Does this mean... We are DONE... she's no more interest?

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We were texting the last 4 days and last night we were talking about 11:30pm and then no answer back, and she's gone offline no goodnight or anything, So i guessed she fell alseep...

Anyway, She didn't open my message and its 2pm the next day and she's been online like about 10 times... Does this mean she has no more interest? in your opinion...

Does this mean... We are DONE... shes no more interest?

AmandaYVR · Accepted Answer

"She texted me back there saying sorry fell asleep, should i bother texting back?"

Of course you should text her back! I know, it feels like agony [or something sucky] when someone you care about doesn't message you back in the timeline which you would like.

But we humans need to stop catastrophizing communication.
Yes, sometimes people do lose interest, or get miffed or mad, but there are also hundreds of legit reasons why people don't message back. For one thing, maybe the messages they received were 1. Not that important, 2. Not that inspiring, 3. Long and/or detailed, and they know it will take time to respond back so they need to block off more time, and mental focus to do so, 4. Many people are addicted to social media/the internet, and they do things in certain sequences, that are often irrespective of you.
Stuff like this. I could go on but I won't.

Just be cool, man. I know it's hard, but you have to. You can lose people by being too reactive, too impulsive, getting emotional. Show your interest, be nice, be interesting, and then give people a bit of space to see if they come back to you.

Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

Ask... j We can;t possibly know. Sounds like ghosting to me.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

It may just mean that she is preoccupied with something else. This is part of the ambiguity of texting and guessing at "what does it mean?"

slatyb · Accepted Answer

Why are you wasting time texting? Just invite her to coffee or lunch or dinner.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I hate to say this but there are a lot of couples dealing with partners who are bad texters I've been up against this in the past.

luvstoned4him · Answer

many reasons, she is busy, she isn't interested etc. I would give her a couple more days just to text back. You dont want to look desperate

loveslongnails · Answer

For those of you who live your life according to how quickly someone responds to your texts, then yes, you're history. Ancient history.

msc545 · Answer

Give it another week - if you don't hear from her you are done.

Uptowngirl88 · Answer

She's not interested 🥴

rienna888 · Answer

What platform ru chatting on

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

Probably

JosyJosy · Answer

nope

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