Girls, do unattractive but confident guys scare you?

[Anonymous]

Very confident in not only eye contact but physical confrotation regardless...

Can speak in an "articulate" manner AKA "BIG WORDS

Very methodical as in pre planning days/weeks/months in advance for anything

Is in great shape

Is this "variation" rare?

[Ez-Bri-Z]

"Confident" looking/touching - Scare no. Give me bad vibes and want to stay away? Yes.

Someone articulate - Not in the slightest. I welcome it and would love to just have conversations with them. Now if they are intentionally using "big words" just to try and flex off their intelligence and try to seem smarter, well then we are gonna have a problem.

Planner - No, I married someone who is a planner. I'd probably be their worst nightmare though because I am go with the flow and consider plans to be loose guidelines at best.

Great shape - Why would that be scary?

Rarity of this mindset - Couldn't tell you the statistics obviously, but it feels like so many guys on the internet deem themselves as "intellectuals", with a perfect life plan and somehow are also in good shape. I often find reality is disappointing with them when they get exposed.

[Aurora1010]

I don't know but the person who best fits an unattractive but confident description is Vladimir Putin and yeah I think he's kind of scary but for some reason many women are attracted to him because of his intelligence and attitude, I guess he knows how to charm the public and influence their opinion even.

[Aurora1010]

I guess it depends on the guy, I just find Vladimir Putin scary because despite his outer charm he isn't a good person, it doesn't mean I'll find a normal guy as you described scary but maybe not attractive either, just normal

[Stoner710]

I have heard somebody unattractive that’s 28 but confident and not lie to my food and I’m known as the Renaissance man at the bar I go to

[jasco]

I am proud of any man who tries to be better, self respect and the ability to reflect is always a good personality traits

[Nxtawm]

No not at all, at most the speaking in an articulate manner and using big words along with pre-planning can become annoying easily. It’s completely fine on it’s own if that’s just how they are but overly emphasizing on those points will instead appear like they have a big ego and just wants to announce their “superiority”

[paradiseonearth93]

No men don’t scare me like that anymore. Besides, I normally am attracted to someone’s energy and personality over conventional looks or physical shape so I could care less about that aspect. And big words don’t impress me. All the times guys have used big words to sound smart just makes them worse communicators.

[Flower7]

That’s a very annoying combination. I don’t like when guys are full of themselves, especially when they actually don’t have much going for them. Being able to use a calendar or use “big words”wouldn’t be enough to compensate for that.

[Subarugirl]

Scare me, no. Over confidence and over inflated ego however is not attractive. I don't care if you look like a super model, it's not attractive.

Also no, this "variation" is not at all rare.

[MelaninQueen21]

Being attractive doesn't always refers to the appearance of the person you're looking at. Attractiveness comes in all shapes and sizes.

[Ninani]

Would only "scare" me if he repeatedly crossed my boundaries.

[DizzyDesii]

Just because i dont find him attractive doesn't mean others won't. I’d just be proud he knows how to carry himself. And i’d wish him well

[PrettyPriya]

Confidence does not scare me. Overconfidence doesn't either, but it is a turnoff.

[CandaceSims201]

I am not unattactived but I hate guys that have super big ego and too overly confidence is not the same thing as being confident.

[thaivrb]

it depends on what he would use this confidence for. if he automatically assumes i like him, for example, because "oh im so cool", then id be scared and pissed. and confused. like, wth?

[Anonymous]

No they don’t scare me they are usually great friends.

[CarolineW]

No, it's easy to bring over confident guys down

[ItsMeElliana]

yes they do, theyre cute

[Nikki1989]

No, not at all.

[Toldol2]

We love them

[Uptowngirl88]

Does he have money?

[siseñor]

no <bruh>

[sungie28]

No it is attractive

[disgustingweebtrash]

Unattractive = creep

[Subarugirl]

Only if they are being creepy

[disgustingweebtrash]

Wrong - halo effect
If someone is attractive you're more likely to overlook faults and red flags

Men are more guilty of this as most men find most women attractive but even women they dont find attractive they're not quick to shame them for trying

[Subarugirl]

Well if people could take no for an answer and not be creepy towards someone it wouldn't be an issue now would it.

[disgustingweebtrash]

That refuted nothing I said

[Lily_mary_13]

Of course not