Girls, Why do you choose men for romantic and sexual relationships?

[quietcuite]

You women are more physically and facially beautiful, aesthetic, charming and sexy too compared to the men , yet why do most of the women choose men for relationship/dating/sex/romance over the other more beautiful, charming and sexy looking women?

If you say it's so because women aren't visual creatures and more emotional even then if you feel emotional connection with another woman you'd prefer her over a male.

Its because we are socially programmed to choose men since our childhood and see others do that

Choose men for social security since it's a male dominated society

Despite men being ugly/lacking beauty/charm they're more useful and have utility to us than other women

Although men are uglier/lack aesthetics they seem more sexually arousing

Men seem more charming and aesthetic as well as sexually pleasing also they provide better emotional connection...( Explain how and why)

I am Bi / lesbian anyways

Updates

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So what say

[CrazyGirl2]

Why do men lack the ability to understand that they are not women, they are not supposed to find men attractive (unless they are gay)?
ALL the things you find attractive in women, we are usually repulsed by, and…
ALL the things you find repulsive in men… WE are usually attracted too! Mainly because we are women, and women and men are different (I know that is an unpopular idea right now, bur DILLIGAF?) Yes, I did mean DILLIGAF!

[quietcuite]

What's this" DILLIGAF"?🧐
Are you serious that the things we men like in women such as smooth nice soft hairless legs/chest/body , curvy body, boobs , thick thighs etc... you don't really like these things? Same about vagina, it's so neat and tidy, cute etc unlike the penis/balls.
Beard /body hair is a useless unwanted ugly mess.

[CrazyGirl2]

DILLIGAF is an acronym for “ Do I Look Like I Give A Fuck. “
And YES! You CLEARLY understand that women (unless they are gay), are NOT attracted to other women, OR all the things that make women attractive to men!

[Ninani]

Because everything about a man is more attractive to me than a woman.

[quietcuite]

Everything? Even the dik or beard or hairy chest?

[Ninani]

Yes.

[Ninani]

Especially the dick!

[quietcuite]

Like the look of dick too or just for its sexual utility?

[Ninani]

Both!

[quietcuite]

Just curious , would men be more sexy and pleasurable if their whole body skin was as soft and hairless as a woman's skin is?

[Ninani]

If he wants to shave and moisturise that's up to him. I couldn't care less.

[quietcuite]

You won't care anyway if he's having shaved moisturized legs , chest and stomach... or he has shag rug carpet on his chest, stomach and very messy hairy legs... they're both similar to you?

[Ninani]

Pretty much, yeah.

[quietcuite]

Shaved smooth balls and shaved pubes or natural hairy balls and bushy pube?

[NicoletteXO]

I choose a man for a relationship because I RESPECT him, and because he is a man of deep integrity.

It just so happens that fairly often, men who garner respect tend to have amassed other attributes, like a great physique, career, intellectual or spiritual wisdom and so on...

But really, it is about whether he is integrity with his core values and principles - if the outward manifestations of his life are a reflection of those.

And also I need a man whose principles reflect some sort of service to the whole.

I cannot be in a relationship with a man I do not respect.

[quietcuite]

So what if whatever you just said above is provided by a woman? Women are more beautiful and aesthetically pleasing than men... wouldn't it be better option?

[NicoletteXO]

Women don't have a dick. I'm not interested in pussy.

[quietcuite]

Even though pussy AND boobs are aesthetically pleasing and nicer to look at and feel?

[NicoletteXO]

I need the D. I already own a pussy and boobs that I can feel whenever I like.

[NicoletteXO]

And I think cocks are just as nice as pussies! They can be quite sculptural. Especially the ones with a curve... mmm

[quietcuite]

Curved🤔😶 yeah? Never witnessed one lol
How about veiny one's?

[NicoletteXO]

I don't mind. As long as it's at least 6in and thick :)

[quietcuite]

Does its colour matters? If it's dark skinned penis?

[NicoletteXO]

Colour doesn't matter if I am into the man!

[quietcuite]

Would it look better if men had rest of the body similar to women but had penis and balls between legsm

[NicoletteXO]

Ewww no!! I like men.

[Babygirl_S]

Because I am attracted to men and I don't think they look worse than women.

[quietcuite]

But the thing is what makes men attractive to you more than the other women? Obviously women ARE MORE aesthetic and charming than men

[Babygirl_S]

Because I am a woman so naturally I am attracted to men. I find men more aesthetic. The women that are considered aesthetic usually have undergone lots of plastic surgeries and use a lot of makeup. I just think most men who are handsome are more natural than the women who are considered beautiful.

[quietcuite]

I am not talking about women who ar considered beautiful or model or something. I am talking about normal real life women. You can see normal generally natural real life women who look really charming beautiful and sexy without much effort. Like they'd be just wearing sleevless top or short top or a skirt or shorts and they look really nice with their beautiful face and nice smooth whitish skin and nice flowing head hair
Also some visible cleavage adds more charm. Men have nothing of this sort. No whitish smooth skinned legs or bare exposed belly etc

[Babygirl_S]

I am not attracted to any of that! I think a hairy chest, muscles etc. look attractive. I even like the hands of certain men.

[quietcuite]

Hands of certain men, as in?
Like a hairy chest? Gosh... what's there to loke in that ugly mess! Ehh. Personally I feel hairy chest/belly or even hairy legs etc is a BIG mistake by nature. Women aren't given any of those why make men's body and chest/gave unecessarily hairy mess.. it's useless and it's a menace to shave whole body regularly just to get smooth skin which women naturally have.
What's in a hairy chest or legs? I am wondering...

[Babygirl_S]

I am attracted to that and I can't do anything about it.

[quietcuite]

No z it's okay at least there's hope for men who have hairy chest/body and don't shave it. 🤓
How do you think about guys who opt to shave their chest/belly and even shave legs? Be frank

[Babygirl_S]

I don't like it.

[quietcuite]

That's different from what the current social trend is.
But how hairy is the question? What if its on his whole chest AND abdomen , whole legs AND thighs?

[Babygirl_S]

https://pin.it/4klEQxh

[Babygirl_S]

He is the right amount of hairy I like.

[quietcuite]

And if it's a lot more than this?

[Babygirl_S]

I need to see an example.

[quietcuite]

Being level 1 I can't post links or pics...
Maybe hair on the whole chest and stomach , make it denser and somewhat coarser than what the guy in the pic has.

[Babygirl_S]

https://pin.it/1B1L6Do More than this?

[quietcuite]

A bit more than this but ALL over the chest and whole stomach
So?

[Babygirl_S]

It's fine as long as there's no hair on his back.

[quietcuite]

Okay. Ummm. I am curious why like that hairs? Looks nice? I doubt.
Feels nice to touch? I guess not.
Also you find it ok when it's visible from the top of the shirt button?

[Babygirl_S]

I like everything about it.

[quietcuite]

But you never see any guy with hairy chest/legs in movies, pornography, modelling etc

[Babygirl_S]

Have you seen Superman?

[quietcuite]

Umm no. Why? He has somewhat hairy chest?

[Babygirl_S]

He didn't shave for the movie.

[quietcuite]

Was he visibly hairy and still didn't shave or he wasn't having visible body hair as women do and hence not needed to shave?

[Babygirl_S]

The first pic is from the movie.

[GoldenCage]

Hey young man.. who hurt you?

Men are beautiful creatures let's make that established. And many men do take care of themselves. Hope you weren't high when asked this question?

[quietcuite]

Dear young woman, no I wasn't high when u asked this question
😱😌

[GoldenCage]

lol I was just messing with you. You looked like someone who can take a joke. Anyways obviously you like women. What makes you think we don't ginuinely like men and find them attractive?

[quietcuite]

Because at a physical level male body and face isn't anywhere near a woman's physical charm , aesthetics and traits hence I wonder how come women can ignore the charm , appeal and sexual attractiveness of other women and opt for lesser aesthetic male body

[GoldenCage]

Check men on social media and magazines. What about all these male actors? dude men are not hairy and nasty. Many men are very esthetically appealing and damn look good.

Do you discribe yourself in these polls 😜

[quietcuite]

Hahaha... well.. yeah am hairy for a male.. so maybe I describe myself in polls 🤣😋🤪
And let me tell mostly men are quite hairy compared next to a woman's body and face... let's be honest now 👻

[quietcuite]

Girls profile looks much better on social media like insta / twitter

[GoldenCage]

I knew it 🤣🤣

Listen you hairy man.. not all men are hairy. In my family men aren't hairy at all. they do have beards but no chest, shoulders, or back hair naturally. So no your assumptions are wrong. But there are many ethnicities that are just more hairy and obviously didn't go extent lol. Some women are into that shit haha.

Just post your pictures and ask women how do you look and listen. Stop trying to analyze attraction laws for men and women here dud

[quietcuite]

Do the men in your family/ethnicity even have naturally hairless legs and thighs the way woman's is? And arms?
Many men I guess have quite coarse leg and thighs hair anyway and also beard... unlike the women

[GoldenCage]

Dude just Lazer your hair and look as smooth as women.. you are obsessed man

[quietcuite]

Hehehahahaha
But I would have to spend so much for something that women naturally enjoy on their bodies 🤔😋

[GoldenCage]

you really believe that? what are you 12 😂

[quietcuite]

Believe what? 🤔

[NicoletteXO]

Dude... you think women naturally have no hair on their legs? Now I'm thinking he was high after all hahah

[GoldenCage]

@NicolletteXO ikr 😂

[quietcuite]

@NicoletteXO dear madam heck YES women have almost no hair on thighs and whatever they have on lower legs is NOTHING compared to a man's leg and thigh hairs

[NicoletteXO]

Newsflash honey - those women shaved, waxed or lasered their hair off. Women all have hairy legs if they don't. I can't believe you didn't know this.

[GoldenCage]

some do have lots of body hair and some don't but so is men. We are all different. Men are encouraged to keep their hair on their legs and arms. women are encouraged to shave it. Yes on average women are not as hairy as men but you really worry too much 😪

[quietcuite]

Yeah... I compare myself with a woman's skin and then I feel hairy messy beast next to her skin

[GoldenCage]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🦍

[quietcuite]

I don't get it

[HinamiItoh]

Well... I don't really know much because I'm kind of lesbian and is into girls... It's probably because we are made to be with boys? To make babies with them XD...

[quietcuite]

How do you think about boys body,?

[HinamiItoh]

Well... I think it's kind of confusing XD...

[quietcuite]

What's confusing

[HinamiItoh]

Well... It's kind of hard to explain... It's kind of wild... I'm not really attracted into a guy's body

[Cherry234]

I voted E. I think they do provide better emotional connection because I find them easier to open up to and also because I'm straight

[quietcuite]

Straight? But how and why

[Cherry234]

You mean why I'm straight?

[quietcuite]

Yeah lol. I mean.. what's meant by " because I'm straight".

[Cherry234]

I'm not sexually attracted to women so I don't feel a connection with them sexually and emotionally

[quietcuite]

Even though women ARE MUCH beautiful aesthetic and charming what about males makes them more sexually attrative? I wonder

[Cherry234]

I really don't know

[SkyCastle90]

I'm just heterosexual. Skinny, fat, tall, or short, doesn't matter; men are sexy. Add a beard, a sprinkle of chest hair, and strong arms to give me a bear hug and I'm in heaven.

[quietcuite]

You'd be in heaven even from a skinny short built guy with a carpet of chest hair hugging you?

[SkyCastle90]

Yup. One of the reasons I find appealing about men is due to them not being women. The more a man is unapologetically a guy in looks, mannerisms, and all the more attractive.

Of course looks alone won't do, he'll need to be a decent person (i. e. not abusive) for dating to be an option.

[quietcuite]

But if a guy is as short as an average woman is and is even skinny built then how is he manly man and not so womanly? Lol
You do like a hairy male body too?

[rachel776]

sometimes just because someone asks, sometimes we've had our eye on them for a long time, sometimes just random, catching us in the right mood at a particular time

[quietcuite]

I mean why not go for women for sex and relationships if they're having other things as well which you mentioned above , since women and girls do have more physical beauty and emotionally more mature too?

[CatWithAMellonBrain]

sexualities exist. Just be with whoever u want to be with? No gender is that hopeless in terms of attractiveness or at least the statement is just too generalising...

[quietcuite]

Yeah in general men lack that physical aesthetics/charm/beauty and sexual appeal compared to the women. Agree?

[CatWithAMellonBrain]

Hm its a very genralised statement. Some guys are attractive some aren't.

[quietcuite]

As a female how do you think about women / female body especially genital area?

[CatWithAMellonBrain]

Um same thing? Some are attractive some aren't?

[quietcuite]

Are you more attracted to male parts of female and why?

[CatWithAMellonBrain]

Both? Cause they both can be nice?

[quietcuite]

Oyeah? Is it?

[snowgirl123]

I like men for romance and for relationships

[quietcuite]

But why not women although the women and girls are much more beautiful, aesthetic and sexy?

[snowgirl123]

I'm sorry it's just my preference. but everyone's free to enjoy life as they please

[quietcuite]

Yeah. Although I do feel women are better looking and that even men would be better if they looked like women

[Anonymous]

You are a guy you’re not supposed to find guys attractive.

[quietcuite]

Do you find only men more aesthetic and sexy instead of beautiful sexy women?

[Flower7]

Because they have penises.

[quietcuite]

So? What's in a penis... that makes women choose men over other beautiful curvy smooth skinned women?

[quietcuite]

Vote too

[Flower7]

I can’t vote because none of your choices match my answer.

[quietcuite]

Whole body and fac of men is uglier yet just having penis makes you choose men over women because penis provide sexual pleasure? Although penis is uglier than vagina and boob?

[Flower7]

That’s just your opinion.

[quietcuite]

That was my question to you. Is it so or what. Because you simply said because they have penis... so what's nice about penis although most women say it loos weird creature type thing

[Anonymous]

Because I think men are hot

[quietcuite]

Hot than women?
Although women are more aesthetic and beautiful?

[quietcuite]

Can you elaborate a but how so?

[Opinion Owner]

I’m not sexually attracted to women so yeah men are hotter. Many body parts of a man can he deemed as aesthetically pleasing, I like how broad and square a man’s shoulder is and their forearms all the way do their hands are delicious. The nape and overall upper back of a man is also super hot and strong looking. I guess I find man attractive bcs their features are the opposite of my more rounded and soft body/facial features as a woman

[quietcuite]

Ah I see it. As a male I don't see anything nice in those things at all. It seems so plain and boring to me actually compared to female form

[quietcuite]

Facial hair and body hair is a useless ugly thing on men and it could be better if it never existed?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah it’s the reversed for me, as a women I’m used to all of my womanly features that I barely pay attention to them whereas the male body I find super fascinating. I actually like some facial and body hair on men, it makes them look more distinguishable as a man to me but to each their own

[quietcuite]

Do you also find male genitals more better looking than the female parts?
Also how about the boobs compared to the male chest hair?