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It's isn't a requirement for girls to cook, but when I looking for a girl I definitely want her to know how to cook or at least be interested in cooking because in the future I want to cook delicious food and desserts with my future girl.
So yes it's a basic skill to have, what happened if you go hungry you better know how to work the stove or microwave.
A life requirement skill for all. I do dislike cooking though.. so much effort and gone in a matter of moments.
Only to the extent that it is important for anyone to be able to read and follow simple written instructions.
It's a BIG NEGATIVE if she can't cook. Usually, I find out it is actually she WON'T cook, which is even worse.
It’s important for all adults to know how to cook something.
I think it's important for anyone to know how to cook at least basic meals, women included it's a basic life skill.
Everyone should know how to cook as an adult or at least be able to follow directions for recipes
I'll ditto that one
Everyone -- male and female -- should know how to cook.
So because we’re equal you can be less of what we want?
It's an important skill to learn, especially if you live on your own or have a family. There's really no good excuse on someone not knowing how to boil water or use an oven.
Yes. If she can’t cook then that’s a dealbreaker. I’m a chef and work mad hours so I won’t be doing much cooking at home save for a weekend or special occasion. If she can’t cook then I’m out
A girl who can’t cook can learn. A girl who won’t cook is worthless. I’m a man, I can cook and like to, because I like to eat good food. It’s a basic life skill.
What is important is that a) you get along with knives (means you won't kill each other), b) that you can cook together (create a child that you can feed/move around with in the kitchen), c) I am too drunk to type further
I don't care if a girl can't cook, heck I can show her how to cook 🥰😘😜😋👍
It is important for a woman to take care of herself and care about what she eats
I can cook my grandma taught me , but refuse to cook for a man whose not my HUSBAND.
you that particular with your body as well?
Yes because I actually want MARRIAGE
Good on you. Most dont now a days
Should guys say refuse to spend money on women not their WIFE?
Yes most definitely
Why should a man spend money on a woman that’s not his wife? I don’t ask men for money
Probably not you can just hire someone to cook meals for your girlfriend. And hire a girl to have sex for your girlfriend too.
All people should know how to cook! If they dont know they should learn.
Every adult and teenager should be able to cook. so yes.
I think it's a fair requirement for adults I'm general.
I suck at it though.
Ya just don't make it an obsession where you turn into a little fatty from making cupcakes and sugary shit.
Everyone should know how to cook, but sadly that is not always the case. I've met women whose idea of what cooking is, is microwaving instant dinners, or putting hot water to instant ramen
A mans heart is through his stomach I live in South Asia. Guys come here and have sex with Asian girls and run.
And you’ll see none of them know anything they can’t even make a tea
It is important for everyone to know how to cook. Chances are good you will be single at some point in your life... and if you are single with a child... who will cook?
A human being should know how to cook for themselves, regardless of gender. It’s a fucking survival skill.
If you want to eat, then you better learn how to cook.
I think it’s important for both men and women to know how to cook.
Everyone should know how to cook, it's part of being an adult.
I don't consider women to be on an equal footing with me. I bring much more to a relationship then most women. If she wants to last after her looks quickly fade then she will contribute much more than you think is necessary
I have always broken up with women as they aged to the point where they weren't giving me as much as they were getting
Yes it's important, but important for everyone to cook. Even better a couple works as a team helping each other cooking.
It's important for everyone to know how to cook. I'm not saying everyone should be a gourmet chef, but you should know how to cook a decent healthy meal.
No but I’m glad my girlfriend knows how to cook because sometimes I don’t feel like cooking but most times we cook together we are both pretty good cooks
It's basic life skill, not just for girl but everyone
Everybody should learn how to cook irrespective of gender
Not because she's a girl but as a means of being self sufficient.
No because eating raw is 100% healtier then cooked food, I'm a vegetarian.
It is important for ANY person to know how to cook. How boring if you don’t.
Cooking is fun and easy. I think it's important for girls to enjoy cooking :)
Absolutely, when a woman can't cook, she can't keep a man. At least not a high value one.
A high-value man isn't worried about that. They just want a woman who is willing and wants to love them. As long as she is willing to learn to cook, he is not worried about that. You need to learn to cook yourself. She is not somebody for you to order around and disrespect her. Don't shame women for not knowing anything. You encourage them. Not shame them. Then when you get shamed, you want to scream how you're not enough. There are plenty of men who would love a woman be if she can or cannot. And she can keep a man. She isn't married to you, so stop making it out your willing to be kept if you already said you don't.
How would you know?
Because I met them and they are married and are truly wonderful parents, they may not have much money, they love their wives and some of their wives didn't cook then and they do now. They've been married for years and some just got married and have a little one of their own. Many have occupations as teachers and went to college. All of them met their spouses as friends and they met in church.
Those people are my friends.
So you're saying that cooking is a nessecary skill she picked up.
Got it.
And I have encountered men who have done the same with their wives. I personally know a couple who have the money as upper-middle towards rich and they treated their wives just the same. I also know because many of those high-value men are in my family on my late mom's side. They had women from the ground up, started from the ground up and their came from families who raised all of their children, both the girls AND the boys how to cook, how to sow, and to work, how to clean, handle groceries, braid hair, medical and YES, even bookkeeping. All of them have found wonderful spouses and have greatgrand children and great grand. Many of them are my adult family members. They are VERY respectful, especially the gentlemen. Always loved to be around me and respected me and my late mother.
No. What I am saying is that cooking is for everybody to have. It is a necessary skill EVERY person and human being needs to learn. You don't necessarily need to be a good cook to be married, let alone keep one. Most people do not learn practical skills until marriage anyway. It is a matter of WILLINGNESS to be together. That is the point of marriage and procreation. Marriage is however way you make it. And if a woman who can cook is your requirement. That is fine. Don't push that on other men who may not agree with you.
People who truly value and love YOU for YOU aren't based on those restrictions. It is a necessity in order to live and survive. It isn't a standard for marriage. Because you will find in some cultures, it is the men who do the cooking. You must be mindful of people's backgrounds and respect them. While I do cook, I too suffer from asthma and other health issues and am tired all day. So it would be refreshing and more attractive for me to see a man like my grandpa and men in my family doing and helping around the house too. Women in my family have always appreciated a man who can do a woman's business and not feel above it. Men with pride are not attractive to women in my family. And yes, while we do adapt modernly, we are VERY much traditional. Just that some of us like my mom have intermingled in families that don't believe in traditional standards. Which is another reason why I would never make that same mistake and marry if I wanted, a man who shares the same traditional values. Even my grandpa always took me out on "dates" and never made me pay. His desire what I just found out was that he wanted to live long enough to see me married on my wedding day. But he never judged me. He knows a lot of men are not good men. I weap if anything that I cannot provide that for him.
People value you when you add value to thier lives.
That is it.
And why would I want to be with people who never wanted to value me in the first place? I share regardless if you add value to me or not. I don't want to be with selfish people and you want to know why so many of you don't have partners.
So according to you, you are only valuable if you are usable? So what makes you useful? Remember in this day in age, anything you think you can provide I can for me also.
No wonder why you people are miserable. If you want to be used by others, go ahead. I don't.
Who hurt you?
Like I said. Men like you who are so unhappy and make tasteless opinions and comments like this.
Let me guess, you can't cook! 🤣
If you read my original opinion you should know I can cook. Japanese Beef curry being my too favorite. And you bet I wouldn't cook for guys or marry a man with your attitude. Sayounara!
Then what good are you? 🤣
And this is why you're single. What good are YOU? You obviously don't have anything to bring to the table except you whining about what a woman ain't doing anything for you.
Honey, because I have no use for you doesn't mean I am single.
I'm 6'1", financially independent, own my own company and live on a yacht, i am dating 5 different women right now, all of whom are absolutely amazing, intelligent, sweet and kind.
I thank my lucky stars when I wake up every morning that I live the life I am.
Also that I didn't get stuck with someone like you!
You're just an angry bitter human with a bleak future full of loneliness that will be brought on by your attitude and the fact that you ooze hate out of your pores.
I don't care if you are 6'1, financially stable, own a company or a yacht, and you dating 5 different women. I don't have hate. You just pissed somebody like me can see behind your fake self. The very woman you have is who I am. I just don't fall for your BS. And I am not lonely or alone. I have people I can count on and God is in control of my future. Worldly men like yourself can never satifiy. If God wants me with a husband. It would be a humble one. Not a joke like yourself.
You are the one who is lonely. That is why you have 5 women, can't even pick one. Did you pay them to cash in the Philippians using them as whores? Great way to live. Sarcasm. All it tells me is that you're spiritually bankrupt. When you die, you're not taking those things with you. Nothing to offer.
"You're just an angry bitter human with a bleak future full of loneliness that will be brought on by your attitude and the fact that you ooze hate out of your pores." What happy person speaks so ill and full of bitterness and hatred towards somebody else? Bless those who curse you. You trying to curse me says how very miserable you actually are and you are too much of a coward to admit that. I can easily gain what you have. You wouldn't be the only man who has and doesn't have a nasty and sexist attitude towards women. If you have to have 5 different women, it says you are not as so stable as you think. It says you fail at relationships and you hide behind your money, status, and accomplishments for what you already lack. A true human connection and relationships. I'm too smart for you, not speaking in vanity, but the truth, and you're below my level. I am not attracted to tall men anyway as a petite 5'3 woman. Enjoy your hoes.
I know people who have all of that and then some. You are not that special as you make yourself it to be and your that insecure as a man. And you cannot keep a woman yourself which is why you have 5 instead of 1 woman to be your wife. So while you may have money, you live in a fantasy. You are not the type of guy worth investing in. Men like yourselves are a turnoff.
Sorry hon, not gonna bother with your feeble attempts at gas lighting in your wall of text here.
Send my regards to your cats. 🐈🐈🐈🐈🐈🐈🐈🐈🐈🐈🐈🐈🐈🐈🐈🐈🐈
Gaslight? I guess that's why you took hours to reply back. My dogs are more honest than you. Please go somewhere.
You can't hurt me with those cat's comments it doesn't phase me. You've been exposed and found out. Nice try and behaving like you are not insecure. Guys like you are not worth my time.
Yet here you are begging for more of my attention desprate to score a point.
I don't CARE about your attention. No offense you're annoying! You can't stand having yourself being challenged and then you want to start mocking people. So please! You showed who you actually are.
You're still here?
Not really, all that's important is she loves me and tries her best to be there
It’s important that she knows lots of things. But also important a guy knows lots of things. All a part of growing up
Most men I know cook MUCH better than the women I know. Most modern women need a GPS just to find the kitchen.
Maybe you should find a better group of people to hang around lol I am a modern woman and cook very well thank you very much. My mother is still proud and tells her friend about how I baked a cake from scratch all by my self when I was 7 years old lol
She needs to be a good cook and also know how to manage basic households.
People in general should know how to cook. If you don’t by the age of 20, it’s pretty embarrassing.
Yes unless you both want to eat McDonald’s for the rest of your life
It doesn't matter much to me because i can cook almost like a chief.
but if a girl can cook or wants to learn how to cook, it'll be a bonding experience 😋
Everyone should know how to cook well.
I would say especially men.
Of course.
A good woman cooks , cleans , and makes great sandwiches.
I would prefer her to be able to make basic things just so she isn't relying on me to cook everything.
I would say yes, but I've usually done the cooking, grilling, etc. Some girls, females, women whatever suck at these "learning experiences".
It's extremely important, she needs to eat doesn't she? I think it's important that everyone should learn to cook.
ency on othersI believe it helps if everyone is able to take care of themselves. Instead of dependingency on others. Unless they are unable physically or mentally.
Would you seriously date a man who "requires" you to cook?
A Girl should know how to cook , its one of the most basic survival strategy techniques.
If I'm going to marry her it is. Eating food a girl made for you is so indescribably pleasant.
It's not a requirement but it's a wonderful quality
Yes it's absolutely a requirement for the woman of the house to cook for the man of the house.
Yes. Everyone should know how to cook basic food recipes.
I mean i would like for her to know but if not I don't mind doing it
Yes every girl should know to cook just as how every man should provide for his family