I know how to cook so I wouldn't have been with someone that does not also know how to cook. That is a basic life skill. Not knowing how to cook is up there with not knowing how to do laundry or not knowing how to tie your shoes. You don't need to be able to make 5 star dishes. Every person that eats meat or otherwise should know how to make 2 good chicken dishes (alfredo for example) that is easy as hell in the states. Boil pasta. Sauté onions, garlic, broccoli, tomatoes. Add a little salt and pepper. Once it has caramelized (little goldish brown round the edges) add a splash or red or white wine. Leave for a min add heavy cream. Once it bubbles into the middle add pasta, parm cheese and flip or stir. Serve. Takes maybe 20 minutes can add some chicken for protein can also do steak or other red meat. Second a steak. They aren't hard it is seasoning, meat, grill. Grill for temp you want or your guests. 3rd some type of stir-fry or stir-fry adjacent. My wife is a vegetarian so I do sautéed vegetables a sprinkle of cayenne for a light zing, salt, pepper, cumin, rosemary, and thyme for seasoning. Once it is just about done a splash of wine and rice for starch. Can also do mashed potatoes. 4th 1 type of fish unimportant which type but learn to do it pan seared and on the grill. And lastly any and I mean any of 3 different soups or stews. I presume everyone can find their way around making a salad. You do that and you will find you can cook anything with minor adjustments to seasoning, flavors, items. You will save a fortune on dining coats or to go costs which most people likely need nowadays
Anybody can cook if they put their mind to it and follow a recipie. I can cook and I want her to be able to as well.
So many people today live off fast food which is so unhealthy because they are too lazy to cook. It's why there is suck an epidemic of overweight people and such a high rate if heart disease and diabetes.
I start my day with a cooked breakfast before I head off to work and which ever one of us is home first at night, cooks supper.
It's now 3am and I am up getting ready for work. I will start cooking my breakfast shortly. Scrambled egg whites with back bacon on a wrap with a bit if salsa and a yogurt. Coffee for the road.
s I would like if he knew how to cook at least basic meals. Being able to cook is an important skill regardless of gender.
However, if he wants to spoil me with food, I'm ready for it. 😂😂
They'd have to know how to cook. I can only do simple things, so they should be better than me. Or at least leveled up than me. Until then, I'll just keep learning to cook more recipes.
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Ideally, I'd want her to at least be able to cook basic things, but it's not important if she doesn't know how to cook. I can cook for the both of us, but it'd be nice if she's willing to learn. I like cooking together and nothing says "I love you", and that you care, more than making an effort to make a meal for someone, or to make one together. Ultimately, it's not a deal breaker, but a little ambition and initiative is also attractive.
u My fiancee is from China and prefers Chinese style of cooking. I do not. If she wants to eat her food, it is important for her to be able to cook. . . and she can, very well. If I want to eat standard American carnivore food, it is important for me to be able to cook. . . and I can, very well.
I'm a damn good cook and I enjoy doing it. I also really like 'cooking dates' where we both pick a recipe, shop for the ingredients and cook together. Sometimes I'll be chef de cuisine and she'll be sous chef or vice versa if she's better at a specific dish or technique. Sometimes we may choose a really complicated multi-day preparation and we both learn a ton while having fun creating mouth watering meals.
u It’s important to me because for me always getting takeout food and eating in restaurants is nice but there’s nothing like homemade cooked food. But I do enjoy that and I would continue doing that eating in restaurants and getting takeout food I just need a break once in a while and to have a home-cooked meal. Sure would be nice
I kinda like cooking so it's not a huge disaster if she doesn't do it supremely well, but I just gotta say there's truth in the old saying 'the way to a man's heart is through his stomach'. And I've also experienced an odd feeling of comfort and joy when receiving food cooked by a woman. I'm also easy to please, I like simple hearty food like stews, casseroles, curries, pies, meat and potatoes, etc.
It is good if they can and like to cook but not a deal breaker if they don't.
As long as you are not so inept you'd starve to death.
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"I'd date someone who was at least willing to learn to cook"
I voted A. I enjoy cooking good food and am a pretty good cook myself, and I want a women who shares my interest. But I have yet to date a woman who knew how to cook anything but very basic food. I may end up single, but I'll at least eat well.
I care about the long term, so if she's never cooked before but she's willing to learn thats fine. My parents also couldn't cook at the beginning and they are great at it now.
As a man I can't hop on tinder and and date dozen of ladies who will take me out to dinner lunch etc, serial daters dinner whores dont need to know how to cook, SIMP men will take her to dinner, so its men who out of necessity have to know how to cook because the buck & frypan stops with him
If they were willing to learn how to cook at least simple things for themselves, then they wouldn't rely on me to be their cook. Therefore, willing to learn isn't a dealbreaker.
you gotta be willing to learn and already know how to cook basic shit lol stuff a kid would already know
like eggs, toast, grilled cheese sandwich, spaghetti, and stuff like that
Cooking isn’t for everyone & a lot of people can’t cook but on the other hand some people can cook & if I were in a relationship & my girlfriend couldn’t cook it wouldn’t bother me.
In general, it doesn't matter... I can cook... but I hate it... so if he could cover cooking, I can do laundry :P
Since I'm not much of a cook myself I wouldn't say it's a deal breaker as long as their willing to learn with me.
They should know how to cook basic things and be willing to learn, but they don't have to be good. There are some things you should just know in life.
It is not important at all. As long as they can do the basics like I do and as long as they do not except me to cook for them.
He knows how to cook, which is nice. The cuisine is not my type, but I appreciate the efforts and thoughts all the way up!
never put much thought into it since we were young when we met but he loves to cook so i guess that solved it before i even knew it lol
That would be pretty nice. I am learning how to cook, so would be nice if he cooked for me or with me too sometimes.
I love to cook so I happily cook for him but if we both have to work it would be good if he could do basic stuff.
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