Why are Men allowed to sleep with multiple girls and get praised for it but girls are called whores for sleeping with multiple men?

[Anonymous]

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Wether your a male or female if you sleep around and sleep with lots of people your both whores it shouldn’t be ok for one sex to sleep around and not ok for the other sex to do the same

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I hate black people they are whiny ass people

[jaybee281]

I'll explain - Most dudes can't get sex - A few dudes can have a lot of sex but they still need to put in the effort - Let's not make it look like brad Pitt has women sucking his dick on demand - There is still courtship even after the initial attraction which is based on looks and status and personality.. That's what dudes need to be "able" to be to be "whores" as you say - A dude that is a "whore" is praised because most dudes can't be that.

Meanwhile, you as a woman if you look like a 7/10(even if lower) and work in a trash can (But you do take showers and you're clean), extremely shy have no personality whatsoever and no one knows you and respects you - Then you ask any Guy you know even close male friends (especially close male friends) if they'd have sex with you - Almost all of them and by almost all I mean 99% of them - Will say yes - That's why it's different - All you need is your looks and everyone will say yes - With those odds if you're not picky you're just really cheap aka whore..
I personally don't care if I get called a man cunt or whatever term it'd be translated to from French - And I don't care if the woman sleeps around either - But to say that there is no difference is being completely oblivious to reality

[bamesjond0069]

"it shouldn’t be ok for one sex to... and not ok for the other sex to do the same"

This is a completely dumb way to think about this whole idea. I hear men and women both using this same though process for a dumber of issues and its totally moronic and makes no sense.

1. Starts off with the faulty assumption men and women are the same. Obviously not true. Men have penises and testosterone, women give birth. So to say men and women are going to do everything the exact same is stupid.

2. If you dont like ANY double standard then why are you supporting it? You have no say on what the opposite sex wants but you do have sway over what your sex wants... your actions are your vote. So while women cannot stop men from slut shaming, women have decided to not slut shame men. Thats your call and if you were highly concerned with gender equality you would stop sleeping with the most "popular" men. Why dont women slut shame men and make it equal? Because they dont want to... just as men dont want to either.

3. If you strongly want to do something than do it, if you're so concerned with what people think you are weak and a total loser. So there is that too. Last i checked anyone was allowed to be a slut or not if they wanted at least here in the civilized world.

[Inbox]

@bamesjond0069 Not only this, but why don't women come up to approach us? Build good rapport and ask for the #? Text us first? Make sure to make a move and give good sex or we'll never return? Lead? Take all the blame if things go south? They never talk about these things SMH

[bamesjond0069]

@Inbox more good examples... women dont care about those double standards though

[Mantinziza]

because women adhear to the social stigma, as where men don't.

Personally I dont give 2 flying fucks where a women swings her vaggagaga around

But I always find it amazing that women seem to think I care about it,
soooo at that point it must have something to do with society, hmmm,
do what you want.

You won't get judgment from me, guess it just depends on how much you give a shit about other peoples opinions.

[HighValue]

I agree that it is bad for either to do. Everyone should just be honest about their past so that way good people that don't participate in casual sex can avoid people that do so they can better find a good partner for an exclusive LTR.
And the people that do casual sex can stick with each other since that is what they like.

[jshm2]

Because a good strong key that opens many locks is called a skeleton key.

But a lock that gets opened by just any key, is an unreliable and shitty lock,

[Anonymous]

I keep hearing women say that men get praised for sleeping with multiple women but I don't ever see that happening in real life. I'm beginning to believe it's a phenomenon that exists only in your heads. You yourselves admire men who can bed many women but look down on women who do it. Stop projecting.

[Anonymous]

Because it's hard for men to do and not for women.
It's also men's feelings of attraction toward women are different than women feelings of attraction toward men on this subject. In other words, they're different things and they have zero necessity to be identical in this context.

[Opinion Owner]

You can say it shouldn't be okay for either, but you don't decide how men get to feel or anyone else for that matter. So you should be trying to reconcile with it. Complaining isn't going to help.

[SunnySensei]

I don't think anyone is praised for that Miss, no one I know would do such a thing or at least praise someone else for doing that

[notwoke]

because men and women are different and different societal norms apply for them. Why is it "oK" for women to not earn a lot but a man is ridiculed for not being a good breadwinner?

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Same reason why women are allowed to sleep with multiple guys and get praised for it but guys are called fuck boys/players for sleeping with multiple women

[humanearth]

Maybe women should sleep with more women. That might make women cool for being sluty

[anylolone]

Since when men get praised for being slutts?
Guys get called players, dogs, pigs, fuckboys and more for being slutty.

[REDHOTLINE]

Thats not matter. I think nowadays being whore a great and prouded talent for a woman.
Every female should be a bit whore.

[Waldoe]

I do not call them whores, I ask them out on a date...

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you're an idiot AND a racist. Probably a ho yourself.

[Anonymous]

I don't know but its fucked up

[888theGreat]

guys like that are animals

[Jay3344]

Patriarchy I guess

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Who Decided That

[noohair]

Double standard.

[Anonymous]

Its a man's world.