats why after a breakup we fuck around to try to ease the pain. Or we just get depressed and it takes much longer to get over a break up.
