Why does this girl suddenly act totally uninterested?

[Anonymous]

So I met a girl for the first time at uni last week, and we were talking for almost 2 hours. Turned out we shared some interests like playing guitar or being vegetarian. I even asked her is she would want to play guitar together, to which she replied "anytime!"
Overall, I felt that the conversation went really well.
Another day later I tried to sit next to her and start a conversation. However she was only talking to her friend, and I couldn't make my way into it. I tried a few times, but gave up on it eventually. They never tried to involve me in any way.
This week I sat next to her in another lecture and tried to start conversing, but she only gave me one word replies and seemed to put no effort into it. I mentioned how I had 4 hours of free time inbetween lectures (We both commute to the university, and it's not really worth going home for that time. So we both have a lot of time to kill), but she just said "how annyoing". When I asked what she's about to do, she said that she will meet up with a friend.
This morning I saw her at the train station, but she didn't even greet me and sat herself far away from me.
Now I am wondering what on earth happened and how I should behave.
I feel like my perception must have been wrong. I assumed we got along well, and now she seems to be completly uninterested. What happened, or what did I do wrong I wonder.
Should I straight out confront her, or should I got silent aswell and not chase after her?
Because casually starting a conversation doesen't seem to work at all.
Why would someone behave this way?

[crazy8000]

Stop going for those losers that don't show interest and stop chasing them if they doesn't take initiative if you already have taken first initiative.

I guess you aren't that good with planting seeds in their subconscious that will create interest and make her trying to get more of you without you doing almost nothing.

If you really want to know just walk up and ask her if she is interested in you, just don't forget to tell her first that you are interested in her before asking if she is in you, then ask her out on a date if she doesn't turn you down.
Running around in circles like you do rarely works.

The faster you get it over with it, the faster you can move on with someone else if she isn't interested.

[ThumbJack]

Hey man!
Common experience man, nothing wrong with you or her.
It’s great that you guys hit it off well the first time, but you got too comfortable and started expecting something from a brand new person you never met. Before that day. I’m not saying you can’t get your hopes up and get excited meeting a cutie in campus, but when you’re getting to know someone, pay attention to stuff like boundaries. If you think she is acting funny, don’t “confront her” lol just talk to her. Maybe text if you got her number. But if not be cool and say hi and let her talk to you if she wants but be around. Maybe she felt like you were coming off to strong. Maybe she is going through stuff and you’re not the first thing in her mind when she’s with you. You never know.

Say hi, be open to conversation but don’t push or pry. Then you can ask her how’s she been doing.

Getting to know people is a slower process for some so maybe she is like that

[Asker]

I know, and that's what I wanted to do. But when I tried to open a conversation she gave me really short one word replies. Guess I'll try again

[jennifer_bloom]

My theory is she does not want to date you for some reason or she liked you but it never broke the friendship barrier for her because that has happened to me before where I like somebody a lot but not enough to date them because my interest is too superficial or not deep enough and a girl might reject a guy she likes for financial reasons, racial reasons, religious reasons or ex boyfriend reasons. Just because a girl likes you, does not mean she wants to date you.

[Asker]

The thing is, I never asked her for a date. I just tried to casually start a conversation

[coolcactus]

You seem like a nice guy but she must’ve felt something wrong when you first talked as she became very distant in your other meetings. Instead of being perceived as friendly, she perceived you as clingy since you kept trying to intervene in her conversations with her friend. You shouldn’t have done that, always get a sign of invitation first. It’s okay though, there’s so many people in the world that will like you for you :)

[Asker]

I asked for her friends name, and I asked them what they were talking about once, that's it. So I didn't try to "keep intervening"

[shayes904]

It’s like texting. If you send her a message once and she doesn’t respond, then maybe she didn’t get the message, but if you send her a message twice and she doesn’t respond, its you that didn’t get the message.


Broken down, she is clearly sending signals that she is not interested. Find someone that you like who is.

[Anonymous]

I think you should leave her alone for awhile and observe her reaction


if she’s playing mind games, she will start to panic. And will start to reach out.


If she is not interested, then not much reaction then u can move on

[kc_4308]

Playing mind games and or not available rather then her telling you she’s not interested she is giving you the cold shoulder. I’d move on because maybe she’s not available or she’s playing games.

[dustybiker]

She could have been nice enough to end things a bit clearer with you if she has a problem, but clearly not respectful enough. It’s cowardly when anyone does that. Her loss.
Find someone new.

[t-8900]

Yeah you read way too much into things. Don't bother her or you're gonna be the creep she uses as an example to not be nice to guys again. Just get exposed to the world a bit more and just explore.

[Avicenna]

Stuff like that happens all the time. She was never interested, she just had a nice convo with you.

[melanieeeB]

Cause she is not into you and has no interest.. duhh

[CallmeTheKnight]

She's not interested if she's making a complete effort to avoid you and ignore you. Don't force conversations bro, leave her be. If she comes around, then you'll know it was all game

[DarkWinterNights]

She either changed her mind or was never interested in that way. I would just move on. Sorry man.

[m33lad]

You’re too much of beta.. she wants a man. And you’re acting like a girl. Hate to tel you straight. She was interested in you until you opened your mouth. Haha
You’re a beta guy.
That chick I would’ve been banging her the same night.

[Laura456]

Don't chase. Maybe she has a boyfriend. She either doesn't like you or she's playing hard to get.

[Dratchild]

Yeah clearly not worth it. If you try to continue talking to her, you'll probably scare her

[Grubhub]

Your salary probably didn’t match her standards. Most women care about money

[Grubhub]

Seriously she didn’t like you enough. It was just a conversation and perhaps meeting a new friend

[whosnumber1]

I would probably move on

[Relux47]

I would just move on man

[Anonymous]

Same with guys they don’t care

[jimmy2]

Her peroid just hit