Why do girls call me annoying when I don’t say anything?

[GrowingUpFast]

Could any girl please answer this because I know girls know what’s going on. I’m a 16 year old male and while I was in class at school today some girl called me annoying and I couldn’t tell if she was serious or not. I’ve only known her for like a week because school just started but she will mess around with me joke around with me a lot then whenever I do something back she’ll get mad at me and call annoying. But she will laugh at lots of things I say when I’m not even trying to be funny I don’t know if she’s just slaphappy or if the other girl I’m sitting next to makes her laugh. She said something to me as a joke for like the 5th time today so to play right back I took her pencil and told her to apologize and say can I pretty please have my pencil back and said that’s all she has to say to me if she wants her pencil back. She just grabbed the pencil out of my hand and called me annoying as if I made her mad🤷. Like what’s that supposed to mean? She was laughing messing around with me first.

[Nicole234]

Honestly she probably likes you but she’s trying not to be to obvious about it. Too when girls are trying to flirt with a guy they actually like we usually say stupid stuff and mess it up because we are trying to play it cool. At that age girls play hard to get a lot too. Even though she may be giving you the cold shoulder, she probably actually likes you.

[GrowingUpFast]

Somebody sitting next to us said she things we might end up dating in the future because of the way we where messing around. But she told us she already likes someone and showed us a picture of him. I respect her opinion so I believe her.

[Nicole234]

Yes, but I say give it sometime. Maybe she wants to get to know you better before making a decision. If things keep going good I would go for it if you really like her. That way you know if you’re wasting your time and you can stop playing the guessing game either way. I hope it works out! 😁

[Weater67]

Because they don’t find you attractive. If you were 6’4”, six figure income, six pack abs. Same guy, same look, the women would be chasing you like Daytona 500.


Returneth thee the favor my brother. Women who do not find you attractive should be completely invisible to you. Just like broke average looking short men who are completely great human beings, are complete invisible to the vast majority of women.

[Waldoe]

she Likes you... she never liked a Boy before and doesn't know how to act... next time you see her just say "I like you too" and walk away

[humanearth]

Girls are weird in their teens. They are nuts at that age

[GrowingUpFast]

Everyone in High School is in one way or another. That’s why dating in High School can be complicated it depends on the person and how you make of it I feel like.

[humanearth]

Thats why I waited to I was done with high school before dating.

[Iron_Man]

Because they are a big talkers and are not used to Silence

[GrowingUpFast]

What exactly do you mean when you said there big talkers? There wasn’t any silence I was in a group of three and we where all talking.

[Iron_Man]

You don’t talk

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

they likely don't like the silent treatment.. done to them

[GrowingUpFast]

I’m not ignoring anyone I talk when it’s appropriate.

[Sketti2021]

Everyone can be annoying, she's probably moody

[GrowingUpFast]

She did say she was super hungry🤷

[GrowingUpFast]

Because she doesn’t have lunch Hour. So I gave her some snacks at the last class of the day because that’s the only hour I see her in. She said she was very hungry again then I asked her how was the snacks I gave her and she said she didn’t eat them and throw them away😭I’d give anyone snakes if they didn’t have a lunch hour before eating lunch is kinda important

[Anonymous]

Chicks are just moody bitches sometimes. It's not your fault. Don't take it personally...

[Anonymous]

She sounds like a bimbette